You are a lucky man
@jaibi
This was kind of you to share this all with us.
Did you know the word "friend" in french is "copain"...which literally means someone you break bread with?
@Vergennes
Of course brothers serving together in military are another level for this. It is probably with you folks you most directly harness what ignited human civilisation in first place...also around fires in the dark with food to be shared....the trials and tribulations that were witnessed and that linger....
All those millennia of previous wandering before we tamed and understood fire.... and we finally started to make use of our human potential when we shared the experiences of good and bad we saw and did (while partaking of a great need of nourishment physically at same time), so that we may organise well and survive together....support and heal each other.
You warriors today likely make the strongest direct link to our earliest forefathers when you engage in this camaraderie in these deep spiritual ways I would say....how you helped and cared for your brothers in arms, and how they helped and cared for you.
Words cannot really be used to describe it fully in the end I would imagine...what it means to the human soul.