Who is the one person you trust the most?

[I.R.A]

I am not that expressive when it comes to showing affection, appreciation and trust. The level of trust to share something with others obviously is going to be hierarchical .... from the nature of what I am sharing to the person whom I am sharing with. Somethings I totally don't share with anyone.

In my daily life dealings .... normally I would trust anyone as a human in the start. It may sound stupid but it helps me in gauging the moral caliber of the people ..... to separate honest truthful principled from the rest. And obviously once I have done that I don't let the people know what I think of them.

 

[lastofthepatriots]

I am not that expressive when it comes to showing affection, appreciation and trust. The level of trust to share something with others obviously is going to be hierarchical .... from the nature of what I am sharing to the person whom I am sharing with. Somethings I totally don't share with anyone.

In my daily life dealings .... normally I would trust anyone as a human in the start. It may sound stupid but it helps me in gauging the moral caliber of the people ..... to separate honest truthful principled from the rest. And obviously once I have done that I don't let the people know what I think of them.

Is there one person that you trust unconditionally in your life?

I will tell you guys a personal story.


I stole money from my father's pillow case once for Eid. I wanted a nice embroidered shalwar kameez. I got the shit beat out of me for this. When my father found out, my clothes were given to our mulazims in village. I wore that shalwar kameez only once. After all the crying and pleading, my father slapped me and gave me bowl of dumba meat and naan.

Only my mother knew how much I wanted to wear those clothes. She would play games with me to make me feel better about it. I respect my father and he was a military man. But we never connected with each other. My younger siblings and him got to know each other, but my father and I never found common ground. To this day all of the family tells me that we were both so alike in stubbornness, that we could have never had a normal functioning relationship.

I don't know how to feel about that..?

 

[I.R.A]

Is there one person that you trust unconditionally in your life?

For me trust means sharing everything sorrows and happiness. Normally I tend to keep the things that would worry others deep inside me, till the time its okay to inform my family. For my personal actions well my close family knows almost everything .... my dealings, my conduct, my past affair(s). And honestly I don't think my father and my mother won't know ..... like when I started smoking my mother 20 feet away would know that I had smoked a cigarette outside. My father once saw me in market smoking and pretended he didn't recognise me ...... and my wife well can you hide anything from Pakistani wives ..... the first thing they do is check your mobile, your email etc?

 

[TheLahoriGuy]

Dank memes.

 

[I.R.A]

I don't know how to feel about that..?

Be the first one to break the ice. I am sure your father always loved you the most, but couldn't express it. Break the ice buddy.

And you know I stole my mother's gold ring to get an admission into the gym ...... and when it came to light I ran away from home ....... they found me and brought me back and told me not to run away again ever no matter what.

 

[Sankpal]

My parents... I can take wrong decision for me but my parents will never.

 

[Cookie Monster]

Me, myself, and I.

 

[Valar.]

My sister.

 

[Cookie Monster]

my wife well can you hide anything from Pakistani wives ..... the first thing they do is check your mobile, your email etc?

As for the phone...a while back I had this idea that just like how u can have different users that can log on to the same computer...just like that have different users for the phone...each with their own settings. Of course not entirely like that...but more so designed for the nefarious purposes

So for example on my phone(let's assume that the code to unlock is 0000). This could be the actual/master password, where u see everything as u see normally in a phone. There would be a setting in contacts where u can flag certain contacts(*cough* ur mistress for example). There would be an option to set up a second password(like 1234).

So in conclusion when ur wife wants to go through ur phone(and being a good husband u have told her the password 1234 ). There she will not be able to see any text messages/voicemail/phone calls from the flagged contacts. If the flagged ppl call when the non-main-user is using the phone, the phone wouldn't ring...it would go directly to voicemail which of course the non-main-user can't see(as if it was never there). The same goes for text messages and all other forms of such communications.

When the main user(with the master password 0000) unlocks the phone, everything goes back to normal. He can receive all the missed texts/calls/etc...and if the flagged ppl call him while the main person is logged in, it shows as a normal call would.

But...I never followed through on this bcuz it's only use that I can think of is for nefarious purposes...like cheating spouses, or drug dealers, or kids hiding things from their parents.

 

[Hareeb]

One and only me.

 

[I.R.A]

But...I never followed through on this bcuz it's only use that I can think of is for nefarious purposes...like cheating spouses, or drug dealers, or kids hiding things from their parents.

So much thought put into ...... how to hide something from a creature that can smell miles away if you have been smiling while talking to your female colleague ..... bai you are a genius and if you had followed through your name would have been written in golden linings in the books of forever bachelors, every husband would have remembered your services forever

On a serious note you can refine your idea and put into some good use as well. I find it constructive ....

 

[Kompromat]

The more i find myself, the more people i lose.

 

[Cookie Monster]

So much thought put into ...... how to hide something from a creature that can smell miles away if you have been smiling while talking to your female colleague ..... bai you are a genius and if you had followed through your name would have been written in golden linings in the books of forever bachelors, every husband would have remembered your services forever

On a serious note you can refine your idea and put into some good use as well. I find it constructive ....

I don't find it constructive at all. Of course being single/not married doesn't help at all. My brain thinks stupid things like this. Also I'm one of those old school ppl who wouldn't do such things when married but I'm good at lying/hiding things. I tend to analyze every aspect of how that lie might get caught and take care of all possibilities so that my lie doesn't come apart

 

[Spring Onion]

Pagalaa, jeri ma ne tenu paida kar ke, eda vadaa kita....Tu otay parosa ne rakhna? Baki saab te awein ne.

Actually your question is little flawed because everyone trust their Parents. So any question about trust is linked to outside your immediate family sphere that is other than your parents.

 

[One Man Think Tank]

Sab apnay aur apna koi bhi nahi . Follow this to be successful in life