I do have relatives who went through the war and I've watched those local dramas depicting the war. I'm not born in that era so of course I'm spared from the agony and I don't see things that way. But the same can be said for the majority of posters here.
But that's not the point I'm making. I'm not talking about Japanese war atrocities or the apologies they didn't make. I'm talking about the mentality of the Chinese.
森林法则,天朝思想. The belief that might and money is right (whether between countries or between individuals), the arrogance (as a country or as an individual), these are the views many Chinese still hold today and is exactly what turns off other countries. China can surpass the US to be the strongest country in the world but she won't command respect with that mentality. Would you respect a rich guy if he's arrogant and uses money to judge a person's worth? 有钱是高端人口,没钱就是低端人口?
That's one of the societal problems of China and is the major obstacle to her soft power. And I'm saying this as a friendly advice rather than ridiculing China, because y'all China to be seen as that sort of rich guy isn't it? But of course there will still be Chinese who think Singaporeans (and other developed Asian economies) look down on them and we shall regret as long as China gets richer in the future, no?