Appreciate your view.. but every coins has two sides.
But I think long before we were meddling in Afghanistan.. India has a solid influence in Afghanistan and were using against us creating Baloach insurgency. Actually we were late in meddling.
US is number 1 country in all terms. Tell me one thing US meddle in almost every country from very past to till date. I am not saying that Pakistan too follow that steps but in order to be stable we need to carry out some operation wherever needed.
Saudi too is created by UK and US. Just have some research.
They funded CIA and MOSSAD to create ISIS which has no objective of doing something for Islam.
Afghanistan Taliban is not a terrorist organisation.
They were doing good job before US attack Afghanistan.
The only problem with Pakistan was corrupt politician and some generals too. But we will never get ideal situation. We need to act whenever and wherever there is need.
Sitting idle is worst than loosing war.
I am not saying to go for war. But we need to prioritise our action. The very first step was huge investment in education and second was agriculture and defence side by side. But from very beginning there was almost nil investment in education which results in failure not because of meddling.
Today also I will favour for education as it will improve our thinking capability.
My friend the Baluchistan meddling during Bhutto's' time was the work of KGB and not of the Indians. Even Iraq was used to supply arms to insurgents. Afghanistan was used as a safe haven and a staging area. India was concentrating E. Pakistan and then wrapping up what they had achieved. There are some interesting books about this written by well known authors amongst them a former Pakistani Ambassador to Afghanistan.
As far as meddling is concerned -- it all depends upon which side of the coin you are looking at. US meddling in Korea?? Yes true. Meddling in Japan - true, Meddling in Taiwan, Meddling in Germany - True, Philippines, true, Israel, true Colombia true ........ -- but then ask any of these countries , they would tell u that they support this "Meddling" to some extent. And then there is another set of countries which do not -- the other side of the coin!
The bottom line is that countries that reach a certain economic size and based upon their geography and disposition start hedging against future threats (We do not, as we do not have a long term approach to any thing we are "Mitti Pao," "Dekhan gay," "Allah pay chor daitay hain" lot)
Eventually these countries end up playing in a large pond. Case in point is growth of USSR and its meddling in so many countries that it is beyond imagination -- and none of the countries did well during and immediately after the meddling was over.
USA based on its threat perception; militarily, ideologically and economically tried to influence the outcome that would suit them by Aid, grants, stationing of troops, forming of Alliances etc. In the process both sides ended up at times fighting it out through proxies Angola was one area. El Salvador, Nicaragua, and off course our little pond Afghanistan.
China too is doing this -- through soft loans, aid, offer of military hardware to lot of countries in Africa and Australasia. As their stakes rise and hunger for resources go up -- card dealing starts -- push to call the game emerges.
We too do this "meddling" in our little pond, Iran, India, Siri Lanka, Nepal, Afghanistan and even Burma and at times B.Desh. But we have not institutionalized this game and do not have longer term view -- we react and roll with the punches.
But my friend prudence demands that we play the cards that have been dealt to us to best of our ability till such time when, we, are in the position to deal the cards.(in the case of Super powers -- they try to jockey into a position where they deal the cards).
I dare not write that I know history but if u r interested in it do start from Plutarch, and Herodotus. It starts bringing things in perspective.This great game has been going on eons and will continue until man has gone from this Earth. We need to play to the best of our ability and gain an upper hand when ever we can -- make the most of it -- till such time when we design the game and set up the stakes.
Au Revoir!