Considering women as equal as men in education, employment etc. Not treating them as inferior.
Yes that is sad indeed. It's hopeless to expect any progress from the rulers. I only hope that someone like Edhi(may he rest in peace) starts an online university(free). If the likes of AXACT can grant degrees just with a simple bribe then it's high time that the nation starts accepting diplomas earned from a real online university. I would love to donate if a university like that is to be created and I'm sure others would too. Students would simply take online courses, watch lectures(videos), have access to ebooks, and submit their homework online. As for the exams either they can go to a testing center to take them in the presence of proctors or there can be state exams to determine whether or not the student has actually learned and qualifies for his/her diploma. There are plenty of computer cafes, home computers and smartphones, which should make it easily accessible to most of the public. If a student truly can't afford any of that then he/she can be provided with something like an ipad/laptop(which they will have to return when they finish/graduate). There are plenty of philanthropists(like Bill Gates) who donate to schools for providing such facilities for students.
Yes it can be challenging for women bcuz a mother usually has to invest more time and energy in her kids as compared to a father especially when the kids are little. Traditionally speaking, women are also expected to still cook/clean/do laundry/etc. even after they have a full time job. This is where the men in our culture need to understand that if the woman also has a job and is helping provide for the family then u must also help her with house chores and taking care of kids. It's gotta be a team effort...I'm not married yet but hopefully I wouldn't turn out to be a pain in the *** husband like that in the future
Sadly that's easier said than done. If ppl could control themselves this easily than the earth would've already been a utopia. U will find a lot of ppl(in Pakistan) refrain from certain things not bcuz it's the right thing to do but bcuz some famous religious scholar said so. Whether we like it or not religious leaders and religion hold a lot of sway over what public would or wouldn't do...so why not use it to steer the public in the right direction. I fully agree with what u r saying...I just think it's too optimistic.
Yes it can be challenging for women bcuz a mother usually has to invest more time and energy in her kids as compared to a father especially when the kids are little. Traditionally speaking, women are also expected to still cook/clean/do laundry/etc. even after they have a full time job. This is where the men in our culture need to understand that if the woman also has a job and is helping provide for the family then u must also help her with house chores and taking care of kids. It's gotta be a team effort...I'm not married yet but hopefully I wouldn't turn out to be a pain in the *** husband like that in the future
You don't get what I meant. There is a sinister undertone...they will use acts of injustice like this, to promote activities and concepts which weaken the family. It will not happen overnight, but take decades....
Oye yaar I know there's a ton of problems in Pakistan like no bijli, no internet(in rural areas), etc...lakin apne mulk ki behtri ke khwab toh dekhne diya kero
A religious leader that issues a fatwa for money doesn't deserve that position or high regard. I have no respect for scumbags like that. This is something where the real religious scholars need to come together and issue a proper fatwa with references from Quran/Sunnat. In addition the government should put a legal ban on dowry.
U can employ a maid over there in Pak. Here in the US it's a luxury. Most middle income or lower families can't afford one. Is liye main ne toh khana pakana/kapray dhona/etc seekh liya hai...no maid for meCooking is their hobby ....... not a burden. And plus a maid can be employed to reduce the overall burden
Oye yaar I know there's a ton of problems in Pakistan like no bijli, no internet(in rural areas), etc...lakin apne mulk ki behtri ke khwab toh dekhne diya kero
This online free university is my khwab...it doesn't have to be just university level education...it can provide education from the kindergarten level to bachelors and even masters.
U can employ a maid over there in Pak. Here in the US it's a luxury. Most middle income or lower families can't afford one. Is liye main ne toh khana pakana/kapray dhona/etc seekh liya hai...no maid for me
...... aik amreeci cousin bhi hay mayra bv bacho samait wahi rehta hy .... roz subah sham apni kahania sunata hy sab ko ..... kaisay her kam khud karna parta hy wagaira wagaira ... gareeb logo 
Yes it would indeed be a miracle but I still consider it in the realms of possibilities bcuz this is something that the ppl can do themselves. The miracles that I don't consider in the realms of possibilities is our politicians/leaders waking up and doing something about this. A fine example of this is Edhi sahib. I highly respect the man. He had the courage, will power, and an unending drive with which he created a vast network of ambulances, orphanages, etc. Edhi foundation went so far as to have air ambulances and even helped out ppl in the US(a developed country) in the aftermath of hurricane Katrina. In contrast what did the Pakistani politicians do despite having the power/wealth/resources of a whole country they could utilize? Anything they did analogous to Edhi foundation pales in comparison. So I would rather put my trust behind an honest man(the likes of Sir Edhi)and donate to someone if they rise to the occasion and embark on such a project of free public education than expect anything from these pathetic losers we call leaders.
I hate this argument of "log kya kahein ge"(and it's our desi ppl who think like that). It's simply pointless to consider what the world would say/think. ppl should stop caring about what others would say bcuz the truth is u can never make the world happy. There will always be someone somewhere who will disagree with something u say/do. In short everyone should just try to do the right thing regardless of what the world thinks bcuz in the end u r only accountable for ur own actions.
Lol it has to do with the high cost of living. A high cost of living means higher wages which simply puts something like a maid out of most ppl's reach. The paradox is that in general the ppl in Pakistan think that if u r in America u must be well off/rich but it's not at all true. The cost of living is really high especially here in California...high income taxes...sales taxes on most of the things...health insurance/driver's insurance and other such things. In short before u know it ur paycheck has magically poofed out of existence.I can understand. One of my (female) cousins went to US on that student exchange program for an year .... when she returned I asked her aur sunao Amreeci return kya halat hain waha logo k. What she told me was interesting, first kids in her school thought people in Pakistan still travel using camels, and they were confused how she may have felt flying ..... and then when she showed them pictures of her house and told them that we have maid(s) ...... they were totally shell shocked ....
why saudia didnt or iran its all about implementation.
