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Neptune , sorry I am late to this debate,
all I can do is congratulate you for thinking something yourself. Please read on the subject, remove your own bias (imagine you are born in xyz household) and look at things from completely neutral standpoint.
Your mind will play tricks with you for example if you are turk you will desperately 'want' your version to be true (and not iranian or arabic version of any event), you can never remove that bias but be aware of it.
This is a generic advice to be closer to truth, not specific to religion, for example turks tend to be very nationalistic which is a handicap sometimes.
As somebody said, truth shall set you free.