This your fallacy and your drawback and ultimately your destruction as a apologetic Hindu.When facing extremists you fight them in a even more extremist way.People haven't learnt anything from prithviraj chauhan or how Kashmiri Pandits and Hindus in Pak & Bangladesh were and are still being persecuted?If you cannot open your eyes to danger then you are bound to repeat the same fate your ancestors had because in trying to be morally better than them you are dooming yourself.In today's war there is no morality.Honor is shown to only Honorable opponents.Krishna instructed Arjuna to kill Karna & Bhima to kill duryodhana breaking honorable rules of war of that time why?Barbarians don't deserve honor they only deserve reply in the language they understand more barbarity.We should adapt and do whatever is necessary for our survival sticking to old age tradition of morally right will lead to your doom.That has been the main drawback of hindus,they talk too much about honor,rules forgetting the other guy has no honor and doesn't play by rules.
Remove that morally right and throw it in a dustbin which is of no use and didn't help you a bit, it made you almost extinct in your own land .What good is such thing for?
I for one will do whatever is necessary,learn from shivaji fight even more dirtier than them that's the only thing they respect.As krishna said have no remorse,don't worry about the action you perform or fruit or result of your action,it is divine will and it will happen whether you take part in it or not,do what is necessary and leave the rest to god.
"So no remorse and no mercy" should be every Hindus slogan.
In the case of beating up women, I am with modern thought and I will say let the Islamists beat their women as they like.But how will you tackle those who keep their women in burkha & locked up while ogling and abduct & rape kill your womenfolk?
Teach them what mullahs do and how barbaric they are and how they target women of other communities.If you keep your secular pretensions,politically correct and apologetic Hindu stance then you and your family is doomed.