Mav3rick
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So its all about to maintain the superiority of man over nothing else be it hijab be it woman carreer everything has to be imposed by man or done by his permission.......
Actually NO! As per my understanding:
Allah has made the man responsible for his wife and his children (as well as parents but for the sake of this topic, we shall stick to wife and kids). The burden is on the man here to work and to provide for his family. Just as a Qazi (Judge) is responsible for justice, Khalifah (ruler) responsible for the welfare of his subjects, similarly the man is responsible for his wife and children.
The woman does not have to seek a career or a job unless she absolutely has to (for financial reasons) and then there are ways to do that. She can seek permission from the husband (if she has one else she must first try and find a reasonable man to marry and take care of her), this does not mean that the husband is her master but that the husband takes responsibility in front of Allah even for allowing her to work. Similarly, Hijaab is a binding from Allah and husband is responsible to ensure commitment.
I have been told that 4 women will drag a man to hell:
1) his mother,
2) his sister,
3) his wife and
4) his daughter
What that means is that the man is responsible for these women in his life, he has to ensure that these women follow the religion as laid down and any deviance will hold the man accountable as well. Basically, the man has been made responsible for a lot of things and is accountable and answerable for them all.