Why Wouldn’t I get Married?

[Dubious]

Thats absurd .. STD's are not God's gift. That would be the chicken and egg debate. Which came first? STD's or Sex? The only way STD's can be contained is by wearing a condom. The % of people who get STD's with one partner is very very low. But not non-existent. Multiple partners that % increases in the double digits. And so on and so forth. If I am missing something I am all ears.

Are you a doctor or even studying BIOLOGY? Did I say it is a Gift? All I pointed out is how it is passed! IF 1 partner be it the wife or the husband has it...he/ she will pass it to others! say a man having 4 wives might pass it to all 4 and if the woman brought it in...then again after giving it to the man will pass it to the other 3!

THAT is the simplest way I can put it!

 

[Dubious]

It is constantly evolving. Just like religions through the times.

There is a diffference between a whole new change and a change with the basics still the same! Read my posts carefully

...He is the Knower of the Unseen, Whom not an atom's weight eludes, either in the heavens or in the earth; nor is there anything smaller or larger than that which is not in a Clear Book
. (Qur'an, 34:3)

Now the word previously used was grain of sand now new translators use the word atom...Because the Arabic word is a word used for something small...Back then grain of sand was small...now an atom is smaller so it is preferred! But did the meaning change? NOPE!

 

[Dubious]

This is becoming both pointless & a unnecessary display of cussedness. I'm careful with my words, maybe you should read them carefully too. You are now at risk of arguing for the sake of it. Evolution of medicine is a continuous, ongoing process. The medicines used today have changed from the ones used before, The procedures done today are not the same as those done 30 years ago let alone a much larger span of time. The equipment changes, everything changes.That is evolution. '

Btw, there are now many strains of bacteria which display penicillin resistance & that can only be handled by evolution. The bacteria has evolved & so must the treatment.

Yup things change, believers must too.

I too am careful with my words! I believe I said chemicals are still the same - the basic ingredient if you wish!

Seriously? Basic theory of medicines have evolved? Then ask them to come up with a drug like penicillin without using ANYTHING that was found in the original penicillin! They still use the basic theories and will still use the same chemicals maybe extracted from a different source!

 

[Dubious]

The same way your imiginary friend is. No mockery intended, but asking ANY questions is mockery and must be punished with death. For good reason too. Rules you see, imaginary friend given.

So, you do not want to explain, you can say it simply I do not want to explain...Because I clearly stated I do not intend to mock! IF I did, I would have thrown in my questions without concern!

 

[Raja.Pakistani]

Sir orders of Islam don't change Sir they never have changed never will they Sir the rule will remain clear if women wants to work she can work with the permission of her husband and if environment is Islamic other wise not

What do you mean by islamic environment ?

Islamic environment is requirement for only Muslim female?

Muslim male can work in any islamic or non islamic environment What about those men who are not fulfilling their financial responsibilities to give decent life to wife and kids? I have seen in Pakistan that many female workers who work in factories or houses are from those families where they don't have enough source of income or financial support from her father or husband

I think conflicts within family should be sorted out with mutual consultation and respect. We should care the needs and expectations of each others. Well men should respect the wishes of her wife and he should not treat her like car to drive it wherever he wish without caring about her feelings /emotions or like/dislike. She is human beings and not robot whose remote control you want to keep in your hands

 

[forcetrip]

Are you a doctor or even studying BIOLOGY? Did I say it is a Gift? All I pointed out is how it is passed! IF 1 partner be it the wife or the husband has it...he/ she will pass it to others! say a man having 4 wives might pass it to all 4 and if the woman brought it in...then again after giving it to the man will pass it to the other 3!

THAT is the simplest way I can put it!

We are talking about 1 clean man and 2 or more clean wives. Are you suggesting that because of my limited medical knowledge that family will be STD free forever?

 

[notsuperstitious]

So, you do not want to explain, you can say it simply I do not want to explain...Because I clearly stated I do not intend to mock! IF I did, I would have thrown in my questions without concern!

I explained it perfectly well for an open minded person. You should have specifically asked for an explanation for a person who spends time talking to an imaginary friend and then wonders how someone else can play with a doll

Let me try to answer in short - what you are looking at are deities who represent different qualities and are a medium to worshipping those specific qualities of God. There is no restriction on this and the no of deities must be in hundreds if not thousands. But you will never find an idol of Bhagwan (Brahman or Aatman to use correct religious term) as that has no form.

 

[Zarvan]

What do you mean by islamic environment ?

Islamic environment is requirement for only Muslim female?

Muslim male can work in any islamic or non islamic environment What about those men who are not fulfilling their financial responsibilities to give decent life to wife and kids? I have seen in Pakistan that many female workers who work in factories or houses are from those families where they don't have enough source of income or financial support from her father or husband

I think conflicts within family should be sorted out with mutual consultation and respect. We should care the needs and expectations of each others. Well men should respect the wishes of her wife and he should not treat her like car to drive it wherever he wish without caring about her feelings /emotions or like/dislike. She is human beings and not robot whose remote control you want to keep in your hands

Mr when women will avoid environment with men it ultimately Men will also avoid than if Man is not fulfilling[SUB][/SUB] its responsibility than women should seek divorces and marry other man or decide for her what she wants and its duty of state to punish such lazy guys yes she is human and we should do most things with mutuality understanding but still in Islam major decisions will stay with husband Sir

I see you have listed the many points that women can do.. What would be the role of a woman per your understanding?

Only one person can drag a person to hell and that is his own self. You will not be answerable for anyone or anything come judgement day.

If you want I can list the particular ayah .. copy pasting google is not my forte.

No Sir your concept is wrong the person deeds include those people who are under him or who were his responsibility and did he stopped them from doing un Islamic things or not those include your family wife children your brothers and sisters and those who work under you

 

[forcetrip]

Mr when women will avoid environment with men it ultimately Men will also avoid than if Man is not fulfilling[SUB][/SUB] its responsibility than women should seek divorces and marry other man or decide for her what she wants and its duty of state to punish such lazy guys yes she is human and we should do most things with mutuality understanding but still in Islam major decisions will stay with husband Sir


No Sir your concept is wrong the person deeds include those people who are under him or who were his responsibility and did he stopped them from doing un Islamic things or not those include your family wife children your brothers and sisters and those who work under you

And every man's work have WE fasten to his neck; and on the Day of Resurrection WE shall bring out for him a book which he will find wide open. It will be said to him, ‘Read thy book. Sufficient is thy own soul as a reckoner against thee this day.’ He who follows the right way follows it only for the good of his own soul; and he who goes astray, goes astray only to his own loss. And no bearer of burden shall bear the burden of another. And WE shall never punish until WE have sent a Messenger. S. 17:13-15

Again .. I have quoted you the EXACT ayah where you are proven wrong Zarvan .. Everyman is only responsible for his own actions. You can preach but you can not force.

 

[Zarvan]

What I am talking about is what happens not what Quran says...NEVER said anything against the Quran...But Mr. Zarvan, without understanding something goes on and on like a broken tape recorder! I am talking about how men misuse the rights of being called a head by becoming a dictator...and he is going on and on about how Quran gave man the rights to be head...

Then he says when every male in a woman's life is dead she suddenly grows brains and is capable of making the right decisions! So for starters a woman needs to kill all the males in her life otherwise her brain will not allow her to make right decisions according to Islam?

Lady my point is most things should be done by mutual understand but still on major issues Husband has the right to make the final decision Lady and if that decision is according to Quran and Sunnah or nothing against Quran and Sunnah in that decision than why you want women to giver opinion when the decision is according to Islam in fact no other male should also try to do this against that but if that thing is not according to Quran and Sunnah and if the man or husband is not giving a right or something which is allowed in Quran and Sunnah in that case wife should point out his mistake

And every man's work have WE fasten to his neck; and on the Day of Resurrection WE shall bring out for him a book which he will find wide open. It will be said to him, ‘Read thy book. Sufficient is thy own soul as a reckoner against thee this day.’ He who follows the right way follows it only for the good of his own soul; and he who goes astray, goes astray only to his own loss. And no bearer of burden shall bear the burden of another. And WE shall never punish until WE have sent a Messenger. S. 17:13-15

Again .. I have quoted you the EXACT ayah where you are proven wrong Zarvan .. Everyman is only responsible for his own actions. You can preach but you can not force.

Sir the same Quran says safe people around you from hell fire same Quran says on many times those who don't preach good and forbid evil they will be destroyed and the PROPHET SAW who brought this Quran has said several times that man will be questioned about those who are under him like family and his other members read some Tafseers you will know what ayats means than come and also books of Hadees

 

[forcetrip]

Lady my point is most things should be done by mutual understand but still on major issues Husband has the right to make the final decision Lady and if that decision is according to Quran and Sunnah or nothing against Quran and Sunnah in that decision than why you want women to giver opinion when the decision is according to Islam in fact no other male should also try to do this against that but if that thing is not according to Quran and Sunnah and if the man or husband is not giving a right or something which is allowed in Quran and Sunnah in that case wife should point out his mistake


Sir the same Quran says safe people around you from hell fire same Quran says on many times those who don't preach good and forbid evil they will be destroyed and the PROPHET SAW who brought this Quran has said several times that man will be questioned about those who are under him like family and his other members read some Tafseers you will know what ayats means than come and also books of Hadees

You keep saying the quran is not correct and I still have to keep calling you a muslim. Quran trumps hadith. No ifs ands or buts about it. Would you like me to quote you Hadith for it as well? Will you magically start agreeing with me? Probably not.

 

[Zarvan]

You keep saying the quran is not correct and I still have to keep calling you a muslim. Quran trumps hadith. No ifs ands or buts about it. Would you like me to quote you Hadith for it as well? Will you magically start agreeing with me? Probably not.

I never have said Quran is not incorrect you represent ayats incorrectly not knowing about its background and why it is revealed Mr Islam is not a personal matter Mr Islam is a system in which you have to deal with society on all levels there fore those under you are your responsibility and you are responsible for them as long as they are under you Mr

27. Every single women going to hell will take with her 4 jannati men, because they had no fikar nor had they cared, in dunya, about the deen and iman of that women, and did not teach her deen.
These 4 men will be

Her father
Her brother
Her husband
Her son

She will complain to allah taala that they did not tell her to read namaaz

A single pious, practicing woman is equal to 70 saints (aulia ekraam)

• A single bad (evil) woman is equal to 1000 bad men

• Two rakaats namaaz of an aalimah woman are better than 80 rakaats of ordinary women

• A breastfeeding woman gets one good for each drop of milk that is fed to the child.

• When a husband comes home full of worries and the wife extends warm welcome to him and consoles him; she receives the reward of half jihad

• A woman, who is deprived of sleep owing to her child crying at night, receives the sawaab of freeing 20 slaves.

• When a husband and a wife look at each other with love and affection, Allah Paak himself looks at both of them with love and affection.

• A woman who sends out her husband in the path of Allah and stays at home by herself, maintaining her honour and dignity (i.e. protecting her against temptation and dishonesty) will enter jannat 500 years before her husband while 70,000 angels and hoors will serve her. She will be given ghusl in jannat and sitting nmountains of pearls , she will await the arrival of her husband

• A woman who is rendered restless owing to the illness of her baby and yet kept on striving to comfort the baby, Allah Talaah forgives all her sins and gives her thesawaab of 12 years accepted in ibaadat .
• While milking her animal (cow, goats, ect), if a woman makes the zikr of bismillah , that every animal makes dua to Allah Taalah on her behalf.

• When a woman makes the zikr of bismillah while preparing the dough (for roti), her livelihood is increased (i.e . she receives barakat in her rozi).

• When a woman makes zikar while sweeping, she receives the sawaab of sweeping baitullah (kaba).

• A chaste woman who is mindful of namaaz and roza, also makes khidmat for her husband, for her all the 8 doors of jannat are opened. She may enter from whichever doors she likes.

• The namaaz and ibaadat of a woman disobedient to her husband do not reach heaven.

• Every night of an expectant mother (a woman who is carrying a baby in her womb) is counted as spent in ibaadat and every day as spent in fasting.

• A woman receives the sawaab of 70 years of namaaz and roza on giving birth to one child and the pain she suffered in every vein of her body while giving birth, for that she will receive the sawaab of one hajj.

• If a woman dies within 40 days after giving birth, Allah Taalah gives her the status of shahaadat (i.e. she dies as a shaheed).

• Upon the child crying at night, if the mother feeds the child (gives milk to the child) without cursing, she receives the sawaab of performing namaaz for one year.

• When a child finishes the period of breast-feeding, an angel comes and gives glad tidings (news) to the mother that Allah has made jannat wajib for her

• When the husband comes home to sleep and the wife gives him food to eat (not being involved in dishonesty with regard to herself and her husband's belongings), Allah Tallah gives her the sawaab of 12 years of ibaadat.

• When the wife presses the legs of her husband without asking him, her to do so, she gets the sawaab of giving charity 7 ounce of GOLD, and if she presses his legs after he asks her to do so, she receives the sawaab of giving 7 ounces of SILVER in sadaqua.

• When a woman's husband dies while he was happy and pleased with her, jannat becomes wajib for her.

• A husband's teaching one masla to his wife is equal to 80 years ibaadat.

• In jannat people will go to visit (see) Allah Taalah, but Allah Tallah himself will visit (to see) the woman who has observed PARDAH while in dunyah.

• Woman who wears thin garment (transparent, see-through garment) or who arouses passion in men, or meet men they are not allowed to mix or move about openly while heavily made up or who live without pardah, will never enter jannat. In fact they will not even smell the fragrance of jannat.

• A woman who has undergone a great amount of suffering and difficulties in this world will be classified with hazrat Aasia (r.a). She was the wife of the firaun (pharaon) who despite the fact that she was his wife, tortured and persecuted her, to renounce Deen and Imaan. She gave her life in the process ( i.e. she died of the punishment inflicted to her), but did not forsake Imaan.

• Every single woman going to hell will take four (4) jannati men. Because they did not fikr nor had they cared in duniya about the Deen and Imaan of that woman and did not teach her Deen, these four men will be:
• Her father
• Her brother
• Her husband &
• Her son
• If woman glances at men she is not allowed to see according to the shariat, Allah Taalah sends his curse upon her, just as it is forbidden for a man to glance at women he is not allowed to see.


May ALLAH forgive us & always keep us on the Straight Path and never let shaitan come near us......:salam2:

 

[forcetrip]

I never have said Quran is not incorrect you represent ayats incorrectly not knowing about its background and why it is revealed Mr Islam is not a personal matter Mr Islam is a system in which you have to deal with society on all levels there fore those under you are your responsibility and you are responsible for them as long as they are under you Mr

How have I incorrectly put an Ayah. Please explain. I put the whole ayah and its translation. It even has where it was taken from. Islam is a personal matter, that is my opinion. Yours is different according to your upbringing and beliefs. We do not agree and keep calling each other wrong. But how in the hell can you say that I am representing an ayah incorrectly? What is the correct way to represent it? Please give me its background according to your beliefs. And no more copy paste of long articles, give me short concise answers and pastes so we can talk. When you copy paste pages, I just move to the next post.

 

[Zarvan]

HADEETH 1. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said that the woman who performed her five daily prayers and kept the fast of Ramadan and protected herself from evil acts i.e. adultery and obeyed her husband, has a choice to enter heaven from whichever door she pleases. (HULYA)

HADEETH 2. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "A woman has two veils: the first is the husband and the second is the grave. The one that conceals more is the grave." (TABRANI)

HADEETH 3. Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "A religious widow is addressed as a martyr in the heavens" i.e. she is remembered with the honourable title of a martyr in heaven for any act she performs.

HADEETH 4. Ibn Abbas Radhiallahu anhu narrates that a woman came to Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam and said: "I have come as a representative of all women. We want to present a petition to you. Jihaad is fardh (compulsory) on men and only they obtain the reward of martyrdom. We women are deprived of it although we take responsibility for all their domestic affairs". Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "Convey this message on my behalf to all the women that they can achieve the reward of jihaad by obeying their husbands, but very few women consider this to be a reward."

HADEETH 5. It is reported from Hazrat Ibn Umar Radhiallahu Anhu that Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said that when a woman leaves her home without her husband's consent then all the angels of the skies and the entire universe curse her for this act until she returns home. (TABRANI).

HADEETH 6. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said that the fragrance of heaven will be forbidden for a woman who asks her husband for divorce without any valid reason. (TIRMIZI)

HADEETH 7. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said that if a woman died and her husband was pleased with her during her life, undoubtedly she has entered heaven.

HADEETH 8. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "O woman, your heaven and hell is your husband" (i.e. a woman will enter heaven if the husband is pleased, and hell if he is displeased with her). (TARGEEB)

HADEETH 9. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said that the best woman is the one that pleases her husband. When he looks at her, she pleases him. When he commands her, she obeys him. When he absents himself (goes away on a journey etc.) she protects his wealth and his honour. (BAIHAQI)

HADEETH 10. The Messenger of Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said that Shaytaan (the devil) sits on his throne daily and dispatches his agents to work among human beings. One of the agents returns and says that I made a certain person commit a sin, another says I got so and so involved in this offence. Upon listening to all this Shaytaan says that you have done nothing great. Eventually one representative comes and says that I saw a husband and wife extremely devoted to each other. I sowed the seeds of enmity between them. On hearing this Shaytaan becomes happy and embracing his agent says that you have achieved something great. (MISHKAT)

The love between husband and wife is the biggest blow to Shaytaan. From this it is apparent how meritorious this love is.

HADEETH 11. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: The woman who applies perfume and passes by men is an adulteress. (TIRMIZI).

Today the woman who applies perfume and goes to the shopping centres, alleys and cinemas should ponder how grave a sin she is committing.

HADEETH 12. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: Once I saw a ghair mahram (strange) man and a young woman together in a place. Consequently I had a strong fear that Shaytaan will make use of this opportunity i.e. he will besmirch their character and destroy the honour of the woman.

HADEETH 13. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: Keep yourselves away from strange women. One companion asked: "O Rasul of Allah, tell me, can the husband's brother mix freely with his sister-in-law." Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam replied : "He is like death for a woman." (Bukhari and Muslim)

i.e. just as partaking of poison leads to death in this world, similarly the brother-in-law's mixing with a woman is poison for their character and a cause of destruction of the life of the hereafter.

HADEETH 14. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "It is haram for the women of my Ummah to take a bath in the public baths". (HAKIM)

i.e. women should keep away from places which are frequented by ghair mahram (strange) males. What purpose do they have in a place frequented by males?

HADEETH 15. Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) said: Whichever woman applies scent should not join us for the Esha prayers. (ABU DAWOOD)

During the early Islamic era, women used to perform salaat behind Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam in congregation. On that occasion Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "Those women who apply perfume should not come to the musjid for salaat," because there is a fear of instilling desire in the hearts of men due to the sweet fragrance of the perfume and this will be a cause of corruption. If Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam prevented women who applied perfume from attending the musjid during his noble era, there will be a greater need for precaution in this age of corruption.

HADEETH 16. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "The woman who boastfully parades in front of males after adorning herself is like the darkness of Qiyamat."

HADEETH 17. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "A woman whose 3 children die in infancy or before reaching the age of puberty and who bears the loss with patience, hoping for reward will most certainly enter heaven. (MISHKAT)

Therefore if we are confronted with such a calamity, we should have patience and forbearance. To wail and mourn is not the habit of a Muslim wife. It (the child) was the property of Allah which He took back. However, it is not sinful to shed tears.

HADEETH 18. Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "The best women of my ummah are those that are beautiful and whose dowry is less". (Dailami)

What wisdom is there in unnecessarily burdening the husband with an extravagant dowry especially if he cannot afford it? The success of the marriage is the mutual love of the partners which cannot be purchased by wealth.

HADEETH 19. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: Whoever consoled a woman that lost her child will be given the clothes of Paradise to wear. (MISHKAT)

i.e. when you go to offer your condolences to a woman who lost her child, do not join her in wailing and crying. On the contrary, speak to her in such a manner so as to induce patience in her. Allah has promised a person who does this the garments of Jannah.

HADEETH 20. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said that Allah Subhanahu Taala says "Sight is a poisonous arrow of the devil. Whosoever, whether male or female protects himself or herself from evil glances will be granted a sweet Iman (faith) which will please his/her heart." (TABRANI)

The disease of glancing at men without regarding it as sinful is common among women. This can occur even though they (the woman) may be fully concealed. The arrow of Shaytaan works discreetly.

HADEETH 21. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "The worst person on the day of Qiyamah will be the one who reveals the private life of his wife to others." (Muslim)

Similarly some women have the habit of revealing their private matters to their friends. This is a major sin which should be abstained from.

HADEETH 22. Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "When a husband calls his wife at night to have relations with her and she refuses without a valid Shari reason, she is cursed throughout the night by the angels." (BUKHARI)

HADEETH 23. Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: There are 3 persons whose salaah is not accepted nor does any good act of theirs reach the sky. Firstly, a runaway slave until he returns to his master. Secondly, a woman whose husband is displeased with her and thirdly an intoxicated person as long as he does not repent from using intoxicants. (BAIHAQI)

Imagine how serious it is to displease the husband that the wife's salaah is not accepted nor any other good deed of hers.

HADEETH 24. Hadhrat Aisha Radhiallahu Anha says that Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam was sitting amongst the Muhajireen and Ansaar when a camel came and prostrated before him. Upon this the Sahaaba Radhiallahu Anhum said "O Prophet of Allah, if the animals and trees prostrate to you, then we have more rights to prostrate to you." On hearing this Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said "Worship your Sustainer and honour me. Had I given the command to anyone to prostrate, I would have commanded the wife to prostrate to her husband. The husband's right is so great that if he commands her to carry a stone from the yellow mountain to the black mountain and then from the black mountain to the white one, she has to fulfil this duty."

HADEETH 25. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said "No woman should ask her husband to divorce his second wife in order to achieve her rights because she will only receive what has been preordained for her." (BUKHARI and MUSLIM)

For example, a person who is married intends to marry a second woman. This woman tells him to divorce the first wife before she will marry him , or there are two women in one person's nikah and one says that she will only live with the husband on condition that he divorces the other. This has been prohibited by Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam because each one has her own destiny and should be thankful for that.

HADEETH 26. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "The rights of the husband on the wife are so great that if pus flows on the husband's body and the woman licks it clean, then too his rights will not be fully fulfilled." (TARGHEEB)

HADEETH 27. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "The world is a commodity and its best commodity is a pious woman who assists her husband in matters concerning the hereafter." (RAZEEN)

By being patient and enduring a life of poverty, women can grant their husbands more spare time for religious duties. However this is not prevalent today. If the husband intends to do religious work, the wife presents a whole list of requirements to him which forces him to become engrossed in secular matters.

HADEETH 28. Whenever a strange man and woman meet in seclusion Shaytaan definitely is the third one by joining them. (TIRMIZI) i.e. Shaytaan arouses their passions and incites them to commit evil.

HADEETH 29. Nabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: Make purdah (i.e. conceal yourselves) from a blind man. Ummul Mumineen Hadhrat Aisha Radhhiallahu Anha said "O Prophet of Allah, he is blind. How can he see us?" Rasulullah Sallallahu Wasallam replied: "He may be blind, but you are not blind". (AHMAD,TIRMIZI)

Some women do not make purdah from blind people because of their inability to see. From this hadeeth we can deduce that just as it is forbidden for a man to look at a woman, similarly it is forbidden for a woman to gaze at a strange man.

HADEETH 30. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "A woman should be kept concealed. When she emerges from the home without necessity, Shaytaan makes her appealing in the sight of men." (TIRMIZI)

Evil persons are attracted to her and begin following her or mention her in the gathering of men. This implies that she should leave the house only out of dire necessity. Today it has become a fashion to adorn the burqa and to embroider the trousers so as to attract men. The burqa was originally made for the purpose of purdah, but we have made it an object of adornment.

HADEETH 31. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "The most blessed nikah is the one with the least expenses." (BAIHAQI- IN SHUABUL IMAN)

Today, many of the destitute destroy the youth of their daughters because of not being able to uphold petty customs. They do not possess anything to give nor do they want to have the nikah without an extravagant dowry in fear of being criticized by the other family members. In order to make our nikahs more blessed we should abandon these futile customs and on such occasions take a lesson from the simple nikah of Hadhrat Fatima al- Zahra Radhiallahu Anha whose dowry was one water-bag and one bed.

HADEETH 32. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "O women, after sitting in a gathering of women do not go home and explicitly describe any woman to your husbands." (MUSLIM)

This may incline your husband towards her and his affection for you may diminish. What noble advice has been given to us by our Rasul Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.

HADEETH 33. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "May Allah curse those women who imitate men in appearance and those men who imitate women." (MISHKAT)

Women should not appear like men in their attire and physical appearance.

HADEETH 34. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said : "When heaven and hell were shown to me I saw that the majority of the inmates of hell were women." (MISHKAT)

HADEETH 35. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "Shall I inform you which woman will enter heaven?" The Sahaba replied: "Yes most certainly". Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said "The woman who has children, is lovable, when she becomes angry the husband consoles her and when the husband becomes angry she says that as long as you do not become pleased with me, I will not even apply surmah (antimony) to my eyes." (TABRANI)

HADEETH 36. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "It is not permissible for any woman to fast optionally without her husband's permission, and it is not permissible for her to allow anyone into his house without his consent." (BUKHARI)

HADEETH 37. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "When any woman troubles her husband, the celestial bride (hur) of heaven calls out "Woe to you. Do not trouble him. He is temporarily with you. He is going to leave you and be our guest. Why do you trouble our beloved?" (IBN MAJAH)

HADEETH 38. The Messenger of Allah said that women are married for their lineage, wealth, beauty and piety. You should marry one who is pious (BUKHARI).

HADEETH 39. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "It is extremely abominable for a woman's shoulder to touch a man. It is better to touch a pig that is all messed up than for a woman to touch the body of a strange man." (TABRANI)

HADEETH 40. Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said "A woman cannot fulfill the rights of Allah without fulfilling the rights of her husband. Even if a woman is busy at the stove and the husband calls her, in that busy period also she must leave all her work and answer his request." (TABRANI)

How have I incorrectly put an Ayah. Please explain. I put the whole ayah and its translation. It even has where it was taken from. Islam is a personal matter, that is my opinion. Yours is different according to your upbringing and beliefs. We do not agree and keep calling each other wrong. But how in the hell can you say that I am representing an ayah incorrectly? What is the correct way to represent it? Please give me its background according to your beliefs.

Mr your basic concept of personal matter is wrong what else should I tell you Islamic is a complete system including your social life politics economy criminal laws and other things Mr first go read some Tafseers of this ayat you posted ourself you will get your answer Mr go check at least 3 Tafseers you will get your answer

 

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Quran trumps Hadith. Quran is the compilation by the sahabas of what the prophet was revealed by God. Lets exaust step 1 before we go to step 2. There is an ayah which contradicts the one I presented. Please find that and use that against me.

HADEETH 11. Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: The woman who applies perfume and passes by men is an adulteress. (TIRMIZI).

Does this Hadeeth apply in todays world? Do you think women go around smelling bad in the off case they have to pass by any men?