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What children want..!

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Children wants only love, attention and a loving family, most of the serial killers don't know their father's name.
 
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Here they are: They want harmony. They do not want their parents to have unresolved and destructive conflict in front of the, They want love. They wish to be treated with the same affection as other children in the family. They want honesty. And to be told the truth.
They want acceptance. They desire mutual tolerance from both parents. They want their parents to like their friends. They want their friends to be welcomed in the home. They want closeness. They desire comradeship with their parents. They want their parents to pay attention to them and answer their questions.
They want consideration from their parents. They do not want to be embarrassed or punished in front of friends. They want positive support. They wish for their parents to concentrate on their good points rather than their weaknesses. They want consistency. They desire parents to be constant in their affections and moods.
It appears that these children want what all of us want – respect, consideration and love. In fact, these work well with “children” of all ages. I know for sure that my children would add maybe a few pages to this list, but for starters let’s give these ten points a go, shall we?
No we shall not if we want these children to have a chance in the real world.
Did you also take in account what would happen to such grown ups in the real world?
Now, lets elaborate some of the points,

They want honesty:you cant tell everything to a child,impossible.
They desire Mutual tolerance from both parents: so,the kids can do whatever they want?
One of the parents has to be the ''bad guy''.
Again impossible.
They want their parents to like their friends:what if these friends are bad influence?
They want closeness:you can be close to the girls but if you are to close to they boys,they become to soft,there is a difference between boys and girls,lets keep it that way.
They do not want to be embarrassed or punished in front of friends.:How are they going to learn that they made a mistake if they are not embarrased or punished in front of others(psychological impact)?
They wish for their parents to concentrate on their good points rather than their weaknesses:big bs,how are they going to better their weaknesses if they dont focus on them?
Respect is earned.
 
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i wanted my parents to be like white parents i want this and expect my mum and dad to say oh here you go instead they said next time which never came. no sense humor with Asian parents they like robots.
Try explaining to them what is dirt biking is about? or fishing? etc.
white folks take their kids out for activities Asian parents are like wtf go work work work.
They can be loud and embarrassing.
 
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i wanted my parents to be like white parents i want this and expect my mum and dad to say oh here you go instead they said next time which never came. no sense humor with Asian parents they like robots.
Try explaining to them what is dirt biking is about? or fishing? etc.
white folks take their kids out for activities Asian parents are like wtf go work work work.
They can be loud and embarrassing.

Pakistani parents best fraaaand.

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