There's no 'everybody hates him'. All the 'everybody' you talk about trade with Israel, have Israeli embassies functioning in their nations and have regular diplomatic relations with them. Even some do security cooperation. Almost all nations around Israel have peace treaties with them. They all offered a peace deal to make this cooperation significantly greater.
Wait a second, I think I didn't comprehend that right at first. If I understand now, you're saying they should commit to permanent peace. Your analogy is realistic, but not at this moment. Right now, the neighborhood is something Israel is reaching out to. While at it, it wants to disregard Palestinians. Just as their foreign minister has said, we want relations with Arab states but forget the Palestinians.
If your analogy was accurate, we would not be seeing these attacks.