To all the married men

[oFFbEAT]

Though I'm not married yet....I think the ground rule is simple....'Never break each other's trust.'

 

[Manticore]

forgive and forget.... the most difficult thing to do

 

[Imran Khan]

To all the married men.
What are the ground rules that have to be set since day1 [by both man and women] for a happy, respectful life

To all the ladies.
What should an ideal husband do in terms of behaviour towards his wife
What do you think an ideal wife should do in terms of behaviour towards her husband

who stupid will waste time on day one for create rules ?
abut behavior its abut time and situation i never face all time same behavior wife is not robot .

 

[Manticore]

who stupid will waste time on day one for create rules ?
abut behavior its abut time and situation i never face all time same behavior wife is not robot .

ive seen couples in which the man leans more towards the parents... the wife and kids become resentful

on the other hand ive seen the man leaning more towards the wife... parents die without any care.. only regret is left for the man


need to balance this stuff out.. and its basically this fine line which i wanted to ask.. how you guys balance duties

 

[Indus Falcon]

ive seen couples in which the man leans more towards the parents... the wife and kids become resentful

on the other hand ive seen the man leaning more towards the wife... parents die without any care.. only regret is left for the man


need to balance this stuff out.. and its basically this fine line which i wanted to ask.. how you guys balance duties

Very well said, Balance.

 

[Imran Khan]

ive seen couples in which the man leans more towards the parents... the wife and kids become resentful

on the other hand ive seen the man leaning more towards the wife... parents die without any care.. only regret is left for the man


need to balance this stuff out.. and its basically this fine line which i wanted to ask.. how you guys balance duties

well i have no idea abut it as i never live a single night of life as joint family . i have prepared before marriage for my wife and living alone far away from my parents . sometime they visit us for few hours or we went but a night we never stay with parents . don't know what happen to joint families . abut respect its inside just live natural and enjoy the life . give and take be honest and never abuse powers. i have happy life without any rules or hard talks we are living happy respected and care each other .

 

[VCheng]

ive seen couples in which the man leans more towards the parents... the wife and kids become resentful

on the other hand ive seen the man leaning more towards the wife... parents die without any care.. only regret is left for the man


need to balance this stuff out.. and its basically this fine line which i wanted to ask.. how you guys balance duties

Just remember this: Such a balance is never static, but needs to be dynamic.

 

[Basel]

any more golden rules?

is there some divorce lawyer here, stating the top reason why he earns his bread and butter in his profession?

Are you getting married?? Just curious due to the kind of thread you created.

 

[SpArK]

To all the married men.
What are the ground rules that have to be set since day1 [by both man and women] for a happy, respectful life

To all the ladies.
What should an ideal husband do in terms of behaviour towards his wife
What do you think an ideal wife should do in terms of behaviour towards her husband

Ground rules set on Day 1 has a maximum validity for 6-12 months.

After that there will be constant amendments on each rules and new rules will be set every other time.

Breaking of these rules will lead to detection of excess decibel waves and the intensity is directly proportional to the stealth characteristics of violation- prone -activities of day- to - day .

 

[Manticore]

Are you getting married?? Just curious due to the kind of thread you created.

sharing experiences

 

[SpArK]

sharing experiences

Lucky you...... put all the possibilities into garbage and stay single...ready to mingle and live happily ever after.

For example look at Zaki , he shapeshifted from Decepticon to Autobot after marriage and the only activity he is doing is putting up pictures of himself in FB in various other locations.

 

[Trisonics]

My former boss gave me advice that makes so much sense now. It's just 2 words, "Yes Dear". Use that for everything and life is bliss...

 

[Manticore]

 

[Politico]

live by islamic rules in marriage and family can be happy. islamic rules r easy 2 follow. husband take care of wife, wife make husband happy. all other things is a failure

 

[Shamain]

ive seen couples in which the man leans more towards the parents... the wife and kids become resentful

on the other hand ive seen the man leaning more towards the wife... parents die without any care.. only regret is left for the man


need to balance this stuff out.. and its basically this fine line which i wanted to ask.. how you guys balance duties

That reminds me of a news i read.
The guy was a truck driver, as we know its a laborious job.
His first wife had passed away leaving behind 2 kids. So he was married off to his wife's sister and had 4 kids including first wife's.
His wife and mom constantly used to fight with each other, so one day his wife angrily left home saying she will take divorce. He came home after a long day and when he heard that............tch...he killed all four kids.

It's everyone's job who is living in a house to be nice to each other. Atleast i learnt from that. It made me so cry.

Acha khair idont know but best of luck bro. I think u are a funny and great guy. I hope everything works out great for u.