I lived in NYC and Lahore, currently live in suburbs of a mid tier city so it doesn't matter, I am just chilling
NYC as long as rents are under control is an awesome city in almost every way (except for homelessness, in 90s I heard crime was a big thing but not now)
Lahore is/was and hopefully will always be great but late 90s, 2000s was something else
Basant festival was celebrated with more zeal than even Eid (maybe bakar Eid was better), I can't express how cool basant was we used to have BBQ, I remember singing and bhangra, we used to blast out basant cassettes and ofcourse staying on rooftop all day,boy's used the festival as an opportunity to find girl friends (not the western kind lol, not sexual kinda thing) doing"patangbaazi", our family members used to fly out from Europe just for basant,
Most famous basant song, everyone from the city would Remember it
Lahore without basant is nothing man
, now it's banned and they use drones to catch you
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Also sometimes decorations to celebrate spring time
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In summer time people used to head towards "nehar" for swimming
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And I remember boating clubs were a thing too back in the day, I don't know now
Food was always good
Concert's we're a thing too, Ali Zafar, abrar ul haq, Ali Azmat all the musicians were basically from Lahore so concerts and music festivals were a big thing
I especially love abrar ul Haq, this was famous during that time
But than war of terror started peaking in late 2000s and it's just not the same thing anymore, I'll be honest
I think there's a societal PTSD and post WOT city, culture, festival, society vibes are different
I don't know about rest of the country but it certainly changed Lahore, it's still beautiful if anything bit more devaloped than before with metro bus and train, flyovers , posh housing societies etc but overall things are different