Idk what the heck are you talking about, I have some experience working with a domestic violence unit in my one of the largest city in the US. Let me tell you my friend, Vast majority couple don’t even marry to began with, those that do, System will train wreck their marriage. Pakistani system try to preserve family unit. Where as in US any domestic violence call, mean one party is spend night in jail. Which 80% of the times is the man of the house, regardless of the person at fault. And this is just the beginning.
it varies from demographic to demographic in US.