Japanese Empire was far superior to Qing and ROC but treating Chinese like insects to be butchered made a peace deal impossible even for Chiang Kai-Shek. Now PRC under leaders like Mao, Deng and Xi are giving the world a hint of what a strong and united East Asian Co-prosperity Sphere should look like. Emperor Akihito and the Prince should attend the ceremony. Nobody wants to see Abe's ugly face.
I agree. If ever a Japanese were to attend the ceremony, it should be The Emperor, who is considered Father of the Nation. Abe, afterall, is just a common Prime Minister who can be replaced. I think it would send a stronger message to China and the rest of the world if Emperor Akihito and Empress Michiko attended. I also think Crown Prince Naruhito (the future Emperor) should attend. Anyways, HRH Prince Naruhito is strongly for peace between China and Japan --- he has made it known on more than one occasion of his disapproval of Uyoku movements .
Remember this -- the future Emperor of Japan has deep fondness for China. He will soon become Father of the Nation, and Symbol of Japan.
It is inevitable that our two countries will cooperate more.
Every country has their own painful memories, taints and never want to mention.Like Chinese government dislike talk about our Culture Revolution.But, our official comment admitted is a disaster.
Shame don't means deny, in Chinese we have an old saying:知耻近乎勇 Feeling of shame is close to bravery(and next phase is mending).
I have no doubt that eventually , in time, there will be full communion between Japanese and Chinese in regards to the war history. We have our own time, afterall, Japan and China have had ties for over 2500 years. Surely, you do not think 70 years is significant? 70 years is insignificant considering the the two and a half millennia of cooperation between our two countries.
I believe that in our grandchildren's generation, or great grand children's generation --- there will be comprehensive amelioration between Japan and China. Realistically, the pain of the war is still there because that generation is still alive. We have to be understanding of the Northeast Asian psychology and predisposition to repress emotional feelings.
Japan is not Germany. China is not America or France or England. East Asian culture and mentality is totally foreign from Western. So it is not wise to juxtapose one for the other. Rather, we have to understand our own and the graduality that is emphasized in our culture.