You would prefer her to be a burkha wearing good Muslim girl , living in a mini Pakistan in the usa ?Agreed - it's not about how they are raised as much as the views/ideology they themselves choose to adopt.
A Pakistani American girl I know, born and raised in the US by practicing Muslims parents (not Hijab or Burqa types) is a raging liberal who smokes pot, dropped out of medical school to become a teacher and supports a complete de-funding of police with 'communities stepping up to look out for each other' and 'greater social services'.
In some ways, her views about de-funding and disbanding police in the US remind me of Pakistan's woke liberal/leftist elite that want to de-fund, if not completely disband, Pakistan's military and have this Utopian idea of a 'global nation that would just get along in peace if given the chance'.
Why are you guys even in the west when you dislike everything about it ?
Western ideals of individualism, freedom and human rights are derided so freely on this site by migrants, its only befitting that you guys relocate to your home countries.