Apologies if I was harsh on anyone

[Jacob Martin]

Hi, I want to dedicate this thread to my apology to anyone who I have been harsh on lately. Tolerance and acceptance/listening of all views is the cornerstone of debate and I may have failed in this recently.

Please note that I have had an extremely tough life and am facing multiple problems recently and before. I lost three relatives, one very close during the last 3-4 years. The non close ones could have been murdered. And the close one drowned if I don't know something.

I have been struggling to find a job, be independent and my parents have become very different and cold to my problems since the last few years. I am thinking a good job would give me power and independence but I am still far from being independent. This and my parents doing some things are really affecting my self confidence.

On the other hand everything I have tried has failed. I wrote 2 books hoping that my financial situation will change with their publishing but I failed to get published.

Sorry if this sounds like a sob story and because I generally do not share personal problems I have kept this brief rather than detail my problems bit by bit which would even reveal what RAW did to my people. Anyway.

Note that I don't want sympathy or help. Just saying why I have been acting contrary to my core beliefs of liberty and listening to the other side.

I do admit I have been offended by some views. Needless to say I am a Karachite with unproven pashtun background but our family calls itself muhajir. Now I am very patriotic but our family moved a little late. I have seen my share of racism over this. Just because of the Indian muslims who are traitors and Afghan nationals who spit on my country, don't judge us all. Immigration is a truth and people move from somewhere, its the story of earth from the time of homo sapiens. What is the point of denying us when not only the institutions vetted us but also when we start businesses and cater to the needs to the nation by providing jobs. What happened, happened, we migrated to what is now Pakistan. Now its time to make the country better. I have every intention of serving Pakistan.

Anyway that is beyond the scope of this discussion. Here I want to apologize to anyone upon whom I let my anger out.

The only person I don't apologize to is one person I won't name which I am ready to do if he atleast admits he was wrong too. Its not you ghenda.

@save_ghenda @war&peace @Zibago @Divergent1 @Well.wisher @doordie @WAJsal @WebMaster others. Including banned members. Sorry webbie, mods for that mess you had to deal with a few weeks ago because of me.

Really nice expression of sentiments, I am deeply touched. I can fully empathize with you as I have faced the exact same situation as you in life. The same despair, feeling of lack of support and lack of success despite all efforts.

I cannot say that I have erased all of it from my life and become a great success. That would be delusional. However, I do know that today I am much more balanced and relaxed in life. I am at peace with myself and feel good about my life. It has been a long process but worth it.

If there is anything I can do to help in any way, please tell me. I will do anything I can to help you as my younger brother. You are an excellent person and I am sure you will find peace and happiness in life.

 

[haviZsultan]

hahahaha you don't need an investment to stand up on your feet. You have access to internet and you cannot stand on your feet that is very strange.

Well I've written articles which I sent to various newspapers hoping for cash. I managed to publish some but for no money and on lesser known sites like pakium. Then I've tried graphic design. Not too good at it and learned during an internship I was better at strategic planning. So trying my best. Thanks for your advice. Perhaps I spend way too much time seeking knowledge that I miss some opportunities. Thanks though.

Really nice expression of sentiments, I am deeply touched. I can fully empathize with you as I have faced the exact same situation as you in life. The same despair, feeling of lack of support and lack of success despite all efforts.

I cannot say that I have erased all of it from my life and become a great success. That would be delusional. However, I do know that today I am much more balanced and relaxed in life. I am at peace with myself and feel good about my life. It has been a long process but worth it.

If there is anything I can do to help in any way, please tell me. I will do anything I can to help you as my younger brother. You are an excellent person and I am sure you will find peace and happiness in life.

Thanks buddy. Means a lot. I think I need to work harder, thats for certain.

 

[The Sandman]

Hi, I want to dedicate this thread to my apology to anyone who I have been harsh on lately. Tolerance and acceptance/listening of all views is the cornerstone of debate and I may have failed in this recently.

Please note that I have had an extremely tough life and am facing multiple problems recently and before. I lost three relatives, one very close during the last 3-4 years. The non close ones could have been murdered. And the close one drowned if I don't know something.

I have been struggling to find a job, be independent and my parents have become very different and cold to my problems since the last few years. I am thinking a good job would give me power and independence but I am still far from being independent. This and my parents doing some things are really affecting my self confidence.

On the other hand everything I have tried has failed. I wrote 2 books hoping that my financial situation will change with their publishing but I failed to get published.

Sorry if this sounds like a sob story and because I generally do not share personal problems I have kept this brief rather than detail my problems bit by bit which would even reveal what RAW did to my people. Anyway.

Note that I don't want sympathy or help. Just saying why I have been acting contrary to my core beliefs of liberty and listening to the other side.

I do admit I have been offended by some views. Needless to say I am a Karachite with unproven pashtun background but our family calls itself muhajir. Now I am very patriotic but our family moved a little late. I have seen my share of racism over this. Just because of the Indian muslims who are traitors and Afghan nationals who spit on my country, don't judge us all. Immigration is a truth and people move from somewhere, its the story of earth from the time of homo sapiens. What is the point of denying us when not only the institutions vetted us but also when we start businesses and cater to the needs to the nation by providing jobs. What happened, happened, we migrated to what is now Pakistan. Now its time to make the country better. I have every intention of serving Pakistan.

Anyway that is beyond the scope of this discussion. Here I want to apologize to anyone upon whom I let my anger out.

The only person I don't apologize to is one person I won't name which I am ready to do if he atleast admits he was wrong too. Its not you ghenda.

@save_ghenda @war&peace @Zibago @Divergent1 @Well.wisher @doordie @WAJsal @WebMaster others. Including banned members. Sorry webbie, mods for that mess you had to deal with a few weeks ago because of me.

May Allah give you patience and strength to overcome your problems and your posts are always very good judging from your posts one can tell that this guy is patriotic Pakistani you're a very nice guy keep it up bro.

Oh damn I forgot our brother Vcheng.

You mean @syed ali haider?

 

[BHarwana]

Well I've written articles which I sent to various newspapers hoping for cash. I managed to publish some but for no money and on lesser known sites like pakium. Then I've tried graphic design. Not too good at it and learned during an internship I was better at strategic planning. So trying my best. Thanks for your advice. Perhaps I spend way too much time seeking knowledge that I miss some opportunities. Thanks though.

give me an email address and you will stand up on your feet with in a month.

 

[haviZsultan]

May Allah give you patience and strength to overcome your problems and your posts are always very good judging from your posts one can tell that this guy is patriotic Pakistani you're a very nice guy keep it up bro.

You mean @syed ali haider?

Thanks.

Yes glad you called him. No hard feelings Syed.

 

[ssethii]

What profession do you want to pursue if I may ask?

 

[The Sandman]

Thanks.

Yes glad you called him. No hard feelings Syed.

Actually it's syed ali haider but there are many SAH's so i tagged a wrong guy but that is his current ID name.

 

[sakha39]

hahahaha you don't need an investment to stand up on your feet. You have access to internet and you cannot stand on your feet that is very strange.

I think the guy could use some encouragement here. I am sure he knows that. Plus its not that easy Mr.Steve Jobs

 

[[Bregs]]

All the best in your future endeavours which i am sure you will succeed in. Best of luck

 

[adil_minhas]

Hi, I want to dedicate this thread to my apology to anyone who I have been harsh on lately. Tolerance and acceptance/listening of all views is the cornerstone of debate and I may have failed in this recently.

Please note that I have had an extremely tough life and am facing multiple problems recently and before. I lost three relatives, one very close during the last 3-4 years. The non close ones could have been murdered. And the close one drowned if I don't know something.

I have been struggling to find a job, be independent and my parents have become very different and cold to my problems since the last few years. I am thinking a good job would give me power and independence but I am still far from being independent. This and my parents doing some things are really affecting my self confidence.

On the other hand everything I have tried has failed. I wrote 2 books hoping that my financial situation will change with their publishing but I failed to get published.

Sorry if this sounds like a sob story and because I generally do not share personal problems I have kept this brief rather than detail my problems bit by bit which would even reveal what RAW did to my people. Anyway.

Note that I don't want sympathy or help. Just saying why I have been acting contrary to my core beliefs of liberty and listening to the other side.

I do admit I have been offended by some views. Needless to say I am a Karachite with unproven pashtun background but our family calls itself muhajir. Now I am very patriotic but our family moved a little late. I have seen my share of racism over this. Just because of the Indian muslims who are traitors and Afghan nationals who spit on my country, don't judge us all. Immigration is a truth and people move from somewhere, its the story of earth from the time of homo sapiens. What is the point of denying us when not only the institutions vetted us but also when we start businesses and cater to the needs to the nation by providing jobs. What happened, happened, we migrated to what is now Pakistan. Now its time to make the country better. I have every intention of serving Pakistan.

Anyway that is beyond the scope of this discussion. Here I want to apologize to anyone upon whom I let my anger out.

The only person I don't apologize to is one person I won't name which I am ready to do if he atleast admits he was wrong too. Its not you ghenda.

@save_ghenda @war&peace @Zibago @Divergent1 @Well.wisher @doordie @WAJsal @WebMaster others. Including banned members. Sorry webbie, mods for that mess you had to deal with a few weeks ago because of me.

Hope you do well in the nation your parents adopted brother.

You can call us traitors.

We call those who moved something else.

Especially those who moved later.

 

[Jacob Martin]

Well I've written articles which I sent to various newspapers hoping for cash. I managed to publish some but for no money and on lesser known sites like pakium. Then I've tried graphic design. Not too good at it and learned during an internship I was better at strategic planning. So trying my best. Thanks for your advice. Perhaps I spend way too much time seeking knowledge that I miss some opportunities. Thanks though.


Thanks buddy. Means a lot. I think I need to work harder, thats for certain.

If I may ask, what line of work are you into?

The only reason I am asking is because I myself started as a freelancer when I realized that there were no job openings that met my criteria. It takes time and effort but one must also be aware of the right avenues. I might be able to share with you any knowledge I may have about it if I knew what kind of work you are looking for.

 

[BHarwana]

I think the guy could use some encouragement here. I am sure he knows that. Plus its not that easy Mr.Steve Jobs

I am encouraging him. I have seen his posts and the way he approaches thing. He has a beautiful mind. I am the only one who has offered him guidance where as rest are only consolidating.

 

[Well.wisher]

No lol ..

I don't think you were ever harsh with me infact I see you supporting me at mine every argument despite being am silly you still have always been supporting and soft spoken to me . You're one favourite member .

Don't worry , everything will be alright , may God give you more patience. : )
Thanks for mentioning me .

 

[war&peace]

@haviZsultan, a few general points. You are a skilled writer so you have that potential. Since I'm not aware of your academic/professional qualification, I will give you a few general tips (in no particular order)

• Make a damn good CV
• Polish your academic skills
• Spend more time on Linkedin and other job search engines than online discussion forums
• Try to warm up your relations with your parents and spend some quality time with them especially with your mom
• Offer 2 rak'aat nafal in addition to the 5 times a day and seek divine help since it always works (speaking from personal experience).

I sincerely wish you best of luck and want to see you successful in this world and hereafter. If you need the more personalized exchange, please let me know and we can arrange that ... (orange juice )

 

[haviZsultan]

Hope you do well in the nation your parents adopted brother.

You can call us traitors.

We call those who moved something else.

Especially those who moved later.

Sorry brother. The emotionalism of our families escape from your country carried me away. I wish you the best sir. But it will be hard for me to forgive those who worked hand in hand with the oppressors. That was harsh too me putting it like that. Just know that I am less anti Indian in personal.

What profession do you want to pursue if I may ask?

I'd prefer a job in history or journalism. But you know the story of the bear. He will eat anything when he is hungry.

give me an email address and you will stand up on your feet with in a month.

Thanks. I don't mix my personal life with forum life, this isn't even my real name but I will be willing to talk to you. This is way too personal for me but I will tell you my background and other details if you send me your e mail id through PM. Thanks for the offer and will offer you details of what I am planning now too.