Yes indeed. That is how International Diplomacy and Strategic Relations work. But the actual "nuts and bolts" work on the basis of the strengths (relative and absolute) of the two (or more) parties.
Therein lies the difference between India and Pakistan in these matters. Even in the "good ol' days" there was a difference. That has not changed one bit now. If anything the disparities have widened. And that will also be the cause of the differences in the actual trend of the Relations between India and USA. And the trajectory that relation-ship will follow.
For example, India is not looking to get inflicted with the pain of being a "major non-Nato Ally"
. And will make sure not to be. So there will be a difference. Nations seek to use International Relations to their benefits, but those benefits are always commensurate with their own strengths and abilities. Always has been. So there is a difference between US-Saudi relations and US-Panama relations and US-Egypt relations and US-Pakistani relations. Just as the Indo-US relationship will have to be different.
More clearly structured and certainly that kind of "alliance" (
can't love her, can't leave her ); is not going to be written into the screen-play! And if that is not part of the script; then India can go---"What me worry?"