Having one sexual partner/spouse is common practice in South Asia and compare it to how productive are we compared to west?
Really?? I'd beg to differ. One of the largest prostitution and sex trades exist in south Asia and they thrive because of demand (customers), particularly in the land of kamasutra, where the number of people with HIV/Aids is also highest in the world, more than Africa.
They have far better economy so all I am saying is having sex should be just like any other thing people do for fun. Because in fact it is fun. Having fun does not lower your productivity but having fun in excess might do so. Having sex with just one partner like your wife all day long all year and making babies like rats in still unproductive as it is in South Asia.
Who said sex in a monogamous relationship with ones spouse has to only be for the purpose of "making babies like rats"??
And your perception is in fact very wrong. There is hardly any one here who hasnt had multiple sexual partners. My friend doing her phd right now used to have threesome and was very promiscuous. Is she not productive? I do not think so. That is just a life style nothing to do with being productive or not.
Not my perception, but a fact that having multiple sexual partners exposes one to the risk of acquiring multiple STD's, This is based on research and medical studies, not something i'm making up. People who indulge and seek pleasure in such filthy and dangerous behaviors are truly mentally disturbed.
Secondly, you brought up a female friend of yours as "proof" that there is nothing wrong with indulging in promiscuous and risky sexual behavior involving multiple sexual partners, but that is a very weak argument due to many factors:
1). Does your friend share her medical reports with you too??
2). Does she also update you with the medical tests of her sexual partners with whom she engages with in sexual intercourse simultaneously??
And why would she provide you with their medical information and of what relevance is it to you??
3). Did her multiple sexual partners give her the permission to reveal to you their sexual information and medical history/test results?? And why??
4).
Hoe does she know if they (her multiple sexual partners) haven't had sexual contact with other people between the last time they got tested and the time they had sexual contact with her?? How does she know they are being honest??
And why would she tell you this??
It seems to me more like you're making this whole "my friend pHD, threesome" thing up!! No disrespect but it sounds more like a fantasy of yours because its NOT ADDING UP.
Secondly, it was you who linked unproductivity with promiscuity. My original post on this thread took into account promiscuity as one of the many degenerative factors involved in the social/moral decadence prevailing in the Western countries.