I agree with you that the concept of shame does not apply in pursuing national interest, which Pakistan is doing, as is its right.
However, the game will end when one side or the other achieves its goals. That has not happened as of yet, but when it does, a preponderance of evidence suggests that it will not be Pakistan.
While I remain extremely worried about the situation, primarily because the cards have been stacked against us by our own leaders short sighted policies, and hence we have either gone whiter than white or blacker than black in the course of 2-3 decades, there have been a few cogent and important points raised in the debate.
A) No one in pakistan has had the gumption to stand up and give a coherent reply to all the allegations that are being made against us. It is a testament to the mediocrity of our leadership that even if they did, no one would pay them any notice in any case. Cliches at this point are no good and a proper point to point answer of the accusation must be given to the satisfaction of your adversary.
B) USA is clearly struggling in its exit strategy and wants to assign blame on someone ie Pakistan. This is the US interest. However, no one has highlighted the pakistani interest, which is to ensure that the transition of power in Afghanistan is on terms which are favourable to Pakistan as the headache of carrying the burden after US withdrawal will be ours.
C) pakistan is hamstrung because its polity is simply refusing to make the tough decisions it needs to in the financial sector to improve its internal revenue generation and restore peace so that industry can flourish. We have issues of severe energy shortage which have plagued us for yrs and nothing has been done about it, and each year our situation becomes more and more dire. Due to the energy shortfall, even if we wanted to grow industrially, we could not. This plus the poor law and order situation has led to flight of capital which has further weakened our stance. the easy way out is to go out begging at whatever cost to keep the boat from sinking just long enough for them to make a tidy exit( preferably with their pockets full). So we have no shame in selling out on national interests in exchange for momentary sustenance.
D) US as a power is bleeding. But it still has a way to go. Confronting Pakistan with its supply lines going through it would tentamount to suicide and mayhem galore on both sides. Even if US aid is withdrawn, Pakistan would suffer but would not collapse. But USA with its supply lines disrupted would be in a precarious situation. Destroying pakistan
could possibly lead to a response from China and then we are looking at a regional disaster. So even though US is putting presssure on Pakistan, the likelihood is that this is all political maneouvering and further aggravation may lead to Pakistan escaping out of US influence which may not be to US 's advantage.
E) The other thing to note is that even though pakistan would find US boots on its soil intolerable, drone strikes have been tolerated for some time, so who is to say that the same strategy may not continue? Pakistan would keep on protesting and the US would slip in the odd drone to its designated target. However anything bigger would lead to a confrontation which would be problematic for both. Although disgraceful, it has to be admitted thatthe status Quo on droneattacks has continued for yrs.
At the end of the day it is probably advisable for both parties to sit down and resolve their differences, accept each others sovereign interests and work out a framework acceptable to both which is politically and financially suitable for both to implement.
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