Why India is no place to be a woman

[ajtr]

What a shame..

Yeah its a great shame and even greater when guys use the article and condition of women for one upmanship just to prove their mardangi shooting from shoulders of women hiding behind them instead of suggesting solutions come up with three word sentence "what a shame"........

Here is one of the reason why.

http://www.defence.pk/forums/world-...an-kicks-wife-death-delivering-baby-girl.html

And the solution is.....??????????did you suggest anything or just googled article just for sake of posting in th thread to have you post count incresed by 1 and bonus will be is someone thanks it.....

^^ we al know pakistan is the worst place to be a women
but
lets not forget china, where although news rarely comes out in the open, the results are for everyone to see

statistics are often like mini-skirts: they hide more than they reveal.----Navjot singh siddhu.(Ex-cricketer,MP)

This article was disturbing, & I have heard of similar stories from some of the Indians that I have met. I am not implying that India is the only nation in the world where women get harassed & abused, but it's clear that this problem does exist, & it needs to be dealt with as soon as possible. A change in the mindset of the society must be brought about. Modifying the mindset of a society is a tedious & time consuming task, it might even take years to yield positive results from such efforts.

Both the men & women need to be educated regarding their rights, especially the women. I can not stress this enough, but education is the key to abolishing such societal ills. Strict enforcement of law & order is another requirement, but the law enforcement may not always be able to arrive on time to save an individual from abuse. It's the job of the society at large to protect the honor & dignity of all women. I remember hearing that women were or still are offered self-defence classes in Egypt so that they may be prepared to defend themselves against an attacker. Perhaps India & other countries facing similar problems should try & offer self-defence classes for women.

Parents & schools need to play their roles for getting rid of this problem too, remember that both of these elements are responsible for shaping an individual's beliefs early on in his or her's life. The parents & teachers must take on the responsibility to raise kids in an environment where abuse may never be tolerated. By doing so, as those kids grow up; they will never be able to bear seeing any female get abused, & are more likely to come to her aid.

Remember, women must be a source of inspiration & civilization, they must never be allowed to become the objects of ridicule or abuse. A nation can only survive & prosper if both the men & women are united & support each other.

Mindset,awareness of law and the implementation of it on the ground.

I have to agree India is a disgrace when it comes to the treatment of women, Indian men here in Australia do the same things and end up getting bashed etc and then blame it on racism. India is one of the most unsafe places on earth for women.

Sorry!!!!!!!!!!!! come again??????Pesky french/australian covering up his racist attitude with crimes in india....what a shame for a white supremacist that he has to fall down to such low levels just for covering up...

Well said...

And a bangladeshi agrees who calls taslima nasreen as B-word in other thread in the holy month of Ramdan and present the world with fine example of a gutter mouth "muslim." I feel shame to call them muslim to put mud on the good muslims.

We must all strive to raise level of awareness in South Asia against female abuse and subjugation. Women's rights must be respected and laws enacted to prosecute perpetrators commiting crimes against women.

untill men have their superiority complex over women their will be crime against women in any society and any culture.Changing man is like putting a dog's tail in a pipe for 12 yrs and even after that it remains the same.

India - 19
China - 14

Gendercide Watch: Female Infanticide


..and the awareness ... introspection...

May Allah(Swt) blessing be on this man for bring out the problems in india and their solution through his unique idea on tv.

How many times are we going to post this news? It is shameful yes, but also ironic coming from a Pakistani, given Pakistan fares even worse or just as bad in almost of all of these areas.

And you want to use pakistani women for ur idiocy.better do something good at home.Sponsor a girl child at least.

So yes lets both hang our head in shame and try to sort our own house instead of taking pot shots on the interwebs.

yes you should hang your head in shame for this low-level post of yours.

 

[ajtr]

Women have a place in the kitchen and bollywood in India.


Lolz jk

Miyan apni aankon se kala chashma utaro aur bollywood ki pirated DVD par chal rahi movie switch of karke kuch ghar se bahar nikalo to pata chalega ki duniya kahan se kahan pahunch gayee hai....

Chinese Woman Alleges Forced Sterilization



Those Charts says it all and then forced sterilizations, forced abortions..



A quarter of Chinese women suffer domestic abuse | Reuters

What you think that your concurring with the chinese statistics will hide the criem of indian ravan,duryodhans,dushashans done on the roads of delhi and assam??????

you guys were having a field day with india's problems. i was just showing you yours

we claim to be the worlds largest secular democracy, which is obviously true. i dont know about shining because we are not made of glitter. its china, not pak, which has higher social indicators, but that may be false since we know how china loves to fudge data.

i could explain the reasons, but ur chinese IQ might prevent comprehension

And to hide your nudity and ur crime you use crime against chinese women...........What men have come too..cant even fight straight....great shame.

 

[kumarkumar1867]

Nope. Indian Muslims can't even rent apartments in the national capital.

spoken like a brainwashed idiot - just take a few moments and read what you have written - you need psychiatric help and more!Read your post before doing B/S here.

India's National Capital already has 1.6 million muslims living with their own house/flats in Delhi.

 

[Kyusuibu Honbu]

Strange then, that India always ranks last in these types of social indicators. For example, both China and Pakistan have a significantly higher life expectancy than India does, and significantly lower Maternal mortality ratios, better access to sanitation and far lower poverty rates.

Red Liar caught red-handed

Since when did Pakistan have better maternal mortality rates than India?

Maternal Mortality Rates

for 2010

Pakistan 260

India 200

You do know the difference between 200 and 260 don't you?


Besides China benefited massively from the one-child policy. Leading to lesser mortality rates.

 

[ajtr]

Nope. Indian Muslims can't even rent apartments in the national capital.



The Hindu - Housing apartheid flourishes in Delhi

open a thread about indian muslims and we'll discuss it there what muslims can do and what they cant in india.....just on the side note we are not provided CCP approved Quran and mosque preacher and watched on our friday sermons in mosques.

Wrong again, check my quote:

"Strange then, that India always ranks last in these types of social indicators. For example, BOTH China and Pakistan have a significantly higher life expectancy than India does, and significantly lower Maternal mortality ratios, better access to sanitation and far lower poverty rates."

What is last and what is first on a statistics.even if a a single woman suffers crime in a society then its a shame on the whole society.And statistics are just for the idiots to see and feel happy/unhappy about it but nothing they do to improve conditions.

Red Liar caught red-handed

Since when did Pakistan have better maternal mortality rates than India?

Maternal Mortality Rates

for 2010

Pakistan 260

India 200

You do know the difference between 200 and 260 don't you?

Red liars whole life starts and ends with only red book so what can you expect???everything painted red.

Red Liar caught red-handed

Since when did Pakistan have better maternal mortality rates than India?

Maternal Mortality Rates

for 2010

Pakistan 260

India 200

You do know the difference between 200 and 260 don't you?

Red liars whole life starts and ends with only red book so what can you expect???everything painted red.

No Male should be allowed to talk on the women conditions.Only women can understand these problem better and find solutions.men just argue like as in this thread whirling their hands in air

No Male should be allowed to talk on the women conditions.Only women can understand these problem better and find solutions.men just argue like as in this thread whirling their hands in air

 

[JAT BALWAN]

Don`t know why posters here call Ajtr a troll??

She` punching every one with facts... maybe man can`t swallow a defeat from girl that`s why calling her troll..

good going ajtr...

 

[Kyusuibu Honbu]

IMO , women's upliftment is going very slow in India.

Be it literacy rates or Maternal Mortality.

In India just like Asian families, Women play a greater role in bringing up the child.

I was lucky to have a Mom who is an MA, and i could get this far.

Women upliftment not only benefits the women but the children and in the end the whole family as well.

 

[ajtr]

IMO , women's upliftment is going very slow in India.

Be it literacy rates or Maternal Mortality.

In India just like Asian families, Women play a greater role in bringing up the child.

I was lucky to have a Mom who is an MA, and i could get this far.

Women upliftment not only benefits the women but the children and in the end the whole family as well.

When there are Idiots who are ready to make money from the "panjeeri" meant for the mal-nourished kids of MP(and mind it she is the woman joint secretary level IAS officer in MP when this scam hit the media 4 -5 yrs back) and idiot who make money from the coffins of the dead soldiers and even from the relief material meant for Tsunami victims and like lalu eating away even cattle feed then what u expect????

 

[kumarkumar1867]

Don`t know why posters here call Ajtr a troll??

She` punching every one with facts... maybe man can`t swallow a defeat from girl that`s why calling her troll..

good going ajtr...

She is right to some extent but not precisely right.

Every man has important part for women in form of mother,sister,wife & daughter in his life. We can literally says life of a man revolves around & depends on women in all age phases. So men definitely have right to talk about women problems to some extent but definitely women have major rights to talk & decide about it.

No Male should be allowed to talk on the women conditions.Only women can understand these problem better and find solutions.men just argue like as in this thread whirling their hands in air

As far as I see, not every man kills new born-babygirls nor every men burns his wife alive for dowry. I think 90% of educated people & all pdf members here are not like what OP claims. So they definitely have right to talk about women. Shouting at good peoples for deeds of bad people doesnt pay.

Not every man deserves humility as your posts indicates.There are many male feminists & social reformers who have done much for development of women than womens would have done, Jyotiba Phule, Raja Ram Mohan are biggest examples.

 

[eik_pagall]

What you're expecting from a illiterate society? Lack of education is one of the reason.

very shameful

very shameful

 

[KRAIT]

What you're expecting from a illiterate society? Lack of education is one of the reason.

very shameful

very shameful

Wrong coorelation. Read more about other MAJOR reasons rather than using same old rhetoric. The variables are too many.

Otherwise refrain on posting on this forum, they are our mother, sister, wife and daughter. And we know the reasons, save your "judgement" to yourself.

 

[samv]

Really?? have you ever heard about the following women:

Tesse Thomas

Whilst Tessy Thomas is an outstanding example of what women can achieve, she is from Kerala which is a state in India that has high levels of HDI compared to the rest of India and which has matriarchal sub cultures. Unfortunately, I don't think you can really extrapolate her success to the general status of women in India.

There is no point pretending that everything is hunky dory; women, in general, aren't treated as well as they should be in South Asia, and not only in India. Most cultures in this region are patriarchal. Women do face harassment and discrimination whether we want to accept it or not. However, India does have a very pernicious problem in general when it comes to female infanticide, and health and educational statistics for women in comparison to men are found to be wanting. These are problems that can be addressed, but not without society first acknowledging their existence.

 

[RFS_Br]

How many times are we going to post this news? It is shameful yes, but also ironic coming from a Pakistani, given Pakistan fares even worse or just as bad in almost of all of these areas.

45 per cent: Indian girls who are married before the age of 18 (International Centre for Research on Women, 2010)- In Pakistan legal marriage age for girls in 16 as compared to 18 in India, even then 30% of girls are victim of Child marriage in Pakistan( thats less than 16 years). In KP this figure is upto 75%!


So yes lets both hang our head in shame and try to sort our own house instead of taking pot shots on the interwebs.

The figure you point to says that, even though India outlaws child marriages, the country actually fares worse than Pakistan. Pakistan is not in the top 20 world countries for child marriage -- India is.

 

[p(-)0ENiX]

Mindset,awareness of law and the implementation of it on the ground.

It seems that you responded to my post simply for the sake of responding. You haven't added any real improvements to my suggestions or views. Even if you claim to have only attempted to summarise my views, it's clear that that is a poor summary.

Anyway, if my suggestions were implemented, I am certain that the abuse & harassment of women would decline in India or in any other society facing such issues.