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Why Can't Boys/Men Cry?

My mother friend is awan and wanted to get her daughter married to me. Girl was very beautiful, but her daddy was army officer, so I was like hell no.

Lol. Well it is hard to find an Awan who is not a soldier/policemen etc. Still, imagine your kid with a serious loony Awan side, and the jovial but sturdy Arain side. :lol:


You know why I don't believe you? Because a woman would instantly say yes they are a woman. No woman likes being referred to as a man. :D
 
Lol. Well it is hard to find an Awan who is not a soldier/policemen etc. Still, imagine your kid with a serious loony Awan side, and the jovial but sturdy Arain side. :lol:

Punjabis are way too happy and joking to be crying and emotional. We get the occasional thug tear. Just one.
 
I don't feel the need to project an image of a great warrior on the internet. If I wanted to abuse someone, I would do it to their face. Hiding behind a screen is childish. The last time I had a physical fight was years ago, and the kid ended up in the nalli.

Don't mind this, but I was told only women and boys fight with their mouth, not men. :)

Haha..
Who ever said it about women , said it right . They have a very sharp tongue used as weapon and can do more harm than sword.
Women company annoys me , I feel at home with my brotherly men . I have the level of thinking as them.
@Well.wisher Don't mind my Arain prah, he has a great sense of humour. Love his banter.
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I dont mind him ... hes just a super nut case of pdf ..
Sometimes he is annoying .. duh .. i want to him on the wall .. but i prefer ignore him so i could deal with the real machos .
 
Haha..
Who ever said it about women , said it right . They have a very sharp tongue used as weapon and can do more harm than sword.
Women company annoys me , I feel at home with my brotherly men . I have the level of thinking as them.

I dont mind him ... hes just a super nut case of pdf ..
Sometimes he is annoying .. duh .. i want to him on the wall .. but i prefer ignore him so i could deal with the real machos .

You only ignore the ones you love. Something I learned about Pakistani female nature.
 
Learn about my nature ..
I ignore those who smell bad.

I don't ignore anyone because life is too short and boring.

It is seen as weak,real men dont cry.
We can hardly admit wrongs,how can you expect us to cry?

Markus cried because Italy didn't qualify for the World Cup. So much for being a Roman gladiator. :rofl:
 
This society has made things so hard for men when it comes to emotions. Why is that?
Crying in difficult times for men or boys don't make them weak. Is it the fault of this society as whole or the environment an individual is raised in play a role? I was reading a report on this and one psychologist stated, All their lives they were told, “Real men don’t cry,”. But I personally believe, only real men cry. Also, scientifically speaking, it's proven good to cry out for your health both emotional health and physical. It releases toxin from the body.

In another article I got read this, "From a physiological perspective, when humans get stressed there is an increase in adrenocorticotropic hormone (ACTH). Over time as this builds it leads to more stress that demands to be released." That is actually very scary. Severe depression at least once make the thought of killing yourself cross. Very unfortaunelty, many times people do attempt suicide.
Additionally, of you talk about class system, I have observed in middle or lower middle, let alone crying in depression, even crying on death if someone beloved to you is taken strangely. Men can't even cry on death of his wife, even that I have seen. They always get to hear, "mard bano" (be a man). That is so unfair.

This needs to be changed. It doesn't make you look weak a man. I would ask you all male members and my friends on this forum and visitors to manage the useless pressure of this society and do cry when your heart is heavy.

More power to you all. :cheers:

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Interesting topic..
 
Haha..
Who ever said it about women , said it right . They have a very sharp tongue used as weapon and can do more harm than sword.
Women company annoys me , I feel at home with my brotherly men . I have the level of thinking as them.

I dont mind him ... hes just a super nut case of pdf ..
Sometimes he is annoying .. duh .. i want to him on the wall .. but i prefer ignore him so i could deal with the real machos .

Some women do like stirring crap up. At least the South Asians ones do, don't think I have seen others do it as much.

If you feel home with brotherly men, then it is my guess that you do not have any sisters and were raised with your brothers. Those are the ones who usually have that mentality.

And @lastofthepatriots is the guy I used to read a lot before I joined this forum, was known as razpak back then. I've been a fan since. Loved how he used to wind indians up. No one else can do it quite the same way.:lol:
 
Some women do like stirring crap up. At least the South Asians ones do, don't think I have seen others do it as much.

If you feel home with brotherly men, then it is my guess that you do not have any sisters and were raised with your brothers. Those are the ones who usually have that mentality.

And @lastofthepatriots is the guy I used to read a lot before I joined this forum, was known as razpak back then. I've been a fan since. Loved how he used to wind indians up. No one else can do it quite the same way.:lol:

I've had to tone down my antics. Little sensitive millennials on pdf these days might start cutting their wrists If I go back to my true form as an apex predator.
 
Some women do like stirring crap up. At least the South Asians ones do, don't think I have seen others do it as much.

If you feel home with brotherly men, then it is my guess that you do not have any sisters and were raised with your brothers. Those are the ones who usually have that mentality.

.:lol:
Its cause men have got more brain , and are relatively lighter , cool, chilled, and powerful .
South asian women ... they suck ! I have known them and thus will be the last choice to drink my tea with . They make a fuss out of nothing .
 

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