RealNapster
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. If you are a Pashtun/Pukhtun you must be knowing that the money is for arrangements like wedding fest and entertain the guests. That too the custom was in some areas not all.
yes khoray. i sure know that. But does it really matter's where the money is going ? No.
I mean' our daugters are our responsibility . Why would we need to take money for the arrangements of there weddings ?
And sure i live 7 km's away from the famous Mahajar camp "jalozi camp".. so i know them from more depth.
Here is where the money goes.
For a normal girl "wedding *i would say* " his family take 5-6 lakh i.e; 500-600 thousand PKR. from which normally 100 thousand goes for the Dowry. they don't make any jewelry any well-categorized furnitures . and normally 50-60 thousand goes to the guests entertaining's. As there wedings are simple so they don't call 100's of peoples.
So normally the total cost sum up say in 200 thousands. so where the other money goes ? My neighbor built an extra room in there home from "that type of" money. here in my town they used to say "falaan banday kay ghar me 4 truck kary hay" .. tab mujhy samj nahe aati the. ab pata chala kay wo unki 4 betya hoti the. qunky mere town kay aksar muhajir apni betyo ko bech kay truck le chukay hay or goods companies chalaty hay and this trend is still going on.
And 2nd, if this money is for arrangements and not any "selling money" ,then why they permanently cutoff there daughters from them self's ?
@Samandri . yes sir. i do know. but i hope my this post will help me in conveying what i have seen throughout these previous 24 years in my life.
Kiya Nani amma ki yaad dila key sara mood kharab kar diya
mera irada be kuch aesa he tha..