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Why Can't Boys/Men Cry?

Ottoman war music is dope. It makes me want to kill things. I used to put one on loop when playing battlefield and used to do pretty well. :lol:



We have different perceptions because you are still young and your brain is developing, while you are going through life experiences. I'm only stating universal facts, and your views might be closer to mine when you are a bit older.

Sharing your problems is not called weak , its called clarifying things.
Just like men crying are not weak so are the people sharing problems or taking advice .
I dont give a damn about maturity, u gotta have the right attitude to the situation. If u r not having it but still u call urself mature , reasonable ... then its some fool paradise.
 
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Only this one,


It says ''Turk milleti'',Turkish Millet(Millet same in Urdu i guess).

I cannot get the video .. but there was a pakistnai guy who sung a turkish song related to ottoman etc .. dont know what was he saying .. but after he finished.. the crowd kissed him on the forehead , some were crying too ..
 
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Only this one,


It says ''Turk milleti'',Turkish Millet(Millet same in Urdu i guess).

I also love this, it reminds me of my ancestors who fought for the Khiljis. Probably my favourite of all the Ottoman ones:


I wish Junoon reunites... nothing comes close to their music.

Lol one can wish. Maybe we should force them to, send them a bori or something.:lol:
 
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Sharing your problems is not called weak , its called clarifying things.
Just like men crying are not weak so are the people sharing problems or taking advice .
I dont give a damn about maturity, u gotta have the right attitude to the situation. If u r not having it but still u call urself mature , reasonable ... then its some fool paradise.

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An arrogant idealist. I used to be one just like you. Then one day, I grew up. If you for one second think that only Pakistani girls or guys are the way you were describing, then you are absolutely wrong. People have those same qualities around the globe. Humans have an innate evil nature at varying levels. We all have our dark sides. Even you. Don't tell me you've never had an evil thought in your entire life. It's praisworthy of you to try and see the good in people, but keeping your expectations low is guarding yourself.

Btw, we are discussing your problems and also having a discussion. :lol:
 
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Yeah I know what you mean. Patriotism wells up a feeling quite like another.

Hail to you, Professor Tunisian woman. Have you been silently judging us? If so, spit out your thoughts, or forever hold your breath.
So I'm a woman... to your belief... :)

So get rdy boys... you gonna see that you "cry" quite a lot... Let's go...

Crying... it's a physiological response to an uncontrollable emotion... it's meant to protect the human mind from Chaos or some state of delirium...
The thing is... that "physiological response to an uncontrollable emotion" can have many "types" of answers... like Screaming, or smaking thing around etc... many exist and it's different btw ppl and culture...

That's the "short" version of it... im not here to make an essay about it either...

So... yes Men have a "physiological response to an uncontrollable emotion" and most of the time it's the two listed above...

Ofc screaming and smaking is not "only" linked to a "physiological response to an uncontrollable emotion" but when it's for that specific case...they are...

Many will say..;then why my answer is not crying like woman then? it's called social inhibition... When you grow up with this inhibition ( boys don't cry) , you will later on...answer it with other means... it's simple...

Last... to answer the weakness pooint... Crying or other type of it..; is not a weakness..; it's healthy..bc those answers are made to balance your state and therefore jump even stronger at the next move... it's like being anxious.. it'snot bad..; it's a perfect state meant to be rdy for smthing..; you mind is ready to fire...

If Someone who don't have answer to those "uncontrollable emotion" just know they have some phycological problems... mostly found in psychopaths or anti social behavior... (or even worst)
 
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An arrogant idealist. I used to be one just like you. Then one day, I grew up. If you for one second think that only Pakistani girls or guys are the way you were describing, then you are absolutely wrong. People have those same qualities around the globe. Humans have an innate evil nature at varying levels. We all have our dark sides. Even you. Don't tell me you've never had an evil thought in your entire life. It's praisworthy of you to try and see the good in people, but keeping your expectations low is guarding yourself.

Btw, we are discussing your problems and also having a discussion. :lol:

Arrogant idealist? Nah .. im a very humble naive person . I expressed what i think about these things . I really dont know why people keep boasting about their maturity nd trying to show it as something as precious. I dont think maturity is necessary at all . You gotta be immature too for many things in life. U not gotta show seriousness in everything, somethings deserve idiocy too but not everything. Maturity isnt , all that matters is your goodness nd kindness.
 
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