I totally endorse your views.That's how the Muslims in the sub continent managed to preserve their religion & ethos.Had they accepted what Lt.Gen Hasnain did , who is now being hailed by the Indian posters & reviled by the Pakistani posters , there is a very good chance the Muslims of the sub continent would end up as another sect of Hinduism.Something like the Meos of Mewat , which horrified Mohammed Ilyas enough to launch the Tableeghi Jamaat movement .
You see that's precisely what Brahminism encouraged when they expanded throughout the lengths & breadths of the sub continent , encountering people with varied beliefs ( animists , mother goddess cults , nature worshippers , ancestor worshippers , etc .) faced with the popularity of Shramanic religions & the rapidly declining authority of the Vedas.
They metamorphosed / evolved from a monotheistic faith to a pan theistic one, inventing , assimilating , creating , fusing elaborate mythologies into the Vedic fold in order to accommodate these varied people .It's a very simplistic reductionist narration of how the Vedic religion got gradually converted into what we now know as Puranic Hinduism while retaining the primacy of Brahmins in the evolving order.
Muslims have & will maintain their exclusiveness in the sub continent through their belligerence .Whether it is the Indian Muslims ( if you don't believe me , watch with great interest how the drama over triple talaq unfolds over the next few months) or Pakistanis vis a vis India.That's the only way they know .How much will this benefit them is a topic for another thread.However , I think, the result is foregone conclusion , in both the cases.
But if Lt.Gen Hasnain is a kafir for committing kuffr , then you , Sir , are a takfiri.