'Having a Second Kid Isn't as Simple as Adding Another Pair of Chopsticks'

[NiceGuy]

the kindergarten teacher cannot help anything?
1. put him in more playing daytime.
2. kids need diaper for night time until they are at 3 as late.
3. alway turn off the light when go to sleep.

Yeah, my wife always wake up and soothe the kid, but I can not get back to sleep easily after that , so I always feel sleepy when I go to work.

Seem like and cant stand to have 1 more kid, my eyes look like panda's eyes now

 

[BoQ77]

Yeah, my wife always weak up and soothe the kid, but I can not get back to sleep easily after that , so I always feel sleepy when I go to work.

Seem like and cant stand to have 1 more kids, my eyes look like panda's eyes now

That's why women is mother of humanbeing.

Why you never think to share her work? Try to Look at the sleeping child in your hands, once !!! Pls

 

[cnleio]

The condition of 2 kids family in China is hard, doesn't means other condition is hard too. We could have 1 bedroom for each kid of 3 in Hanoi, Vietnam. And we could bring them to go aboard for tourism annually, FYI.
It's popular to see 2 or 2+ kids in a family all over the world, incl. Vietnam. There's living good condition or not.

Even only child family in China is unhappy too.

I or anyone is not a unconscious one. We have been 2 kids model too ( my parent has me and my sister ) for some decades, but now more people ( like me ) think that it's better to have more than 2.

In one child family, if there's a death of that child due to accident, war, or murder ... at 20 years old, how poor that family tree is. Tell me.

In 3 kids model, parents are stars, 1 kid model, the kid is the star.

lol ... i had said ur family can't stand for most Vietnamese family there ... obviously a rich-class in Vietnam even go aboard for tourism annually ... why not visit China, bro ?

Im the only one child for my parents, im happy ... but i support 2x kids in China, fortunately 2013 China changed the law the only Child family like me can legally have 2x kids now ... of course if u have enough money to pay official tax (20,000 per kid) u also can have many kids as ur wish in China. U and me ... it's obvious we have different living attitudes in two different countries.

Only my 1st house in China, it bringed me over million value here ... but i still need work harder & save money for another one in this city. After working hard of many years, i will be a flying-man and enjoy life in different China cities, coz my parents & me have more than two houses in China maybe more in future. Before that, right now i need work and earn more money for my family and for my kid ... i have 3x years didn't travel anywhere coz busy. But in China ... im just a normal middle-class here.

 

[Aepsilons]

He is just a 5-month kid, cry and pee all night , night mare for me

lol ... i had said ur family can't stand for most Vietnamese family there ... obviously a rich-class in Vietnam even go aboard for tourism ... why not visit China, bro ?

Im the only one child for my parents, im happy ... but i support 2x kids in China, fortunately 2013 China changed the law the only Child family like me can legally have 2x kids now ... of course if u have enough money to pay official tax (20,000 per kid) u also can have many kids in China. U and me ... it's obvious we have different living attitudes in two different countries.

You're the only child in your family, bro? Let me ask you a question: Do you ever feel lonely during family events? Personally, do you wish you had siblings ?

 

[cnleio]

You're the only child in your family, bro? Let me ask you a question: Do you ever feel lonely during family events? Personally, do you wish you had siblings ?

Few time to feel lonely, coz my parents have more than 5x brothers/sisters and we living very close in the city ... as a kid, most time i play with my uncle/aunt's children ... when i go to school until to university, i play with my classmates.

To be honest, i didn't feel lonely coz i always can find friends around myself. Only for the family tree, i support 2x kids in China.

 

[NiceGuy]

You're the only child in your family, bro? Let me ask you a question: Do you ever feel lonely during family events? Personally, do you wish you had siblings ?

I have a sister, but she has lived over sea since I was 15, so, it just like I dont have any siblings. I dont feel lonely coz I travelled around VN and only went back home when I spent all money I earned

Seem like when u live like the only child in the family, u will hard so hard to take care of another member even he/she is ur kid

 

[NiceGuy]

That's why women is mother of humanbeing.

Why you never think to share her work? Try to Look at the sleeping child in your hands, once !!! Pls

My wife know I'm very bad at taking care of my kid, I've never looked after any one before . Luckily, I know how to cook and wash the diapers

 

[cnleio]

My wife know I'm very bad at taking care of my kid, I've never looked after any one before . Luckily, I know how to cook and wash the diapers

U r a good husband ... but at least let ur wife help u or teach u.

 

[Aepsilons]

For me, I grew up in a large family. My father is eldest of 7 children; my mother has 4 other siblings.

My paternal grandfather had 6 siblings, my paternal grandmother was eldest of 12 children.

My maternal grandfather was eldest of 10 children, and maternal grandmother was eldest of 4 children.

 

[cnleio]

For me, I grew up in a large family. My father is eldest of 7 children; my mother has 4 other siblings.

My paternal grandfather had 6 siblings, my paternal grandmother was eldest of 12 children.

My maternal grandfather was eldest of 10 children, and maternal grandmother was eldest of 4 children.

My father is 2nd of 3 children, my mother is eldest of 4 children ... and all of us live closer in one city ... so when im a kid, i have at least 7x playmates in my family (im 7 years older than my youngest brother). LOL !

 

[Aepsilons]

My wife know I'm very bad at taking care of my kid, I've never looked after any one before . Luckily, I know how to cook and wash the diapers

As the saying goes, "it takes a village to raise a child." Its good to hear you are active in raising your child.

If your baby is a girl, make sure to be loving to them. It is daughter that will take care of you when you're older.

 

[Aepsilons]

My father is 2nd of 3 children, my mother is eldest of 4 children ... and all of us live closer in one city ... so when im a kid, i have at least 7x playmates in my family. LOL !

Both my parents are from the same prefecture, too. My father's side hail from Sapporo, my mother's family are from a northern subprefecture known as Kushiro shicho. Family events are always fun because its a time to catch up with my cousins ! I have 4 cousins in my father's side, and in my mother's side i have 8 cousins. So total around 12 cousins! he he he!

When my Ojisan (grandfather) was still alive, he would always mistaken us sometimes, LOL.
But i like to say that i was his most favorite grandson.

 

[BoQ77]

Both my parents are from the same prefecture, too. My father's side hail from Sapporo, my mother's family are from a northern subprefecture known as Kushiro shicho. Family events are always fun because its a time to catch up with my cousins ! I have 4 cousins in my father's side, and in my mother's side i have 8 cousins. So total around 12 cousins! he he he!

When my Ojisan (grandfather) was still alive, he would always mistaken us sometimes, LOL.
But i like to say that i was his most favorite grandson.

so happy you are.
in our case, there're cousins from brothers of my maternal grandpa for example :
I don't need any help from friend for this event :

 

[cnleio]

Both my parents are from the same prefecture, too. My father's side hail from Sapporo, my mother's family are from a northern subprefecture known as Kushiro shicho. Family events are always fun because its a time to catch up with my cousins ! I have 4 cousins in my father's side, and in my mother's side i have 8 cousins. So total around 12 cousins! he he he!

When my Ojisan (grandfather) was still alive, he would always mistaken us sometimes, LOL.
But i like to say that i was his most favorite grandson.

My father's side is local ppl in JiangXi province, my mother's side from ShanDong province ... my groundpa and my maternal grandpa they r colleagues working in the same unit ... my parents they r schoolmates in the same school ... at last they make a family.

 

[BoQ77]

My father's side is local ppl in JiangXi province, my mother's side from ShanDong province ... my groundpa and my maternal grandpa they r colleagues working in the same unit ... my parents they r schoolmates in the same school ... at last they make a family.

how about your girlfriend, next door?

my wife and me get to know each other from social network.
We chat a lot via Yahoo chat during 2004-2005, long before face to face meeting