Actually a lot of scientists do believe that it is the most likely explanation. Okay lets say if it was you. What social factors do you think you can go through growing up that would make you like men?
See the study is inconclusive, with basically only arguments.
It's in medical books, that it was previously thought to be "in-born" BUT later it's established to be a "Lifestyle choice"
... So I'm asking your argument, how does someone become gay? What happens to them that they become gay. ...... Now the question for you finally is, how do men become gay? Considering they have their first sexual experience during adulthood. What is your theory in all this? I'm sure you can think, right? So think and tell me what you think happens to a human being that they contract this mental disorder you describe....
I'm NOT one
trust me... nor is he one i guess.
Anyways I tried to explain a little in terms of developing a "CRAVING" in my last post.
It's NOT a mental disorder any more than craving for coffee or drug addiction... You start it by
choice, you are NOT born druggy or coffee addict.
It's about control on oneself,,, I was offered smoke once, I refused. I was lured by chicks few times I practiced self-control. At my work place coffee is free, I avoid it... Some of my friends drink alcoholic beverages & tried to pressure many times but I held my position. Similarly one may get aroused, especially when growing up, by girls, own hand, pillow, bed, tight jeans or underwear, & even skin contact with same gender person
or an animal for that matter ... Now it's upto person's self-control which way he chooses to gratify himself.
in other words it's a LIFE-Style choice -&- NOT an in-born impulse... With repeated use of one particular method
plus due to lack of self-restraint, one can become addicted to that method, at that point it would
falsely feel as if one was "born that way".
Just because someone develops feelings towards cattle bcoz he did not practice control over himself & ended up developing a craving, does NOT mean we should legalize marriage b/w man & cattle...
Similarly any perverted way of having sex does NOT mandate legal status.
There was a lady (& it's been printed in magazines) who said she had feelings towards her father & they entered in a relationship... What if more & more ppl started to "Come Out" (as an indian postulated above) with such feelings, would it be time to allow incest-ful marriages then...!!!
homosexuality should be dealt-with just like we deal with smoking or drugs.... BAN them. & force ppl to quit this craving that they entered by "CHOICE"...