Why Can't Boys/Men Cry?

[Well.wisher]

Well one don't have to cry to show how pure he is lol
And at the same time yes should not be that much emotionless which makes you unable to see suffering.
You agree with my secular cause?

Um. Your signature ? Lol
for me pakistan is as important as islam. There's no comparison between both .

 

[DESERT FIGHTER]

Tag krny ka jawaaz?

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I find emotional men attractive too .
I met this guy at some art place , He was just b.a pass but had very knowledgeable approach to things . He was sensitive to human suffering and especially the women . He used to sculpt his sensitivity to the suffering and used to preach spirituality , equality , women rights . Sculpture was his main source of expression , I was amazed at his knowledge , intelligence , sculptures and kindness . He owned the gardens of fruits and cared like it's his children .
His sensitivity was attractive .

Bet he likes rainbows and unicorns too.

 

[Well.wisher]

Bet he likes rainbows and unicorns too.

No he's a straight boy . Totally manly .

 

[DESERT FIGHTER]

No he's a straight boy . Totally manly .

A boy cries, talks about women, loves plants boohoo... Is either a homo... Or knows how to fool girls into....

 

[damm1t]

Men do cry, should. This is totally human.

 

[Well.wisher]

A boy cries, talks about women, loves plants boohoo... Is either a homo... Or knows how to fool girls into....

No lol .
I didn't notice such things in him . He's as manly as other man but just a bit sensitive to things and people around him . And it's a good thing .. because he cares .

 

[DESERT FIGHTER]

No lol .
I didn't notice such things in him . He's as manly as other man but just a bit sensitive to things and people around him . And it's a good thing .. because he cares .

Sensitivity.... That's what the old pervert tells Johny bravo.

 

[Well.wisher]

Sensitivity.... That's what the old pervert tells Johny bravo.

Yeah .. might be .
But it's easy to know the faking ones , that's not case with him .
Anyway .

 

[Jaanbaz]

Men who cry in public are considered weak by the society, this attitude is pretty much the same everywhere.

 

[DESERT FIGHTER]

Yeah .. might be .
But it's easy to know the faking ones , that's not case with him .
Anyway .

So you gonna marry him or what?

 

[Well.wisher]

So you gonna marry him or what?

.. no Lolll.
I only liked his personality and the character he displays . You don't get married to every men you find attractive.
Actually it's about the social behaviour that appeases people more, some people are too good to be noted .

 

[SecularNationalist]

Um. Your signature ? Lol
for me pakistan is as important as islam. There's no comparison between both .

Well you said in a previous post "it,s cause i agree" so i thought you are talking about my ideological cause.
Well does not bother me at all what you believe in .In secularism people tend to respect each others ideologies rather than shoving beliefs in each other throats

A boy cries, talks about women, loves plants boohoo... Is either a homo... Or knows how to fool girls into....

Like a sissy cat

.. no Lolll.
I only liked his personality and the character he displays . You don't get married to every men you find attractive.
Actually it's about the social behaviour that appeases people more, some people are too good to be noted .

Yea one must not divert from the norms of pakistani society.Practical and material things matters most.You need to know your mr attractive got how many cars,houses,bank balances.Also you need to know the moral character of his whole khandan including distant relatives like the second or third cousins,naani ,parnaani etc
Not to forget the haq meher he will pay and the least minmum jehez he will demand.
If you are a punjabi we have a saying "Aaso te ke le aaso jasso te ke de jasso " Means "what you will bring when you will come and what you will give us when you leave"
Not targeting you talking about the culture.

 

[Well.wisher]

Well you said in a previous post "it,s cause i agree" so i thought you are talking about my ideological cause.
Well does not bother me at all what you believe in .In secularism people tend to respect each others ideologies rather than shoving beliefs in each other throats


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I agreed your views about that guy lastof. ...
And I'm still a learner of secularism so can't give a final point but it still seems beautiful to me . Pakistan can work so well in secularism , just need to change mentality of people.

Well you said in a previous post "it,s cause i agree" so i thought you are talking about my ideological cause.
Well does not bother me at all what you believe in .In secularism people tend to respect each others ideologies rather than shoving beliefs in each other throats


Like a sissy cat


Yea one must not divert from the norms of pakistani society.Practical and material things matters most.You need to know your mr attractive got how many cars,houses,bank balances.Also you need to know the moral character of his whole khandan including distant relatives like the second or third cousins,naani ,parnaani etc
Not to forget the haq meher he will pay and the least minmum jehez he will demand.
If you are a punjabi we have a saying "Aaso te ke le aaso jasso te ke de jasso " Means "what you will bring when you will come and what you will give us when you leave"
Not targeting you talking about the culture.

Economic stability is very important ..
Yeah you're right these things are important too cause after some time attractions fades sway and only these things carries more importance , but actually I ain't marrying that guy or what , I'm still too young for marriage or such decisions, am just living simple single life for my own self .
When I'll be ready for a decision , I'll not forget your points , guru

Like a sissy cat

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Come on . You both have cried too in life .

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[SecularNationalist]

I agreed your views about that guy lastof. ...
And I'm still a learner of secularism so can't give a final point but it still seems beautiful to me . Pakistan can work so well in secularism , just need to change mentality of people.

Well it was once a mentality which no longer exist.Say thanks to the Zia,Bhutto ,saudi funded terrorism.We flushed down the ideology of our founding father no we see we are in deep shit.

Economic stability is very important ..
Yeah you're right these things are important too cause after some time attractions fades sway and only these things carries more importance , but actually I ain't marrying that guy or what , I'm still too young for marriage or such decisions, am just living simple single life for my own self .
When I'll be ready for a decision , I'll not forget your points , guru

Our course practical things need to be considered simple love and romance is not enough to live a happy and healthy life,but still need to look at the understanding which is required for two people to live together.We forget everything when it comes to material matters.That was my point.
I am not a guru.I am actually very naive when it comes to romance and feelings i am not a emotional guy and can,t express myself to a girl which is a necessary skill for "bachi patana"

 

[Ray-of-Hope]

Boys/men can cry, they just don't as easily. In our part of the world a man's pride and ego is everything for him. Men feel if they weep infront of others, they'll lose their pride and ego. They won't be taken seriously. They'll be seen as a weakling. Had we had a healthier society this would've been seen as something very normal. Unfortunately, societies in some part of the world isn't quiet normal yet.