See, that's what I am referring to - instead of dealing with the problem in a forthright manner - you don't get killed in blasts, at least you say, that is to political violence is also something the Indian is innocent of --- See, it's this kind of attempt to not deal with the issue that people, in my opinion, are correct, to bust you on - and I think if you didn't need to pretend that the problems don't exist, you wouldn't feel that these are attempts to antogonize or belittle you.
We hear from Indian interlocutors about a identity crisis -- reading some of your posts I begin to understand that the "not India" has a mirror image "Not Pakistan" - both these are a disservice to discussion and debate.
Issues remain unexamined, no real understanding is arrived at, no one is enriched or better off than before they began reading - just becomes a waste - do think about that.
