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Police arrest couple for ‘kissing, cuddling’ in Islamabad

It is their Right, but is it RIGHT to do it out in Public ? just because you have freedom to do what you want does not mean you should do it .. and for Quran , if you are expecting Creator to mention those puny problems in his last revelation to mankind than i guess you are completely ignorant of the book and its message itself ( no offense ) .
Pakistan is not run on Sharia , but in a society like Medina Ethics and Morality was not enforced but People despite having their freedom were not allowed to do whatever they want .. Societies are not build over Individual values but its a collective of people where you have to understand that any act that threaten the values of any society must be stopped by the state ..



that was my point , just because i don't like a certain law doesn't mean the LAW should not exist .. you gotta respect the law and other people , and let me tell you from my own personal experience i have seen more than kissing in Parks and Zero point of Karachi .. but no families go there



Turkey is indeed a good example here, but it depends on how you understand Islam , as Reza Aslan says if you are a Violent person than you have plenty of material in Quran to justify Violence but if you are non Violent non hater you will find plenty for you . The Idea of that its not my place to judge or its their sin their grave , can work in some place but not in others ... People could literally say this to Abu Bakr RA or Omar ibn Khattab that who are you rule us or judge us for whatever we do ? When you are in a Society your personal preference matters less but you gotta see what is good or bad for the Collective Society .. and that is what Islam is about who thinks Muslims as a single body .



Its a bit complicated, i am personally not a fan of Bikini nor i believe that a girl needs a two piece underwear or bra to swim or enjoy , the purpose of Bikini is more about Showing off body than it has anything to do with enjoying or swimming .. what others do is their matter but it all comes to collective society , if in a Hypothetical Islamic society some women suddenly start wearing bikini and state do nothing , than it will encourage other women to follow their suites. as they say in Urdu " Kharbooze ko dekh ker Kharbooza rang pakerta hai " .



in this particular case, there is an alternative way, you want to kiss your wife get back to your home or rent a hotel room to do so .. no one is stopping you to kiss or make out , people are asking you that they don't want others to see kissing , cause everyone has their own rights , you cant just make out in beach as their are kids there for whom it would be inappropriate to watch such things , and for 10 people who are kissing on beach i wont ask 1000 people to not go to beach just because what they might see will offend them .. its unfair



my life wasn't any different , watch a movie called Freddy vs Jason on HBO long ago ... thanks to the censorship all +18 scenes were deleted, when i bought the DVD uncut version and play it with all my elder brothers sitting behind, the first scene contains a topless women .. and my brother broke the DVD and almost my head , and barred for using PC for next 5-6 months .
You are creating your own refutation, it is because the creator knows that he gave you a head that he lets you decide on what sort of morality you enforce. Medina isnt the complete state solution, if it was then hazrat Usman would not be humiliated by Hazrat Ali’s son nor Bibi Aisha ride on camelback against Hazrat Ali. They DID have “who is this Abu Bakr and who this Usman to rule us”. That is the part conveniently forgotten by romatic historians. We have a schism in Islam to this day because of it.

Medina under the prophet was just his explanation of what the Quran applied exactly for his time was; we don’t leave cars to travel on camels like the Prophet nor is miswak what is Sunnah- keeping teeth clean is!

You already answered the part regarding religion and culture, if we as a nation are intolerat, emotional and rabid then we WILL interpret Quran and Sunnah in that light and make laws reflecting that mentality under the guise of religious diktat. Then such a society will make a law asking people to chew on tree bark and shun toothbrushes because that will be seen as unislamic.
What stops them from presenting it as the good of society?

The first time I saw drugs and drink wS in Saudi Arabia, the place where everything supposedly shuts down during prayer. Women throw out the abaya in the ground the second they leave public areas and by that I don’t mean the streets but in private housing societies. So what good did all that enforced religious diktat do? It only caused greater curiosity to the deviation and greater rebellion.

You cannot battle human nature already mentioned in the Quran and you cannot prevent your greatest enemy, the one who gave the idea for the fruit and have you thrown out of heaven. The rebellion was within man, all it took was evil to push it and it formented to take the forbidden fruit. That lesson is being given to us, that we will be tempted, we will rebel when told not to. Our best hope lies in educating ourselves and acting as individuals to correct what is wrong and praying to Allah for protection from evil.
Enforcement of laws comes to prevent harm to each other, but all laws cannot prevent murder even in supposedly the most secure and surveyed of cities. punishment is pointless once the deed is done and only serves to remove a threat, not prevent it beyond deterrence.

So if deterrence is the key, then why not have the actual punishments? The cutting of hands and arms? Those actually served a good purpose and the Prophet was vocal about using them. Yet when it came to adultery he tried to ignore confessions? He ignored it thrice?
Why were concubines allowed in Islam? Why did the immediate caliphs after the 4, some companions to the Prophet take them?

If we are to accept that the Prophet was the living embodiment of how to live the Quran’s commandments then it is clear- he enforced certain punishment and was toleratant of other misdeeds because he was given the best understanding of human nature through god. He understood that humans arent melons, it takes a lot of factors to raise bad people.. including some that just are predisposed to be.
He understood that theft and murder were above all crimes to be prevented, and interest.. but the concept of premarital relationships was to be discouraged through other means and resolved in other ways.

Iran & Saudi Arabia are a great example on how what was prevented publicly has taken hold in much more rebellious ways out of the way of the law.

All these attempts to close off heera mandi has led to naught btw, they have moved onto DHa y block. And will move elsewhere.. and on and on.

These kids are stupid and hormonally charged; the police have actually tried to handle this as amicably as possible. But if the current laws were enforced and actually put into action, would lead to either the young man searching for prostitutes or being enticed into other acts.. instead of his parents being held responsible. The girl who was found kissing could be found with another girl in a sexual experimentation(which happens in many girl only establishments) or running away with a young man.

The solution to this would have been an parents giving good earlier interactions, stricter upbringing and then encouraging activities that divert the libido..

Ruining the kids lives because they could not control their hormones only speaks of a despot society and reflects Islam as a barbaric religion that could not have come from a all understanding, all knowing creator.
 
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Dumbass police in Pakistan. Dumbass culture of Pakistan. That’s the big issue with this country where even kissing is not allowed

Really and what culture you support where someone is fu***g someone's sister in front of him....and they are doing what they want in the name of freedom....and where naked miles are allowed and Burga is banned in the name of freedom....where all girls lost their virginity before the age of 19...and mostly people are struggling to find who was their father..........
 
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You are creating your own refutation, it is because the creator knows that he gave you a head that he lets you decide on what sort of morality you enforce. Medina isnt the complete state solution, if it was then hazrat Usman would not be humiliated by Hazrat Ali’s son nor Bibi Aisha ride on camelback against Hazrat Ali. They DID have “who is this Abu Bakr and who this Usman to rule us”. That is the part conveniently forgotten by romatic historians. We have a schism in Islam to this day because of it.

Well i think Madina was the closest a Society can get to be perfect .. and for Hazrat Usman RA we both know it not as simple as we think ? Usman in fact did things that were beneficial to individual or his own clan which falls against my point that in Islam Individuals feeling , freedom or rights will not matter when it comes to Collective society . if you see it from this prospectus Ayesha RA main reason to go to war with Ali RA was asking for Justice for the murderers of Usman RA , which is necessary because a society cant function without justice in it ..Ali RA in his own right he also think of Collective Muslims that is why he restrain over punishing the culprits .

Medina under the prophet was just his explanation of what the Quran applied exactly for his time was; we don’t leave cars to travel on camels like the Prophet nor is miswak what is Sunnah- keeping teeth clean is!

I understand but i think you are mentioning issues which even Allah knows transform into society over time , that is Why you find no mentions of a lot of things in Quran because of the very reason that with time and society it changes .

What stops them from presenting it as the good of society?

Religion is not only pillar that holds the society in its place, we have a culture which consist of many sub cultures mostly Tribal's , so even if we keep a blkind eye on Islam we have to respect the said Culture of our people .

The first time I saw drugs and drink wS in Saudi Arabia, the place where everything supposedly shuts down during prayer. Women throw out the abaya in the ground the second they leave public areas and by that I don’t mean the streets but in private housing societies. So what good did all that enforced religious diktat do? It only caused greater curiosity to the deviation and greater rebellion.

I have see similar things in UAE back in 2014 ... even worse when i visit Atlantic Hotel and Burj al Khalifa at new years night .. but that is UAE problem not Islam , what girls do in KSA has problem for KSA and its culture because if they want to live by the Islam they have to change a lot of things .

You cannot battle human nature already mentioned in the Quran and you cannot prevent your greatest enemy, the one who gave the idea for the fruit and have you thrown out of heaven. The rebellion was within man, all it took was evil to push it and it formented to take the forbidden fruit. That lesson is being given to us, that we will be tempted, we will rebel when told not to. Our best hope lies in educating ourselves and acting as individuals to correct what is wrong and praying to Allah for protection from evil.
Enforcement of laws comes to prevent harm to each other, but all laws cannot prevent murder even in supposedly the most secure and surveyed of cities. punishment is pointless once the deed is done and only serves to remove a threat, not prevent it beyond deterrence.

I think punishment is important, you can't rely on education alone when societies stop fearing LAW they become more rebellious , some times Iron Fist can bring positive Results and Abu Bakr RA campaign against those who refused to pay Zakat after Prophet's death is prove of that ..

If we are to accept that the Prophet was the living embodiment of how to live the Quran’s commandments then it is clear- he enforced certain punishment and was toleratant of other misdeeds because he was given the best understanding of human nature through god. He understood that humans arent melons, it takes a lot of factors to raise bad people.. including some that just are predisposed to be.
He understood that theft and murder were above all crimes to be prevented, and interest.. but the concept of premarital relationships was to be discouraged through other means and resolved in other ways.

well I agree with you that he kept a bit soft hand when it comes to going for extreme measure on premarital relationships, but the point that his actions were once again for the collective society not for individual. but lets understand that he doesn't even have to deal with certain issues for example like the one we are talking about , kissing out in Public .. that was a non issue at that time because even before Islam came the warlords of Arabs have their own customized Society where they did not endorsed public affection or nudity, and if you compare it with the dark ages of Europe its different .

Iran & Saudi Arabia are a great example on how what was prevented publicly has taken hold in much more rebellious ways out of the way of the law.

I think Pakistan can be added to the list .. a lot of things happen behind the curtains and in dark streets .

All these attempts to close off heera mandi has led to naught btw, they have moved onto DHa y block. And will move elsewhere.. and on and on.

Corruption in the society nothing new ... but ask yourself this , do you want to live in a society where when and if a Women take off her clothes out public instead of anyone stop her or cover her people start taking pics and videos clapping for her .. or you want to live in a society where a women dress modestly and if she does anything rebellious like that she has repercussion ( not beheading but whatever the law states ) .

The solution to this would have been an parents giving good earlier interactions, stricter upbringing and then encouraging activities that divert the libido..

it will help but not a solution, i have studied in 1 school , 2 college and 2 universities .. and i have seen plenty of Abaya and hijabi girl doing things which i didn't know exists in Pakistani society and some of them i know and meet their parents and they are very Sharif people and their household is very decent , just one rebellious person in any family can ruined it ..and where family thinks that our responsibility ends state's starts .

Ruining the kids lives because they could not control their hormones only speaks of a despot society and reflects Islam as a barbaric religion that could not have come from a all understanding, all knowing creator.

I don't think few hours in Jail or a gentle tap of education on the law of the land will not ruin their lives , sometimes you don't even know what is allowed and what is not . My own non Muslim Caucasian wife ask me what is acceptable and what is not in Pakistani society .. throughout her stay in Pakistan she wears salwaar kameez with dupata on her head , not because i forced her to but because when she see my Mother , sister , aunt and sister in laws wearing similar .. but i took her to different places in Karachi where she saw girls wearing half sleeves , tight pants and even backless dresses .. her reaction was amazing :)
 
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Yeh sab naahin chalega Naya Pakistan mein..... :D
 
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Display of public affection is frowned upon in most eastern societies. I do not get the outrage here and the utter disgust for the police who are just doing their job.
 
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farigh police fazul kaam may efficient jo kaam hai woh nai kartay harami
 
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Please note that I don't approve of PDA. But this couple were doing it in a car.

I don't think Kissing is ban in car. Police should focus on to control crime rate instead of these pitty things.

What a waste of fu(king time.

Police should be focused on terrorism and crime control. Waste of tax payers money.

What a waste of Pakistani tax by police. And a dumbfk who reported it.

no big deal man. what is wrong???

If its consensual , dont see a problem with it.

How about stopping terrorists than interfering in other peoples lives.

Dumbass police in Pakistan. Dumbass culture of Pakistan. That’s the big issue with this country where even kissing is not allowed

To be fair to the police, the senior officer considered the whole affair as a minor issue VVV

SHO Muhammad Basheer also maintained that the couple were ‘kissing’. “This is a small matter. Media should report about serious crime such as robberies not these trivial things,” he added and did not respond to further queries.

No, where do you got the idea bro ? Only women wearing silk but I dont know with non Muslim men.

I see.

I always thought in pictures like this from Indonesia the men wore silk shirts :

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Anyone who thinks wearing a silk shirt is a crime or whatever is a f**king idiot. Clear sign of a failing society.

@Handshake quoted from the hadees Tirmizi that men wearing silk is the mark of a failing society.

That is why we must apply common sense when quoting hadees works.
 
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WTF this happens in most Arab countries, Dubai , Bahrain, Qatar etc, no stopping

Come on Pak Police needs to grow up and do the right actions, kissing and cuddling is no big issue.
 
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