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Bangladesh's Tanzim Hasan Sakib is embroiled in controversy over his misogynistic social media posts
Bangladesh's Tanzim Hasan Sakib is embroiled in controversy over his misogynistic social media posts © Ishara S.KODIKARA / AFP/File

Bowler Tanzim Hasan Sakib took the wicket of India captain Rohit Sharma with only his fourth delivery in international cricket when the neighbours met in the Asia Cup on Friday, before holding his nerve in the final over to secure victory for Bangladesh.
The resulting adulation for the 20-year-old, though, turned to scorn from women's rights activists and feminists after his misogynist social media posts came to light.
"If the wife works, the husband's rights are not ensured," Tanzim posted on Facebook last year. "If the wife works, the child's rights are not ensured. If the wife works, her elegance is damaged.
"If the wife works, the family is ruined. If the wife works, the veil is ruined. If the wife works, society is ruined."

Women form the vast majority of the workforce of the garment factories that have driven much of Bangladesh's economic growth in recent years.
But conservative patriarchal attitudes remain widespread in the majority Muslim country.

In another post, Tanzim warned men that their sons would not have a "modest" mother if they married "a woman who is accustomed to free mixing with her male friends in a university".
The comments provoked a backlash, with Paris-based feminist writer Jannatun Nayeem Prity pointing out that the Bangladesh team jerseys were made in factories mostly staffed by women.
"I feel sorry for you that you don't consider your mother a normal human being," she added.

Writer Swakrito Noman described the comments as "deeply offensive" in a widely-shared Facebook post, demanding the Bangladesh Cricket Board (BCB) question Tanzim and the player apologise.
Journalist Mejbaul Haque added Monday: "The status of such a distorted form of misogyny is unacceptable. No matter how big a star he is!"
The BCB said it was investigating.

"The issue came to our attention. We are looking into the matter," its cricket operations chief Jalal Yunus told AFP.
Tanzim has played 12 first-class matches in his short senior career, after helping Bangladesh win the Under-19 World Cup in 2020.


 
Bangladesh's Tanzim Hasan Sakib is embroiled in controversy over his misogynistic social media posts's Tanzim Hasan Sakib is embroiled in controversy over his misogynistic social media posts
Bangladesh's Tanzim Hasan Sakib is embroiled in controversy over his misogynistic social media posts © Ishara S.KODIKARA / AFP/File

Bowler Tanzim Hasan Sakib took the wicket of India captain Rohit Sharma with only his fourth delivery in international cricket when the neighbours met in the Asia Cup on Friday, before holding his nerve in the final over to secure victory for Bangladesh.
The resulting adulation for the 20-year-old, though, turned to scorn from women's rights activists and feminists after his misogynist social media posts came to light.
"If the wife works, the husband's rights are not ensured," Tanzim posted on Facebook last year. "If the wife works, the child's rights are not ensured. If the wife works, her elegance is damaged.
"If the wife works, the family is ruined. If the wife works, the veil is ruined. If the wife works, society is ruined."

Women form the vast majority of the workforce of the garment factories that have driven much of Bangladesh's economic growth in recent years.
But conservative patriarchal attitudes remain widespread in the majority Muslim country.

In another post, Tanzim warned men that their sons would not have a "modest" mother if they married "a woman who is accustomed to free mixing with her male friends in a university".
The comments provoked a backlash, with Paris-based feminist writer Jannatun Nayeem Prity pointing out that the Bangladesh team jerseys were made in factories mostly staffed by women.
"I feel sorry for you that you don't consider your mother a normal human being," she added.

Writer Swakrito Noman described the comments as "deeply offensive" in a widely-shared Facebook post, demanding the Bangladesh Cricket Board (BCB) question Tanzim and the player apologise.
Journalist Mejbaul Haque added Monday: "The status of such a distorted form of misogyny is unacceptable. No matter how big a star he is!"
The BCB said it was investigating.

"The issue came to our attention. We are looking into the matter," its cricket operations chief Jalal Yunus told AFP.
Tanzim has played 12 first-class matches in his short senior career, after helping Bangladesh win the Under-19 World Cup in 2020.


He is right.
 
He is right. Mothers raise children. If they are working 9-5 and so are the fathers, who raises you children? Daycare, school, nurseries. Strangers.

When a woman works 9-5 who cooks dinner? It's not fair to expect her to cook dinner. This is why in the West they have frozen meals and microwave meals.

When your children are ill or off school for the holidays, if both husband and wife are working - who looks after them?

If you want your woman to work, then you should do the decent thing and stay at home. Raise your children, cook the meals, clean the home.

Maybe you're bigshots and can hire a chef and a cleaner and a nanny. The vast majority of the world where both partners work don't have that luxury. They are either overworked or they compromise of cleansiness, nutrition or family time. How many times have you heard a gora colleague say "i can't have anyone around, my house is a tip".
 
He is right. Mothers raise children. If they are working 9-5 and so are the fathers, who raises you children? Daycare, school, nurseries. Strangers.

When a woman works 9-5 who cooks dinner? It's not fair to expect her to cook dinner. This is why in the West they have frozen meals and microwave meals.

When your children are ill or off school for the holidays, if both husband and wife are working - who looks after them?

If you want your woman to work, then you should do the decent thing and stay at home. Raise your children, cook the meals, clean the home.

Maybe you're bigshots and can hire a chef and a cleaner and a nanny. The vast majority of the world where both partners work don't have that luxury. They are either overworked or they compromise of cleansiness, nutrition or family time. How many times have you heard a gora colleague say "i can't have anyone around, my house is a tip".
I went to Pakistan a long time ago, and I was amazed at the food. Even though the average Pakistani earns a fraction of the average Britain, he eats far better. Also, with a lack of processed food and chemicals, far healthier.

Why? Because Pakistani women are trained from childhood to cook, and have the time to do so.

Would you rather come home to a chemical dinner from Tesco's?
 
I went to Pakistan a long time ago, and I was amazed at the food. Even though the average Pakistani earns a fraction of the average Britain, he eats far better. Also, with a lack of processed food and chemicals, far healthier.

Why? Because Pakistani women are trained from childhood to cook, and have the time to do so.

Would you rather come home to a chemical dinner from Tesco's?
pakistan everyone got chickens and sheep in the back yard but in england your garden is tiny unsuitable for keeping sheep or chikens.
 
He is right. Mothers raise children. If they are working 9-5 and so are the fathers, who raises you children? Daycare, school, nurseries. Strangers.

When a woman works 9-5 who cooks dinner? It's not fair to expect her to cook dinner. This is why in the West they have frozen meals and microwave meals.

When your children are ill or off school for the holidays, if both husband and wife are working - who looks after them?

If you want your woman to work, then you should do the decent thing and stay at home. Raise your children, cook the meals, clean the home.

Maybe you're bigshots and can hire a chef and a cleaner and a nanny. The vast majority of the world where both partners work don't have that luxury. They are either overworked or they compromise of cleansiness, nutrition or family time. How many times have you heard a gora colleague say "i can't have anyone around, my house is a tip".
All the women in my house in India are working 9-5 and juggling family and work. You just adapt and have fewer kids. You stay home until the kids are school going and then you start your career. You can have servants and maids, if you make good income.
 
Yep he is right

Women need to concentrate on building and nurturing their families,

Men need to take a lead and earn for and protect their families

And both parents need to impart values, faith and culture to their children
 
"If the wife works, the husband's rights are not ensured," Tanzim posted on Facebook last year. "If the wife works, the child's rights are not ensured. If the wife works, her elegance is damaged.
"If the wife works, the family is ruined. If the wife works, the veil is ruined. If the wife works, society is ruined."

Could not agree more.

Working women are the reason why males are becoming job less.

All the women in my house in India are working 9-5 and juggling family and work. You just adapt and have fewer kids. You stay home until the kids are school going and then you start your career. You can have servants and maids, if you make good income.

No wonder Hindus are dumb.
 
Bangladesh's Tanzim Hasan Sakib is embroiled in controversy over his misogynistic social media posts's Tanzim Hasan Sakib is embroiled in controversy over his misogynistic social media posts
Bangladesh's Tanzim Hasan Sakib is embroiled in controversy over his misogynistic social media posts © Ishara S.KODIKARA / AFP/File

Bowler Tanzim Hasan Sakib took the wicket of India captain Rohit Sharma with only his fourth delivery in international cricket when the neighbours met in the Asia Cup on Friday, before holding his nerve in the final over to secure victory for Bangladesh.
The resulting adulation for the 20-year-old, though, turned to scorn from women's rights activists and feminists after his misogynist social media posts came to light.
"If the wife works, the husband's rights are not ensured," Tanzim posted on Facebook last year. "If the wife works, the child's rights are not ensured. If the wife works, her elegance is damaged.
"If the wife works, the family is ruined. If the wife works, the veil is ruined. If the wife works, society is ruined."

Women form the vast majority of the workforce of the garment factories that have driven much of Bangladesh's economic growth in recent years.
But conservative patriarchal attitudes remain widespread in the majority Muslim country.

In another post, Tanzim warned men that their sons would not have a "modest" mother if they married "a woman who is accustomed to free mixing with her male friends in a university".
The comments provoked a backlash, with Paris-based feminist writer Jannatun Nayeem Prity pointing out that the Bangladesh team jerseys were made in factories mostly staffed by women.
"I feel sorry for you that you don't consider your mother a normal human being," she added.

Writer Swakrito Noman described the comments as "deeply offensive" in a widely-shared Facebook post, demanding the Bangladesh Cricket Board (BCB) question Tanzim and the player apologise.
Journalist Mejbaul Haque added Monday: "The status of such a distorted form of misogyny is unacceptable. No matter how big a star he is!"
The BCB said it was investigating.

"The issue came to our attention. We are looking into the matter," its cricket operations chief Jalal Yunus told AFP.
Tanzim has played 12 first-class matches in his short senior career, after helping Bangladesh win the Under-19 World Cup in 2020.



He has the right to hold and express his opinion, in a democratic country. This wouldn't have been a big deal if he had posted a secular view in line with leftist and liberal perspective. If he had posted something to bash Islam, he would have been lauded as hero for being "brave".

Also to note, this was from 5+ years ago. This guy is just 21. Those who are judging, should check their own social media statuses from their teenage days.

Another lib-turd hypocrisy at display.

All the women in my house in India are working 9-5 and juggling family and work. You just adapt and have fewer kids. You stay home until the kids are school going and then you start your career. You can have servants and maids, if you make good income.

Women working is not prohibited in Islam. There are several conditions however such as - not sacrificing the rights of her children over their mother, not exposing and/or mingling with men which could lead to out of marriage relationships etc.

Tanzim Sakib's statement is overly generalized but he is not a scholar. He expressed his own opinion, and he is entitled to it.
 
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It's not a sustainable way of life. Pakistanis can vouch as to how increasingly difficult it has become to pursue such a lifestyle.
 
He has the right to hold and express his opinion, in a democratic country. This wouldn't have been a big deal if he had posted a secular view in line with leftist and liberal perspective. If he had posted something to bash Islam, he would have been lauded as hero for being "brave".

Also to note, this was from 5+ years ago. This guy is just 21. Those who are judging, should check their own social media statuses from their teenage days.

Another lib-turd hypocrisy at display.



Women working is not prohibited in Islam. There are several conditions however such as - not sacrificing the rights of her children over their mother, not exposing and/or mingling with men which could lead to out of marriage relationships etc.

Tanzim Sakib's statement is overly generalized but he is not a scholar. He expressed his own opinion, and he is entitled to it.

That’s the Wahhabi version of Islam.

Thank god Hasina is bringing back the Bengal Sultanate version of Islam.

The land of saints and mazars.
 
He is right. Mothers raise children. If they are working 9-5 and so are the fathers, who raises you children? Daycare, school, nurseries. Strangers.

When a woman works 9-5 who cooks dinner? It's not fair to expect her to cook dinner. This is why in the West they have frozen meals and microwave meals.

When your children are ill or off school for the holidays, if both husband and wife are working - who looks after them?

If you want your woman to work, then you should do the decent thing and stay at home. Raise your children, cook the meals, clean the home.

Maybe you're bigshots and can hire a chef and a cleaner and a nanny. The vast majority of the world where both partners work don't have that luxury. They are either overworked or they compromise of cleansiness, nutrition or family time. How many times have you heard a gora colleague say "i can't have anyone around, my house is a tip".

yep

the problem is when the wife has to work instead of doing it for extra money


i saw this movie as a young immigrant and was amazed at the american standard of living decades ago

lots of old american movies depict 1 man with typical job supporting family of like 8 kids with house and 2 cars and wife doesnt work

but times has changed with increased government spending/taxation forcing women to take on jobs to support the family
 

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