Why Wouldn’t I get Married?

[angeldust]

What do you mean by men go first?

They pop it.

Kick the bucket.

Go to the big unknown.

Die.

Pass away.

 

[Dubious]

What happens after husband dies Zarvan? On an average the guys generally go first.

So true! My sister's land lady is a widow, when her husband died she knew nothing! ZILCH! She did not know how to pay bills, she was not educated enough to get ANY job because she was FULLY dependent on her husband like what Zarvan describes and her only son could not afford enough...Her only income was my sister's rent....What should such women do? When they are trained to BE FULLY DEPENDENT? In a foreign country...cant go back to her home land because she has no one there...Tell me...She picked up a job! So, she is allowed to work when her husband is dead but when her husband was alive SAME WOMAN was not allowed to work...What sort of mentality is that...She is just 1 of the many cases in the WEST where EASTERN DEPENDENT women (widow and divorcee- after men get gori left their wives) are stuck! I do not think it is fair at all!

Should the woman marry again or can she make her own decisions for the time she has left?

Marry again...O yea, there are rows of people waiting to get married to divorcee and widows at the age 60+!

 

[angeldust]

I have my hijab on both when I am in the field as well as in the lab

Seriously? Wow!

 

[Dubious]

They pop it.

Kick the bucket.

Go to the big unknown.

Die.

Pass away.

Lolzz!! Enter the land of unknown...

Enter hell first! Making it hotter

On average men live for a shorter period of time as compared to women

 

[Dubious]

Islam encourages Marry but if she don't want to marry and her father and her brothers are also not alive than she can make all of his decisions on her own even though but should be according to Quran and Sunnah

WOW! So a woman is free only when all men in her life have died...So, when they are alive she is their slave? That is not preached in Islam! Islam says protect them and that is all...NOT LOCK THEM IN YOUR HOMES!

I know of incidents where the " man of the house" doesn't let the wife spend for her beautifying or whatever she wants but gives freely to his family and when she becomes fat and ugly he refreshes his eyes with 3 other wives...THAT mind you is not Islam...It is called ZULM!

 

[Dubious]

Islam encourages Marry but if she don't want to marry and her father and her brothers are also not alive than she can make all of his decisions on her own even though but should be according to Quran and Sunnah

A woman can also do that when she has father, brothers and husband alive! Islam does not degrade women...It is the only religion which uplifted women and has a whole surah on women! How dare you think women have pea brains and can only start thinking after the death of all men around them! That is sooooo categorizing...And mind you, Early Christianity did EXACTLY the same...locked women to the homes!

What do you understand when people say ISLAM FREED AND LIBERATED WOMEN?

I am not talking about mini skirts! I am talking about liberated from the slave position other religions gave her!

 

[Dubious]

Yes Sir Islam allows 4 wives before Islam their was no limit but ALLAH said in the Quran a man can have 4 wives if he can do justice and justice in that he provides same quality food clothes and spent equal time with each of them but if he can't do that he should only marry one and yes a man can have 4 wives and by the way in whole world women are far more than Man because medically when child is born girls have more power to fight germs than boys so they survive more than boys and in whole world Man dies at young age more than women in wars and other times to number also increases

You need to differentiate THEIR and THERE!

I agree we women have a better immune system as a child...and men do die younger...

 

[Mav3rick]

Zarvan why does Islam allow 4 wives?

What happens to the other 3 guys left out?

Get non-Muslim wives and convert?

Clever.

Reason Islam allows 4 wives is many fold:

1) So that the man does not stray
2) So that divorced/widowed women are looked after.
3) So that children are not born out of wedlock
4) To prevent STD's that have only very recently been identified by Science.
and many more.

Have a read of this:

Why is Polygamy allowed in Islam

 

[Dubious]

Did you guys notice someone missing?

There is a big *** post coming soon.

Yaar load shedding! Try to understand!!

 

[Dubious]

On that occasion, it was Hazrat Khatija who proposed to prophet Muhammad (PBUH).

Yup and in desi society you will get a big Hawwww... ay ki kerri hai! Is mein tou koi sharram nai hai! Hate the society's thinking!

 

[Hyperion]

On average men live for a shorter period of time as compared to women

Because those particular men have women in their lives nagging the **** out of them!

 

[Dubious]

Both.........

Interesting!

 

[Hyperion]

Yaar load shedding! Try to understand!!

You meant to say: Yaar, Mr. Load shedding is here.

 

[Dubious]

Seriously? Wow!

Yup! From the Sultanate to UK to Europe! Not one idiot has said OMG she is ***** or even looked at me with a second gaze!

In fact they shyly ask why! And apologize if they have hurt my feeling by asking...But I proudly tell why and say no they should ask if they do not understand!

Life is good THANK GOD!

 

[Hyperion]

Reason Islam allows 4 wives is many fold:

Buddy, have you ever tried to juggle JUST two women?