Let me try to explain with regards to the present incident:
The ground reality that will soon be accepted is that nothing substantive will change. The supply routes will reopen soon.
What needs to be done to change the status quo is not chest thumping as is being done by most here, but to build up national character and strength so that over a few years, things might improve.
What you are referring to is not done over easy..
If anything, its common history of the subcontinent you must go back to when looking at such incidents.
perhaps a canard, but a certain members comment about how our armed forces were more than willing to stand up to India aggressively yet seemed to only meow at the US is relevant to national character.
It is easy to shout it all out at other Pakistanis..
it is another matter to put up an actual effective response to the "gora saab" in power.
National character for us is reflective of our leadership, if that can be changed.. so can the people.
History is testament to some of the most deplorable nations being turned around by leadership as long as the conditions were ripe for it. The current outburst at the US(and perhaps your point of view and yourself) is indirectly a shout at our leadership(both civilian and military), a frustration with what is happening to our nation due to their incompetence.
There are faults in the Pakistani nation which are not the fault of all Pakistanis.. but the leadership needed to identify such and rectify them(which is a time intensive process) has been absent. Till such arrives.. we must contend with the will of the people for quick relief from any crises, we must understand the impatience which is justified. Whether the international community does or does not is irrelevant for now. Our current leadership(civilian and military) does not seem to posses the ability to balance this appeasement of emotion , diplomatic caution ..and national interest effectively.
To put it straight.
I just saw the coffins of 26 of my brothers draped in my flag.
By blood boils, My BP has shot up.. my eyes went wet, My fist clenched.
My "heart" wants LGB strikes on the Apache unit, their barracks.. their equipment.
My "Mind" however, lets me know of the consequences of such a move and how ill prepared we are to handle such.
But that is my mind.. it may not be thinking along the lines of everybody else.
But my heart does have a lot in common with a large section of my nation.