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A Blonde Tourist in India: A different tale

Get a life dude.. Find some conspiracy's about why Christians aping the west by eating bread toast and corn flakes.. :wave:

LOL.....that is good advice for someone who is looking for public sympathy in an internet forum. Know somebody like that ?
 
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Dude - it is getting more and more boring. Take your hate elsewhere or get a life. What are you trying to prove here taking a potshot at other religious people?

NOPE........expect me to shut down bigots anywhere I find them.

Maybe your advice would be better served on people who claim that their 'expertise is conversion only'. But then again the christian brigades do stick together. :azn:
 
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You have missed some points mentioned by this blonde lady. You didn't open your source, so I add the correct link.

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Did I have any negative experiences with Indian men? Yes, the worst I had was a businessman in my Air India flight from London try to grope my thigh.

But my positive experiences far outweigh the negative ones, even with men. I only had to deal with people trying to sell me stuff and not leaving me alone; and people staring at me.

I am not suggesting India is a heaven for women. You don't need to hear from me the depressing daily occurrences of molestation, sexual assaults and female infanticide.


India & A Blonde Tourist: An alternate account : North, News - India Today
 
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NOP........expect me to shut down bigots anywhere I find them.

Maybe your advice would be better served on people who claim that 'expertise is conversion only'. But then again the christian brigades do stick together. :azn:

Answer me this - what have you done for the country to claim the sole ownership and projecting hate towards other religious people?

And stop assuming everyone who is contradicting you is from different religion. You are a disgrace to my religion.
 
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indian guys go after white / fairskinned women like dogs go after bones, so yes no fairskinned women is safe in India.

LOLLL; then you better not come to India, Ms.Tickolo.
Happy now that you got the attention that you're craving for...... :rofl:
 
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Don't lie dear agent of vatican ........ your area of expertise is disguising your bigotry under the burqa of secularism, 'patriotism' and consistent need to play the victim and seek sympathy (as demonstrated YET again in your post) :D

You have perfected it to an art form :tup:

Learn to quite while you are ahead ...... you still want to play games ? ....expect my replies too... :smokin:

it was a joke.... now stop targeting members ... :disagree:
 
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I have read Michaela Cross's experiences in India several times by now. That makes me no different from a million plus people who too have read her blog.

What's different is that I could have gone through the same harrowing experience as her, because I too have been touring India extensively, alone. And yes, I too am white, in my 20s and a foreign female.


I have traveled alone to many parts of India and am now living in Delhi for over two months. I am overwhelmed with the positive and exciting experiences I have made and the hospitality of Indians towards me.


Why has India been so different to me? Have I been simply lucky? Or have I looked at India very differently to get a very different treatment for myself?


Let me compare notes with some of Michaela's experiences to explain what I am saying.

Do Indian men stare at me? Yes, they do... and so do Indian women and kids, and other European travelers.


They stare with the same curiosity that I get stared at in so many other countries I have traveled to in Africa, South America, Eastern and Southern Europe and other Asian countries.

I guess that is a natural reaction to somebody considered exotic.

When I took my Eritrean friend to my grandmother's village in northern Germany, where foreigners are a rarity, she attracted everyone's looks, some containing a hint of racism.

The stares I got from Italian men were typically accompanied with a "Ciao Bella!" This flirtatious attitude is often welcomed and accepted as part of Italy's macho culture.

In India, it is seen as sexual harassment. Why is an Italian man's stare a compliment and an Indian man's stare a curse, bordering on threat?

Do people take photos of me? Yes, they do... but I take many more photos of them!


We Western travellers typically shoot every monument, sight and many people they come across in India, mostly without asking for permission.

These pictures are posted in our Facebook page or travel blogs. But if an Indian takes a photo of a European, we get irritated and feel our privacy is invaded.


Again, isn't there a double standard here? A white skin's privilege is a brown skin's punishment?

Am I the centre of attention at social events? Yes, I am. Thanks to the immense hospitality of Indians, I had the opportunity to attend five weddings and several festivals.

When I was dancing, lots of people wanted to dance with me, and some also took photos and videos of me.

I was the only white person at these functions, and most people had never seen a white woman dancing to Bollywood tunes.


In my case, the attention I got in these functions was no different from the curious and welcoming attention I received at a wedding party in Kosovo.

Did I have any negative experiences with Indian men? Yes, the worst I had was a businessman in my Air India flight from London try to grope my thigh.

But my positive experiences far outweigh the negative ones, even with men. I only had to deal with people trying to sell me stuff and not leaving me alone; and people staring at me.

However, putting myself in the position of a crafts seller trying to feed his family, and knowing that there is a chance that after annoying a tourist enough, he will give in and buy something, I would also prioritise my family over the tourist.

I have been invited to many Indian homes and have been offered food by the poorest families.

I have hardly ever had to stay in hotels as Indians have welcomed me to stay at their family homes, and then organised me to stay at their wife's cousin's friend's house etc...

On many occasions, dhaba owners or fruit sellers insisted on not taking money from me for the food as I am a guest of India.

Can one generalise my account of India? No, one cannot.

In fact, no one's account can and should be generalised -- one sixth of humanity lives in India; there are many Indias in India; every traveller interacts only with a small fraction of Indians, and can thus only give a tiny fragment of the true Indian experience -- whatever that is.


But I believe that we make our experiences as much as our experiences make us.

I now know Hindi fairly well, but even when I didn't, just speaking a few phrases of Hindi, smiling and being open to chat with people around triggered people's hospitality - and that instilled me with a sense of security.

I have generally been more adapting, less suspicious and more trusting.

For instance, on a recent visit to Kasauli with a female English friend, we wore Kurtis and bangles and joked and chatting with every Indian we interacted with-- chaiwalas, pandits, other Indian tourists.

We started chatting with clothes shop owner and had chai with him. A friend of his insisted on showing us around Kasauli and inviting us to his village.

We ended up having dinner with his family - some delicious daal, sabzi and chawal and looked at his beautiful family photo album.

I feel that many a traveller would have a much more exciting, and "real" experience of India if they would just be a more open and friendly towards Indians.

A very thin line divides intrusion from friendliness. I can interpret one as the other, depending on whether I am apprehensive or open.

I am not suggesting India is a heaven for women. You don't need to hear from me the depressing daily occurrences of molestation, sexual assaults and female infanticide.

However, my experience of India and behaviour of Indians towards me has been incredibly positive. Many of my friends had similar experience.


I hope India treats more foreign travellers like it has treated me. Rather than the treatment Michaela received.

Soon, I will get back to London to continue my Bachelor's at LSE. I will have to adjust to a life without any special attention - no ghaar ka khaana from chaiwalas, no chaat papri, no Bollywood dancing and no poojas.

Maybe I will refuse to readjust and come back to India next year.



Read more at: India & A Blonde Tourist: An alternate account : North, News - India Today

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A 'blonde' tourist...
Nuff said!
 
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Answer me this - what have you done for the country to claim the sole ownership and projecting hate towards other religious people?

And stop assuming everywhere who is contradicting you is from different religion. You are a disgrace to my religion.

You do realize that I do not have to answer to your absurd assumptions and stawmen defense, don't you ?

You are a disgrace to your religion.
 
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@seiko - you have to stop responding to him mate.

Fine.. But mate, he is questioning our patriotism for this country just because we belong to other religion.. What ever counter argument I put forward, he was replying with I am playing victim card here or clutching to strawmen argument here.. You did see what kind of non sense he is spreading over here about my religion.. I mean its been a phenomena here talking thrash about minorities here and what difference we have with our neighboring country mate?? These kind of idiots are running like mad dogs and spread all kind of nonsense here in the name of truth.. People from our country are reading this threads.. These people are only here to increase the religious hatred against each other..
 
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ontopic, there is no way one can explain away eve teasing, its degrading to women and psychologically damaging. There should be zero tolerance for this behaviour, as these are opportunist crimes, once you stop them from happening there, it wont go further.
 
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