This preception made by Same BC western who "Invented" them for their interests, once there "lab test" fails and became a "fire" for themselves they are now attacking every where like mad dogs and in the process making more people their enemy.
Let me ask you, if US with his 52 allies attack India and stays there for over 15 years, what the Hindus are going to do ???
Now, you need to look in to the modern history of the region a little bit. Talking about Afghanistan, do you think India was not made the same offer ? That's where planning and long term strategies come into action.
In this World, no country is an "all-weather" friend of another country. There are just mutual interests, common goals and your own agenda. It depends upon how strong you are to stand by your own. India realized this long time back and hence decided to be part of non-aligned movement.
Britain, that tiny island, where there is no place that is further than 120 miles from the sea, that tiny island once ruled half of the World. They used to say sun never sets in the British empire. I admire them for that achievement. They did a lot of right things in order to achieve that feat, probably it all started with Magna-carta.
That's an example of what you can achieve when you start thinking for the sake of greater good and for a greater cause, plan in long term.
US attacked Afghanistan, right.
Are boss, how did US get to gain a foothold there in the very first place ? You had no problem when they were launching U2 spy planes from Peshawar back in the 60s ? You had no problem when they were dumping weapons in Rawalpindi ? You had no problems when they were helping you to fight the Soviets in Afghanistan ? Why ? Because of mutual interests.
Now, whenever you create a ripple, there is reactionary effect. There are ramifications of actions. An experienced leader realizes that, analyses that and then decides his course of action. That's where Pakistani leadership failed. So, question to you, "If you did not have any problem with actions, why are you crying foul, when there are reactions ?". If you could not predict and analyse the aftermaths that may follow, then it's your fault.
US is US, Pacific ocean in one side, Atlantic in another. Peaceful Canadians up north and friendly Mexico down south. They are safe, secured.
They did what was best for them, according to their own ground realities. If you got played and fooled, then you can blame nobody but yourself!