It's India's "Israel envy" or "US envy" which keeps popping up.
The reality which these bloggers don't understand is that Israel and US can deliver disproportionate response only because their adversary can't ratchet up the stakes in response.
They kill 1, you kill 10, problem solved.
Except: if the adversary applies the same rule and kills 100 in return.
Pakistan has acted mature and downplayed Modi's assertiveness because Pakistan understands that Modi is gong through the macho phase of his courtship of the Indian public, where he needs to puff up his chest and strut his stuff. This benevolence on Pakistan's part won't be extended indefinitely. If Modi continues to act like an irresponsibe juvenile, he will receive a hard lesson in growing up fast.