Feminism- the root cause of divorces in Pakistan?

[LeGenD]

not really
women are now being educated to not take the sh*t that her husband and her in laws give her, in the garb of "guzara and compromise"
and that frankly, is a good thing

Higher number of broken families are never a good thing for (any) society in the long-term. Children being brought up in broken homes, are likely to develop psychological problems on average.

Compromises are necessary to make things work in all aspects of your life, not only in a marriage.

Suppose that you are offered a job in a company, you will be made to sign a contract (terms and conditions; acceptance of rules) by the employer before joining it. There goes your freedom of expression in the professional work environment, in the dustbin.

Of-course, this isn't to say that a woman must be made to stay in a bad marriage and/or with an irresponsible husband.

However, bad marriages do not just emerge out of the blue. Women are equally responsible in making them bad everywhere, thanks to spread of cancerous Feminism.

 

[Trango Towers]

that is a great action by you Sir,
In Shaa Allah will reward you greatly for this
I pray for your sucess in this, and in future such pious actions that you may take

Inshallah the real battle is to start tomorrow she now has legal aid. Her lawyers appointment tomorrow. Her housing money has been granted but she need to wait another few weeks before its given. He now has purchased 2 ipad and used them as leverage to prevent kids from talking to their mom. Takes the kids out of the house at 5.45 tob6am with out food. All day in starbucks and so forth. One frappe between the kids and evening meal of eggs with something. The kids agres are 12, 10,6 and 3. Only the three year old remains with the mom and today even she was taken at 6am. But inshallab soon. This lady I have been working on her self esteem. She is smart and a graduate but he made her incapable. She now has a job. Sorted her housing. Confronted her abuser and all his family and even her own family. In the meantime if kids talk to mom no ipad. So the older two dont talk at all. He has made up stories the mother is sleeping with just about everyone. It's a sick sick crazy situation. Funny thing is even I have been accused of an affair and I have never met this lady. I so much want to punch this man. Oh he also has certified mental.health issues and 4 years ago tried to commit suicide. The asshole failed even at that

 

[B.K.N]

higher number of men will avoid marriages in the near future.

And that's good thing population of Pakistan is already more than 200 million
Shaikh Rashid best politician of Pakistan after Imran Khan never got married

 

[Pakistani Fighter]

Talks total shit and for me the last straw was when he send me a gay message[/QUOTE]

What was your reply?

 

[litman]

Marriage is bad a thing getting married is like destroying your life or committing sucide so jis had tak possible ho marriage sa bachna chahiye

i dont know why i am replying to you but cant stay quiet when someone speaks non sense against something liked by Allah almighty and the Prophet.

 

[Ra's al Ghul]

feminism is just a new phenomena, thre are many other issue which cause divorces.

 

[The Terminator]

Marriage is bad a thing getting married is like destroying your life or committing sucide so jis had tak possible ho marriage sa bachna chahiye

Are you a bit practicing Muslim and Pakistani? I really doubt maybe you are not.

And that's good thing population of Pakistan is already more than 200 million
Shaikh Rashid best politician of Pakistan after Imran Khan never got married

So in your opinion then Sheikh Rasheed etc are better persons than all the Prophets, their companion and their followers???

I think you are mistakenly here! It's PDF a forum for the public of Islamic Republic of Pakistan where prevailing majority are Muslims and Nikkah is our Prophet's Sunah. We are ordered to do Nikkah.

So what you wanna say to Pakistani Muslims don't do Nikkah?? So what would be the consequences! Sporadic explosion of illegal or extra marital relations as physical/sexual interactions are need of each and every living organism just like food, water, fresh air to breathe etc. So you wanna have million of extra marital couples roaming in the streets of Pakistan having bastard kids of unknown parents with no moral values!
Sorry it's an Islamic civilized society none of your imaginary brothel you dreamt about.

 

[925boy]

Moving away from culture , tradition and Religion...…… Add current "Money world" Mada persit , Media , Drama,
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Good points.

Also, lets not forget a painful but critical point- White and Western countries always push THEIR philosophies on the rest of the world as "normal" and "right", but in the end, its normal and right, FOR THEM. Minorities always end up messed up when they follow White man's format. Liberal White man hates difference between man and woman , so they believe in androgyny, but us minorities and non-whites, we accept and embrace the differences between man and woman. yes we have things to improve and learn, but that wont happen succesfully if we ditch our way of life completely for white man's way of life, forgetting the cultures, objectives, history ,etc is all very different..

 

[airmarshal]

I m divorced twice. Both times married educated Pakistani working women. Both times, it was the woman expecting everything without contributing anything. I dont mean monetary contribution. Each time, the woman had a list of material and non material demands. And as soon as they did not like one thing, they would just withdraw from relationship. For them relation had no meaning. For them, the husband was not a human, but an bank machine. It was such a harrowing experience both times that I had to give up in the end.

And such marriages are not reconcilable. The reason is the marriage intended objective was reaping monetary, material benefits. If the man can provide something better than I can provide myself, I will go along. If not, then you go your way and I go mine. That is the line of thinking. Marriage is not relationship anymore, its transaction.

I dont say men are not wrong. But what has happened to our educated women? They think they can work, they are financially independent, they can dominate kick around their man. This is not acceptable.

More than "feminism," I think the main cause is that women are more independent now.

They don't have the need to rely on male members, they also have degrees and skills in current age.

So with that, of course they feel easier to divorce someone. It's a bad consequence of a good thing.

This is a very materialistic way of thinking and marriage is definitely beyond that. This line of thinking does not let the relationship prosper. Its not just independence. Its unwillingness to share and take all benefit for yourself. Marriage cant be selfish.

 

[Trango Towers]

What was your reply?

Why r u so interested in only this specific point?

But if you must know he is molvi type. Pretender of prayers. Big beard, short trousers. In the politest way I can say here. I took him to task and then informed his wife brother sisters cousins and the whole family by forwarding his message. I dont like such behaviour.

 

[Genghis khan1]

A woman, running a famous marriage bureau in Karachi, accuses young women in a liveshow and claims 'Feminism' to be a cause of large number of divorces in Pakistan.
Source: 92 News

Jis mard ka L acha chaly, os ki aurto laloo nhi calati. Time tested formula. Everyday argument is a sign of bad sex life. 70% divorces occurs due to bad sex life, blame goes both ways. Of course, no body comes out blaming partners for bad sex life.

 

[Sharky]

Wow.. typical south Asian third world thinking. Women can do whatever they want, just like men. No one can dominate each other. And women aren't here to serve men..