Who Is Distracted by a Girl Wearing Skintight Leggings?

[El Sidd]

Matlab ??

Easily offended....

Stop eating KFC to solve your problem haha

 

[Zibago]

Uski to bilkul nahi jiski samjh rahy ho..

Apko kiya pata meri soch ka?

 

[Jaanbaz]

I think it should be personal choice when it comes to dressing , what i understand and even my non Muslims friends also realize during our long heated debated that Islamic ruling over stuff like clothing and punishments does seems harsh but they are not just for a individual but the collective society , If Islamic way of Govt enforce its rules on someone for stealing or Adultry and whatever Punishment they get is mostly in Public, to send people a strong message not to screw up the Society they are living in ( Islamic Society ) ..

as for western Countries they are raised differently from the ones in Islamic society , as i am married to a Non Muslim American girl i have pretty good look at this Clothing issue what my little observation told me that mostly in western countries Girls and their way of living and clothing is based on many aspects .
1- This is how they see their parents dress up while they are growing up , lets take Bikini as a Example ,from the childhood a western girl see her mother , Aunts ,friends and other females wearing Bikini as they go for swimming , there is no strict religious obligation to show their body , so when they grow up they see it as a perfectly fine thing to do which i think is too as i am not against Bikini anyway ..compared to a girl raised in a Islamic society who are taught to cover her body and which was prescribed by the Allah to avoid any After Life Punishment, she is not very enthusiastic to wear bikini's or other revealing outfits .

2 - Western Girls are raised by multiple Parents and Step Parents so their Upbringing get mixed as their Biological Mother or father bring step Dad/Mom in to their lives, Talking to a lot of people from western countries not specifically to US, but if i just filter out American people i ever talked and who become my good friend over the last 7-8 years , lets say on Average those numbers are around 100, and no joke out of these 100 people ( both male and Female ) around 95% of them have step Dad's or Mother .. including my own wife , so i personally think this also is a reason that cause this problem where Girls or boys are raised by different mindset of people .

3- Very common Sexual Harassment in western Families, before people start lecturing me over this, let me write that Sexual Harassment happen everywhere so relax , my point is that it is one of the reason so this is how i understand, a lot of girls i talked as friend , after years of talking to them as friend they open up to me and their life stories how they been sexually Harassed by their Uncles , brother , cousins and step parents .this is one of the most shocking thing to me, the girl and boys who been through this hard time, they were so against the Concept of Marriage and Family , and they mostly very extreme when it comes to objectifying or telling them what to do . As innocent as a Child if they were sexually harassed by people so what they believe is that Clothes will not make much difference , cause its something that relates the evil intention of Men or Women , not the Appearance .. and i take this point as Valid .

4- Another reason which i will say i experience here in Pakistan was the Gathering and group of your Friends , Its very likely that if you get some effects of the people you been around mostly in your daily life, i have seen this first hand as when i Join the BBA from a University we were two friend and we both Don't smoke , but as we start our semester make new friends and join Groups, my Friend get this smoking habit, but i didn't .. and when i ask him why he start Smoking his response was that i was seen as Mummy Daddy Bacha ( term only Asians will Understand ) but not as a grown up , the group make fun of him to be a innocent and girly boy so to look macho tough and more part of their group he started smoking with his friend and later become a Chain Smoker . now this example may seems odd but if you see most of the western young people are very Open minded and keep Liberal Ideas which is good, but the party Culture ( Pool Party , Drinking , and other parties ) this put a huge effect on any child who is in growing and learning age, when he/she was urge or Pressured by his Friends to do something or he/she see something they are doing it urges him/her to do despite knowing that it can or be harmful for him/her .. ( Of course not Generalization but it happens )

now coming back to the Topic that wearing tight Clothes or exposing clothes does attract some unwanted attention and eye balls , but it can not be put as a Justification for someone to do or attempt to do sexual Harassment on to any one .. May be Islam for the very same reason puts a balance here ( this is what i believe ) that a Women must cover her body and not wear exposing clothes while a man should also wear decent clothes when Go out and keep her gaze low, and if he see something that give him that urge than try to avoid looking at her or him again in such way ..there is a Saying here not many people are aware of, it goes something like that , " That the Veil of Eyes is far harder to achieve than Veil of the Body " . I know many people might disagree but i personally think that Islamic Rule for this specific case on men is harder than compare to women ..but feel free to disagree .

and Please Pardon my English , its been very rough ...

@The Sandman @Hell hound @django @Joe Shearer @Moonlight @Spring Onion @Nilgiri @Mugwop @HAKIKAT @El Sidd @Sher Shah Awan @Jaanbaz @waz

You brought some interesting points but could have kept it brief. Why torture us poor souls with your essay?

 

[Hell hound]

bus hun main agey kuch nahi bolna api samjh ja jealousy jiaye

Uski to bilkul nahi jiski samjh rahy ho..

Apko kiya pata meri soch ka?

baz a oye shiekho

 

[terry5]

I am distracted...
I love looking at girls tight asses when they wear skin tight leggings .most times you can see what kind of knickers they be wearing .
Camel toe outline is hot like lava as well .
Love the girls in London wearing hijab but you can see there knickers .
Ni one wants to look at yo hair girl lol too busy looking at yo flaps .
Mmmm

 

[prashantazazel]

Whatever looks good. ...
Though there should be some fat-shaming incorporated in the society.

 

[Pakistani E]

Some are distracted by the voice of women, will ye ban the speaking of women?

Some are distracted by the smell of women, will ye ban the wandering of women?

Some are distracted by the scene of women, will ye then ban the existence of women?

A wild beast will do what a wild beast is programmed to do. It matters little if you hold a knife in your hand or not, a hungry one would still attack you and care little for the knife you use as restraints. So before you ask to put a purdah on every women, put a purdah on your shaitani nafs.

 

[Hamartia Antidote]

Here in the US; it's very common to whistle, honk, tease, hoot and etc... at a girl and many girls seem to like that type of attention. .

@Gomig-21 All I can think of is maybe Lansdowne Street and Hampton Beach ( and that's in NH)

 

[Gomig-21]

@Gomig-21 All I can think of is maybe Lansdowne Street and Hampton Beach ( and that's in NH)

Yeah, I don't see it to be a very common thing either, to be perfectly honest. I mean yeah, occasionally you'll see a couple of street workers checking out a miniskirt walking by them and then they all look at each other and smile like "yeah, that was niiiice" lol. But other than that, honking, hooting, whistling and shtuff like that? Very, very very rare up this way in Antidote/Gomig land. Maybe it's more of a southern thing, ey? We're a bit more civilized up here in NE.

None of this kinda behavior! Check out the girlfriend's face LOL.

 

[Divergent]

Why we always discussing women’s attire? What about Men and what females are attracted to? Do you want me to list a few things too?

 

[Hell hound]

Why we always discussing women’s attire? What about Men and what females are attracted to? Do you want me to list a few things too?

shut your mouth you lesser breed how dare you talk to men like that.know it that your kind has no right to think for yourself let alone committing a grave sin like feeling attracted toward somebody.women like you are root of all evil

 

[Gomig-21]

shut your mouth you lesser breed how dare you talk to men like that.know it that your kind has no right to think for yourself let alone committing a grave sin like feeling attracted toward somebody.women like you are root of all evil

Respect, my friend.

Why we always discussing women’s attire?

Male dominated universe? A woman dressed in a particularly revealing manner attracts a lot more attention than if a man does it. A woman't physique is built to create attraction, so it's an inevitable law of nature. Women also spend a lot more time and energy beautifying themselves while most men will do the basics. Men are mostly dressed in pants and shirts, nothing much revealing whereas women wear skirts showing their curves and legs and blouses that reveal much more. That draws more attention than what men do. Is this a misconception?

What about Men and what females are attracted to?

I would think it's no comparison. And when that is the case, it's not as apparent as it is with men.

 

[Hell hound]

Respect, my friend.

sarcasm mate.and she is a friend who knows whom am i mocking here

 

[Gomig-21]

sarcasm mate.and she is a friend who knows whom am i mocking here

Oh ok, sorry I thought so but wasn't sure.

 

[Hell hound]

Oh ok, sorry I thought so but wasn't sure.

Let me tell you one thing bro you sure are a kind one.calling me a friend others would have been at my throat by now