You are creating your own refutation, it is because the creator knows that he gave you a head that he lets you decide on what sort of morality you enforce. Medina isnt the complete state solution, if it was then hazrat Usman would not be humiliated by Hazrat Ali’s son nor Bibi Aisha ride on camelback against Hazrat Ali. They DID have “who is this Abu Bakr and who this Usman to rule us”. That is the part conveniently forgotten by romatic historians. We have a schism in Islam to this day because of it.It is their Right, but is it RIGHT to do it out in Public ? just because you have freedom to do what you want does not mean you should do it .. and for Quran , if you are expecting Creator to mention those puny problems in his last revelation to mankind than i guess you are completely ignorant of the book and its message itself ( no offense ) .
Pakistan is not run on Sharia , but in a society like Medina Ethics and Morality was not enforced but People despite having their freedom were not allowed to do whatever they want .. Societies are not build over Individual values but its a collective of people where you have to understand that any act that threaten the values of any society must be stopped by the state ..
that was my point , just because i don't like a certain law doesn't mean the LAW should not exist .. you gotta respect the law and other people , and let me tell you from my own personal experience i have seen more than kissing in Parks and Zero point of Karachi .. but no families go there
Turkey is indeed a good example here, but it depends on how you understand Islam , as Reza Aslan says if you are a Violent person than you have plenty of material in Quran to justify Violence but if you are non Violent non hater you will find plenty for you . The Idea of that its not my place to judge or its their sin their grave , can work in some place but not in others ... People could literally say this to Abu Bakr RA or Omar ibn Khattab that who are you rule us or judge us for whatever we do ? When you are in a Society your personal preference matters less but you gotta see what is good or bad for the Collective Society .. and that is what Islam is about who thinks Muslims as a single body .
Its a bit complicated, i am personally not a fan of Bikini nor i believe that a girl needs a two piece underwear or bra to swim or enjoy , the purpose of Bikini is more about Showing off body than it has anything to do with enjoying or swimming .. what others do is their matter but it all comes to collective society , if in a Hypothetical Islamic society some women suddenly start wearing bikini and state do nothing , than it will encourage other women to follow their suites. as they say in Urdu " Kharbooze ko dekh ker Kharbooza rang pakerta hai " .
in this particular case, there is an alternative way, you want to kiss your wife get back to your home or rent a hotel room to do so .. no one is stopping you to kiss or make out , people are asking you that they don't want others to see kissing , cause everyone has their own rights , you cant just make out in beach as their are kids there for whom it would be inappropriate to watch such things , and for 10 people who are kissing on beach i wont ask 1000 people to not go to beach just because what they might see will offend them .. its unfair
my life wasn't any different , watch a movie called Freddy vs Jason on HBO long ago ... thanks to the censorship all +18 scenes were deleted, when i bought the DVD uncut version and play it with all my elder brothers sitting behind, the first scene contains a topless women .. and my brother broke the DVD and almost my head , and barred for using PC for next 5-6 months .
Medina under the prophet was just his explanation of what the Quran applied exactly for his time was; we don’t leave cars to travel on camels like the Prophet nor is miswak what is Sunnah- keeping teeth clean is!
You already answered the part regarding religion and culture, if we as a nation are intolerat, emotional and rabid then we WILL interpret Quran and Sunnah in that light and make laws reflecting that mentality under the guise of religious diktat. Then such a society will make a law asking people to chew on tree bark and shun toothbrushes because that will be seen as unislamic.
What stops them from presenting it as the good of society?
The first time I saw drugs and drink wS in Saudi Arabia, the place where everything supposedly shuts down during prayer. Women throw out the abaya in the ground the second they leave public areas and by that I don’t mean the streets but in private housing societies. So what good did all that enforced religious diktat do? It only caused greater curiosity to the deviation and greater rebellion.
You cannot battle human nature already mentioned in the Quran and you cannot prevent your greatest enemy, the one who gave the idea for the fruit and have you thrown out of heaven. The rebellion was within man, all it took was evil to push it and it formented to take the forbidden fruit. That lesson is being given to us, that we will be tempted, we will rebel when told not to. Our best hope lies in educating ourselves and acting as individuals to correct what is wrong and praying to Allah for protection from evil.
Enforcement of laws comes to prevent harm to each other, but all laws cannot prevent murder even in supposedly the most secure and surveyed of cities. punishment is pointless once the deed is done and only serves to remove a threat, not prevent it beyond deterrence.
So if deterrence is the key, then why not have the actual punishments? The cutting of hands and arms? Those actually served a good purpose and the Prophet was vocal about using them. Yet when it came to adultery he tried to ignore confessions? He ignored it thrice?
Why were concubines allowed in Islam? Why did the immediate caliphs after the 4, some companions to the Prophet take them?
If we are to accept that the Prophet was the living embodiment of how to live the Quran’s commandments then it is clear- he enforced certain punishment and was toleratant of other misdeeds because he was given the best understanding of human nature through god. He understood that humans arent melons, it takes a lot of factors to raise bad people.. including some that just are predisposed to be.
He understood that theft and murder were above all crimes to be prevented, and interest.. but the concept of premarital relationships was to be discouraged through other means and resolved in other ways.
Iran & Saudi Arabia are a great example on how what was prevented publicly has taken hold in much more rebellious ways out of the way of the law.
All these attempts to close off heera mandi has led to naught btw, they have moved onto DHa y block. And will move elsewhere.. and on and on.
These kids are stupid and hormonally charged; the police have actually tried to handle this as amicably as possible. But if the current laws were enforced and actually put into action, would lead to either the young man searching for prostitutes or being enticed into other acts.. instead of his parents being held responsible. The girl who was found kissing could be found with another girl in a sexual experimentation(which happens in many girl only establishments) or running away with a young man.
The solution to this would have been an parents giving good earlier interactions, stricter upbringing and then encouraging activities that divert the libido..
Ruining the kids lives because they could not control their hormones only speaks of a despot society and reflects Islam as a barbaric religion that could not have come from a all understanding, all knowing creator.