It is a cruel joke on destiny that you still have something to be proud of after losing East Pakistan. The same military that rules your country has fed you these lies to continue your patronage and never question their motive.
The 1965 war was started by Pakistan, and then you still celebrate defence day every year for being able to defend yourself - am I right?
In 1999, you lost the Kashmir cause forever. Whatever credibility you had got destroyed. India also still retains some of peaks that were occupied. There has been no change in status quo or no benefit at all for Pakistan.
I don't know which Kargil you are talking about, your leaders went running helter skelter because they failed and that's why mushy had to coup and he's still on the run to this day.