I went to school with Indians, several of them were close friends. I work with Indians too, I have never encountered any problem at all, it's true that outside of the sub-continent, both Pakistanis and Indians tend to stick together, unless you are really narrow minded.
In school, the Indians had our back and Pakistanis had their's. The word "****" was thrown out by racists towards both sides, and was dealt jointly by both sides together. The issues of in the sub-continent are real and there is no escaping from them, but that does not mean we forget our humanity, on the contrary, I respect people who can rise above petty jingoism and give precedence to the bonds of humanity.
Which is why I have tended to avoid the recent Pak vs India threads on this forum, because frankly I am disgusted by members from both nations who are so driven by blood lust that they cheer the deaths of their neighbours. I don't know if any one remembers or not, but when I first came on this forum I envisioned some sort of a South Asian union like E.U. Technicalities aside, I still hope for some sort of normality of ties that allows more people to people contact.
I am of Kashmiri origin, plus lost family in partition. Yet I can still forgive those ignorant one's who were seduced by violence and committed atrocities against my family in the hope that those on the other sides can reach the same conclusion.