I have enormous respect for Mani Shankar Aiyar; from what I've heard him say or read what hes written hes a staunch Indian Nationalist who believes in India - what it stands for and what course of action the Congress party took in the years leading up to '47. But at the same time he doesn't let his Nationalism be defined in such a parochial manner that it revolves around 'Hating Pakistan'. Numerous times I've heard him reiterate India's point of view but be open to listening to ours with patience and without the self-righteous smugness that most jingoists - on both sides - display.
He neither rationalizes India's mistakes nor demonizes Pakistan because of our mistakes. He doesn't take out a weighing scale whenever an Indo-Pak discussion is touched upon to weigh the mistakes of each other to decide whether India has one up on Pakistan or not.
In short - Hes the kind of South Asian who would make this region a better place. If there more Pakistanis and Indians like him our issues would've been resolved long ago and you might be having lunch in Lahore while I could be having dinner in Srinagar !
@scorpionx - What is your view about the man ?