Dealing with loss

[Manticore]

My condolences. The news has deeply saddened me. You've got to become a pillar of emotional strength for your mother. Have to face the world more bravely. Your talks with your mom should make her feel safe and hopeful of survival as a family. You might have to make some tough decisions in the financial aspect after talking it with your friends/relatives.
kind regards

 

[nair]

I am sad.... and i feel your pain....... I pray to almighty to provide you the strength to support your family.... No one can replace this loss.....

 

[pursuit of happiness]

My father died yesterday night in a sudden heart attack.Just feeling extremely sad and painful right now,my mother and brother are trying to cope.My mother is especially painful to watch..any suggestions on activity to make me or them feel better?I'm 25.Thank you.

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RIP ..
g8 loss to you...
yes your father was and is most imp person for your mother...so more loss..
let her cry... let her empty out her emotion....
yes its painful but its needed..
make sure all members of family including you... take care of health....
it difficult time ...
try to read gita .. bible... or any other religious book to keep mind in control... (at least it will help )..
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try to be rock solid front of them (mother and brother )
yes it will difficult.. but needed...
if you broke .. it will be more pain to them..
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for you
talk to best friend
empty out your self with them.... it will help you to manage you
.. regularly...keep in touch...with best friend
don't cut yourself...don't be alone and lonely
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Sorry for loss.. may god give your family strength to cope up this loss...
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feeling

 

[Sherlock Holmes]

RIP

Be strong and support your mother. For her you should be brave now.

 

[MastanKhan]

My father died yesterday night in a sudden heart attack.Just feeling extremely sad and painful right now,my mother and brother are trying to cope.My mother is especially painful to watch..any suggestions on activity to make me or them feel better?I'm 25.Thank you.

Hi,

Loss of parents is a terrible loss. I lost my father when I was 19----my world flipped on dime----. My younger sisters don't even remember his face---they know he was there one time---. It took me 15 years to realize that my family was looking upto me.

Mourn the loss with the family---share the good things that he did---talk about his life and achievements with the family but remember---he done his job----now it is upto you to carry on.

If there is property---have it distributed amicably at the earliest---. I am grateful to my uncles, aunts, grand parents that they seperated our share in an expeditious manner and made no claims----that is our family tradition.

How is your mother----you have older or younger siblings---where do you stand in your household----. Who is going to take care of your mother---is she independant----?

 

[Contrarian]

Extremely sorry for your loss.

Only thing right now is for you to be strong and present a brave face and strong support for your mother and brother. You take time for grieving later.

May he rest in peace. Om Shanti.

 

[Multani]

My father died yesterday night in a sudden heart attack.Just feeling extremely sad and painful right now,my mother and brother are trying to cope.My mother is especially painful to watch..any suggestions on activity to make me or them feel better?I'm 25.Thank you.

My deepest condolences Austerlitz. What you can do for such an unimaginable loss, is to invite your grand-parents on either father or mom's side, aur your elderly uncles/aunts from either side. At this moment, elders are the one whose presence can offer the most support and patience and solace.

Get together as a family as many family members as possible to raise hope. You need their advice more than any other.

 

[AUSTERLITZ]

Thank you all.

 

[Indischer]

I'm sorry about your loss man. I hope that you find the will within you to bear this loss.

 

[RazPaK]

Sorry for you loss bro.

Go somewhere by yourself, and cry it out. After that, be the stong shoulder that the rest of your family needs.

 

[AUSTERLITZ]

Hi,

Loss of parents is a terrible loss. I lost my father when I was 19----my world flipped on dime----. My younger sisters don't even remember his face---they know he was there one time---. It took me 15 years to realize that my family was looking upto me.

Mourn the loss with the family---share the good things that he did---talk about his life and achievements with the family but remember---he done his job----now it is upto you to carry on.

If there is property---have it distributed amicably at the earliest---. I am grateful to my uncles, aunts, grand parents that they seperated our share in an expeditious manner and made no claims----that is our family tradition.

How is your mother----you have older or younger siblings---where do you stand in your household----. Who is going to take care of your mother---is she independant----?

Property not an issue.I am eldest of 2 brothers.my brother is 23.And yes my aunts are supporting my mother very well thankfully,they have stayed over.All my grandparents on both sides save my grandma on father's side are dead,and she is equally miserable right now.My mother has parental land holdings,plus fathers pension and mediclaim and savings so finance is not currently a huge issue.Me and my brother will be independent in that regard in 2-3 years.Its mainly emotional side.Thank you anyway.

 

[DESERT FIGHTER]

Rest in peace... may Allah give you n your family patience and strength bro... very big loss... my condolences....

 

[khanboy007]

Property not an issue.I am eldest of 2 brothers.my brother is 23.And yes my aunts are supporting my mother very well thankfully,they have stayed over.All my grandparents on both sides save my grandma on father's side are dead,and she is equally miserable right now.My mother has parental land holdings,plus fathers pension and mediclaim and savings so finance is not currently a huge issue.Me and my brother will be independent in that regard in 2-3 years.Its mainly emotional side.Thank you anyway.

RIP

very sad to hear about your loss.....

stand firm like a man and if you cant help yourself....at least act like you are just fine to keep things in better shape....you may cry or regret it alone and at that time let it all out....as you mentioned you are the eldest brother amongst ur family...so show support....as you are more responsible

 

[livingdead]

you seem to have lost him at very young age... be with your friends.. keep yourself engaged... have some short term goals and medium term goals for yourself.
if you are religious, it will be easier for you to cope.

 

[Pak_Track]

I'm sorry for your last. May Allah give you patience.