Brother, although I can see your point of view regarding rapes, and agree to an extent, but I don't think referring to their land as East Pakistan does any good, East Pakistan or Bangladesh, it is still their land.
If you have such strong feelings regarding that area, surely you would feel happy for them, no matter what it is called. And, not try to play on emotions regarding that topic. I just think you are being unfair, at least regarding East Pakistan/Bangladesh issue. Just because we live in a different house/country does it make us any less of brothers/sisters, if in fact that is how you feel about them, then you should respect the reality, only then we will become close again.
Also, this is for everyone,
it is sad that an issue like rape is being discussed in such a contemptuous manner. Whoever was raped, they were our sisters, daughters and mothers, if nothing else at least try to have a knowledgeable discussion, rather then mud slinging.
I hope you wont mind my words, thank you.