I think ..we are not sure if India and Pakistan problem is just the issue of 69 years ...It is much more than that...I will enlist couple of points...It might be a rude fact..but this is true..
1- Till now, I am not sure is it really Pakistan is upset because of Kashmir or because India is a Hindu majority nation?...This is a very fundamental question....If Pakistan is obsessed with Hindus then of course...Kashmir issue resolution will not solve anything...It is just a matter of time when new issue will come up...
2- For us, i think the rightist people of India, of course like me, Pakistan and its people symbolises the rise of Islam in India at the expense of Hindu culture,religion and cultural invasion of Islamic invaders from outside of my nation...So it is not just Pakistan which is created in last 70 odd year is the issue, rather the pain,anguish and the frustration of Indian right about the inability to defend themselves from Islamic invaders in last 800 years of Bharat's histroy is getting channelised to keep the anger boling for Pakistan...How much it is correct, i do not know..I am not jedgemental here..But this is one of the facts..
See a simple example, the people about whom i read as the invaders who destroyed my temple, is worshipped in Pakistan.....Now if Muslim community still holds the grudge of destruction of Babri Mosque, then how come they do not understand the pain and frustration of Hindu people of their butchered histroy...When we raise this issue, we are threatened in my own nation as rightist extremist...
3- The relation of India with Pakistan is directly related how much Hindu and Muslim relation prosper in my own nation....
4- People always mention that if Kashmir issue is resolved, everything will be fine...But i second that....Honestly i also feel that Kashmir is a waste investement for India....India should have dumped it if the benefactor is not Pakistan....Trust me, the hype of Kashmir will not be same if Pakistan is not involved...The reason Kashmir is getting all the energy and unlimited support rom GOI because, GOI will never allow the Kashmir to win which will perceive as win for Pakistan...If
in place of Pakistan, it is any other nation. things could have been different...The insurgency of NE is far more critical than than of the Kashmir, but how many Indian majority reach the way in which they react to Kashmir issue...There are certain states in N-E which are more anti Indian than Kashmir..At least in Kashmir, only Kashmir valley is anti Indian and rest are somehow fine to be with INDIA, but in N-E , the situation is more scarier in certain states..But you do not get such kind of zingosim for N-E terrorism like Kashmir ones...
So i believe that in order to address the India and Pakistan in proper way, India needs to reconcile itself withing their own population....Hindus and Muslims needs to reconcile themselves their historical baggage...Hindu majority needs to be told that it is true that forced conversion has happened, but apart from that good number of Hindu people converted to Islam because, upper caste Hindus are so bullshit and crappy that lower caste Hindu could not tolerate and converted.....So it is not at all the entire fault of Islam and invaders that Hindus are converted rather than certain blame has to be taken by the Hindu people itself..
After we can reconcile among our Hindu and Muslim population, then 60-70% of our emotional outburst against Pakistan will be reduced ..then the issue will be only political one...And then India will be in a situation to negotiate Kashmir without any emotional baggage...And same is true for Pakistan too...The people of Pakistan has to shed away their hatred for Hindus...then they will be in a proper mindset to negotiate with India with out any emotional hatred for Hindu India...
These are my analysis and experiences