I love 50 shares of grey. I would want my wife to surrender to what I say when it comes to not doing things which Islam has prohibited . She should follow me when I say this certain thing is not allowed in Islam . Like Her clothing , Social interaction especially with stranger men on community basis or social media platforms , respecting me and my parents . Imagination is a great thing . It's better than actually doing that thing . Fetishes , Passions , fantasies , kinks are all part of our imagination.