Thats why i never regretted for politely not accepting invitation of a India trip from my high caste white Indian friend in HK, even though i was told he live in one of the best residential area in New Delhi, something like "Colony Defense"? despite driver, servant all along there, i was even offered with a rare and exciting "Dalits hunting trip" However, i'm still not too confident if i will be safe there, cos i've heard too many crazy stories from my Indian friends from HK
See that's where you blew it, pretty cool story otherwise.