Personally, I never indulge in gloating but I think a lot of Pakistanis would be better disposed to sympathies with your losses if, once in a while, your countrymen could find some inner strength and condemn the atrocities committed against Kashmiris by your army and government in the name of security.I am not your bhai.. and our culture is definitely not the same. I might have some affinity to some sane Pakistanis at a human level but most definitely not with the likes of you.
As I have said, I never indulge in gloating at the death of anyone but I don't have any time for one eyed and selective outrage either.
Respect is not an entitlement just because you happen to have a bigger country or because your economy is doing a bit better at this moment in time.
It has to be earned by magnanimity and humility and not demanded as of right.
Pakistan has never received any respect or acceptance from India and Indians, please don't demand or expect any from Pakistan and Pakistanis.