I assume that you mean to say that Indians are being confrontational but let me point out who has been confrontational and who has harmed the strategic interests of others.
It was China who clandestinely provided the "ISLAMIC" bomb to Pakistan and missiles that can deliver them on Indians (and specifically on Hindus if such a thing was ever possible). Even today, the Pakistani Politicians openly declare Nuclear Holocaust on Indians and Hindus in particular on a regular basis (now, this is not an exaggeration -- just look a month ago a mainstream Pakistani politician threatened Hindus with Nuclear holocaust)!! Nobody has harmed India's strategic interests permanently more than the Chinese! How would China like if we arm her neighbors (read Philippines, Myanmar, Vietnam) with Nuclear bombs and missiles to deliver them?
There are tons of sources from the US and UK that Pakistani spies in the West were the main reason the bomb came to be in Pakistan. I won't say China never played a part, that's hard to prove, but it's not a major one.
No nation on earth would transfer nuclear technology of the kind you are suggesting.
Second, you deliver nukes to Philippines or Myanmar or Vietnam and the US will sanction you back to the stone age.
Which leads me back to the first point. The US didn't even flinch at Pakistan with the Bomb, when they made a big deal even when India got the bomb. We were not on the friendliest terms then, why would they not sanction us.
If ever, a mad general or an extremist (of which there is no dearth in Pakistan), were to get hold of a nuclear weapon and kill millions and millions of Indians, the Chinese should take pride in the fact that they were directly responsible for that!
Again this is just the typical crap that some people like to use, rogue, crazy, extremist. Everyone else is the problem except you.
Pakistan's got problems, I'll give you that, but to suggest Pakistani government and military are filled with nut jobs is frankly weird.
But then again, one of the top stories this year in India is how China is rogue because we are not a democracy, so I'm not surprised.
It is the Chinese who are directly or indirectly supporting terrorism in India through Pakistan (not just in the disputed territories, mind you!!). They have always turned a blind eye to the mischief of their ally Pakistan when Pakistan used the proxies to cause trouble and loss of innocent lives in Indian Kashmir. Not just that, China directly intervened in UN in 2009 with their VETO to support terrorist groups when UN met after aftermath of 26/11 Mumbai attacks to designate and condemn terrorist groups based in Pakistan!
We did condemn the attacks.
What Pakistan does is up to them, and let's not pretend that India is innocent in this, despite what China is doing in the China seas, why do we not get fired on.
Maybe it's time to look in the mirror. Or an American documentary.
Even on the border disputes, it is the Chinese whose sincerity is to be questioned -- not India's! Even at the time of their President's visit to India, they indulged in trespassing into Indian territory and scuttled the whole visit!! They have been postponing the talks on one pretext or the other! But I understand why anybody in China's "strong" position would put away any border settlements because the longer they delay it, the stronger their position is going to get!!
The border dispute is ancient history, China Japan trade is going strong, China ASEAN trade is also going strong.
It's only you that's got the problem.
We can do business just fine, when there are issues on the table, China US trade is also booming, so again, you problem, not ours.
And, I haven't even discussed about the attitude of the good Chinese fellows here on PDF whose solo motto is to troll on Indian matters!! Again not an exaggeration, there are dozens of them who even have troll messages for India as their signatures and their own USER-ID's! Now, you tell me who is confrontational here!
Some of our members may have some problems, yes, their comments maybe cruel and unnecessary, but they are not far from facts. Mostly because poverty and the side effects of it are very easily confirmed.
While Indian members use attacks that are baseless, like we are oppressed, no rights or something like that. Anybody who's been in China would never say that, and while on the subject, China is far closer to the Western world on the Homosexual issue, domestic violence, as well as other social issues than India. Another side effect of not being as poor as we once were.
So you can say some say things in poor taste, but at least it's not as subjective.
Overall, I understand your point about neighbors co-operating for the greater good of their populace, but there is so much bad blood between China and India that I think there may be a distinct possibility of establishing peace between an Islamic Pakistan and Hindu India but no such possibility between a Buddhist/Atheist China and Buddhist/Hindu India!
There is no bad blood there, most Chinese in China, don't care about India much. You think we are anti India, get over yourself, China is all hands on deck to take on the reigning super power, not India.
From all this interaction with Indian members here and all I can say is no wonder you are still so poor. Business is business, if you can't see that, then, what can I tell you.