Result of Love Marriage

[Super Falcon]

well i bellieve on both love and arrange

 

[DANGER-ZONE]

ye batao shdi ke kisnay hai,me ne to shadi nahin dekhi gadhon ke??....

 

[Salik]

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It is nothing but a lab product animals never cross limits

 

[FreekiN]

I believe in diversity and love.

One day, just watch, everyone will be one color, tan.

 

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A little correction that Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him had four sons names Abrahim Qasim Tahir and Tayyab all these died in childhood and there were tears in Holly Prophet’s eyes

As far as ‘hoors’ are concerned we human are ‘ashraf ul mukhluqaat’ best of all creatures these angels and hoors can never reach our status but their respect is obligatory Prophet peace and blessings be upon him said most precious thing in the world is a virtuous woman!

About marriage if you have love marriage convert it into arrange and if you have arrange marriage convert it into love and never go for passion once the pilot is ejected the plane is doomed

 

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A little correction that Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him had four sons names Abrahim Qasim Tahir and Tayyab all these died in childhood and there were tears in Holly Prophet’s eyes

Please prove it from Authentic Source

I have only heard about his two sons in my whole life. Who is Tahir and Tayyab? there is a weak reference of his third son but that is not acceptable for the majority of Muslims. Never heard about fourth

Kindly prove it....... if incase this thread is closed you can PM me the source

 

[Salik]

Please prove it from Authentic Source

I have only heard about his two sons in my whole life. Who is Tahir and Tayyab? there is a weak reference of his third son but that is not acceptable for the majority of Muslims. Never heard about fourth

Kindly prove it....... if incase this thread is closed you can PM me the source

"Prophet Muhammad remained the husband of Khadijah for 25 years during which he had three sons and four daughters by her, but all his sons died in infancy. After Khadijah's death, the Prophet married again. He even had more than one wife at one time, but all his wives except one, were elderly widows whom he married to support them." These were Qasim, Tayyab and Tahir some say Tayyab and Tahir were two name of one son. Prophet Muhammad

Then Ibrahim from Hazrat Mariah Qibti... One night in March 630 CE, Angel Gabriel visited the Prophet and addressed him as: "O father of Ibrahim." A few hours later, the Prophet received the news of the birth of his son from his wife Mariah, and the Prophet named him Ibrahim. He was the only child born after the six children from Prophet’s first wife Khadijah. Ibrahim died when he was ten months old. Biography of Prophet Muhammad (s) with Links to Comparative Religion

 

[Hyde]

"Prophet Muhammad remained the husband of Khadijah for 25 years during which he had three sons and four daughters by her, but all his sons died in infancy. After Khadijah's death, the Prophet married again. He even had more than one wife at one time, but all his wives except one, were elderly widows whom he married to support them." These were Qasim, Tayyab and Tahir some say Tayyab and Tahir were two name of one son. Prophet Muhammad

Then Ibrahim from Hazrat Mariah Qibti... One night in March 630 CE, Angel Gabriel visited the Prophet and addressed him as: "O father of Ibrahim." A few hours later, the Prophet received the news of the birth of his son from his wife Mariah, and the Prophet named him Ibrahim. He was the only child born after the six children from Prophet’s first wife Khadijah. Ibrahim died when he was ten months old. Biography of Prophet Muhammad (s) with Links to Comparative Religion

i am not sure about your source "Modern Religion.com" do you have any more information about this website? like who is the creator of this website etc?

I have only heard about 2 sons in my whole life that are Ibrahim and Qasim R.A. (May Allah bless them) and some other references talks about his third son named as Abdullah

 

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Yes i have got it, just came to know that his son Qasim and Abdullah are also known as Tahir and Tayyib. This is first time i heard in my life....... but if you will ever search about them you will need to type their real name that is Qasim and Abdullah.

So overall they are still 3...... and not 4

 

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A little correction that Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him had four sons names Abrahim Qasim Tahir and Tayyab all these died in childhood and there were tears in Holly Prophet’s eyes

here is what I found out

Khadijah is said to have borne Muhammad four daughters (Ruqayyah bint Muhammad, Umm Kulthum bint Muhammad, Zainab bint Muhammad, Fatimah Zahra) and two sons (Abd-Allah ibn Muhammad and Qasim ibn Muhammad) who both died in childhood. All except two of his daughters, Fatimah and Zainab, died before him.[156] Shi'a scholars contend that Fatimah was Muhammad's only daughter.[157] Maria al-Qibtiyya bore him a son named Ibrahim ibn Muhammad, but the child died when he was two years old.[156]

 

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Here is a book reference for complete satisfaction

Book title: Muhammad Rasool Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)

Author: Sheikh Muhammad Raza Jamia Fawad Cairo Egypt

Translated by: Maulvi Muhammad Aadil quddusi

Published by: Taaj Company Ltd. Karachi

Page No: 66​

It is mentioned here that from Hazrat Khadijah the Prophet peace and blessings had three sons and four daughters, son names Qasim, Tayyab and Tahir crowns of our heads

Some historians do say the Prophet peace and blessings had three sons in total we prefer maximum numbers that is four it is closer to the Hadith that on the Day of Judgment I shell be proud of majority of my Ummah

 

[sonicboom]

And our Mullas are not telling the people how many rights women have under Islam. because if they tell us then indeed we would be having sticks in our hands to demand our rights from our men which the men dont want

A Wife's Basic Rights Regarding Her Husband's Behavior

NOTE: This is distinct from her other rights regarding living expenditures, housing, clothing, and education of children. And from Allah comes all success.

1. The first and worthiest condition of marriage to be fulfilled by the husband is to "keep the promise or promises he made to the wife at the time he married her." This is an order of the Prophet [salla Allahu `alayhi wa alihi wa sallam, abbr. (s)] according to the hadith: "ahaqqu al-shuruti an tufu bihi ma astahlaltum bihi min al-furuj"

2. He cannot order her to do anything that is against religion. The Prophet (s) said: "No obedience is due to creatures in disobedience of the Creator" (la ta`atan li makhluqin fi ma`siyat al-khaliq).

3. He must exercise patience and be prepared to listen to her advice in every situation. The Prophet (s) listened to the advice of his wives in matters ranging from the smallest to the greatest.

4. If she invites him to wake up and perform the late night prayer, it is praiseworthy for him to do so and vice-versa. The Prophet (s) prayed for such people: "May Allah grant mercy to a man who gets up at night and prays, and wakes up his wife, and if she refuses, he sprinkles water in her face; may Allah grant mercy to a woman who gets up at night and prays, and wakes up her husband, and if he refuses, she sprinkles water in his face."

5. He must respect her and pay attention to her needs so that she will respect him and pay attention to his.

6. He must control his passions and act in a moderate manner especially in the context of sexual intercourse. Remember that Allah has placed between you and her "friendship and mercy" (mawadda wa rahma), not the gratification of your every lust; and that the Prophet (s) advised young men to marry "because it casts down the gaze and walls up the genitals," not in order to stimulate sexual passions. The husband should habitually seek refuge in Allah before approaching his wife and say: "O Allah, ward off the satan from us and ward him off from what you have bestowed upon us in the way of children" (allahumma jannibna al-shaytana wa jannibhu ma razaqtana). Allah has called each spouse a garment for the other (2:187), and the purpose of garments is decency. The Prophet (s) further said that he who marries for the sake of decency and modesty (`afaf), Allah has enjoined upon Himself to help him.

7. He must never ever divulge the secrets of the household and those of the married couple.

8. He must strive with sincerity to acquire her trust, and seek her welfare in all the actions that pertain to her.

9. He must treat her generously at all times. The Prophet (s) said that the best gift or charity (sadaqa) is that spent on one's wife.

10. If she works outside the house, it is praiseworthy for the husband to hire house help to relieve her from too heavy a burden. The wife's duties do not require her to feed her child, nor even to nurse it, nor to clean nor cook. It is the husband's duty to provide a nursemaid, food for older children, and servants to clean and cook. However, if the wife does those things out of mercy and love, it is a gift to the husband on her part.

11. He must avoid excessive jealousy and remember that Allah is also jealous that he himself not commit. The Prophet (s) said: "Do not be excessively jealous of your wife lest evil be hurled at her on your account" (la tukthir al-gheerata `ala ahlika fa turama bi al-su'i min ajlik) and he said: "Allah is jealous and the believer is jealous; and Allah's jealousy is that the believer should not go to that which Allah has forbidden for him" (inna Allaha yagharu wa al- mu'minu yagharu wa gheerat Allahi in ya'tiya al-mu'minu ma harrama `alayhi).

12. He must protect her honor and not place her in situations where it is compromised or belittled. The Prophet (s) said that Allah will not ever let him enter Paradise who cares little who shares his wife's privacy. This includes the husband's brother, uncle, and nephew, let alone non-related friends, neighbors, and complete strangers.

13. He must exercise patience and forgiveness in the case of disagreement or dispute, and not rush to divorce. The declaration of divorce is a grave matter indeed, and the Prophet (s) said: "Of permitted matters the most loathesome before Allah is divorce" (abgh`ad al-halal `ind Allah al-talaq). In another hadith he said that divorce is so grave that because of it Allah's throne is made to shake. He said: "The best intercession [i.e. intervention of a third party] is that which brings back together the husband and the wife." Womanizing -- divorce for the purpose of marrying another woman out of sexual attraction incurs Allah's curse according to the hadith: "Allah's curse is on the womanizing, divorcing man" (la`ana Allahu kulla dhawwaaqin mutallaaq). Finally, even in the midst of and after divorce, Allah has prescribed kindness upon the man: "(After pronouncing divorce) she must be retained in honor or released in kindness" (2:228).

For the above-mentioned reason (i.e. to prevent the quickness of divorce), in his time, Ibn Taymiyya gave the ijtihad (juridical opinion) by saying that three talaqs in one sitting constituted only one. He did this to interdict the prevalent custom of suddenly giving three talaqs, which in his time was on everyone's lips, (i.e. had become so commonplace as to be a habit). However the other four schools of fiqh had the opposite opinion in this matter.

14. He must not dwell on what he dislikes in his wife, but on what he likes.

15. The husband is not to stay away from his wife or keep his wife in a state of suspense, whether at home or abroad, for a protracted period of time except with her consent. Allah said: "Turn not away (from your wife) altogether, so as to leave her hanging. If you come to a friendly understanding and practice self-restraint, then Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Merciful" (4:129). Protracted separation (6 months or more in the Shafi`i school) without prior or subsequent arrangement with the wife, whether the husband is away willingly or unwillingly (for example due to war, imprisonment, or illness) is sufficient grounds for her to obtain divorce from the judge.

16. The Prophet (s) said: "Do not beat your wife." He also said: "Do not strike your wife in the face." The expiation for striking one's slave in the face is to set him or her free on the spot, but what expiation is there for striking one's wife? The Prophet (s) condemned the man who beats his wife in the day and then approaches her at night. And to beat her to the extent of inflicting serious injury is enough grounds for her to obtain divorce from the judge.

17. Caring for one's wife's sexual fulfillment is an obligation of religion. The Prophet (s) warned against rushing to gratify one's pleasure and forgetting that of one's wife. He also disliked that the husband should quickly withdraw from his wife afterwards, as it is a strain upon the wife. If she asks for intercourse, he should not refuse.

Conclusion
These are only some of the basic duties of the husband in Islam. The state of marriage is part of one's adherence to the Sunna and an exalted state of life indeed. In the words of the Prophet (s), it permits one to meet Allah "pure and cleansed" (tahiran mutahharan). One's behavior towards one's wife is the measure of the perfection of one's belief as the Prophet (s) said: "The most complete of the believers in his belief is he who perfects his manners, and the best of you in manners are those who act best towards their wives." Marriage must be approached with utmost seriousness, entered with the purest intent, and cultivated religiously as it does not come cheaply and it carries immense reward. The Prophet (s) called it "his way" (al-nikahu sunnati) and "half of religion" and he also said: "Two rak`at (prayer-cycles) of the married person are better than seventy rak`at of the unmarried." He also warned that among the greatest of responsibilities that had been placed upon men is that pertaining to the treatment of their wives.