1) being loyal you will die for the country while arse kissing you will only talk about it...
2) being loyal you will help in its development while arse kissing well you will only kiss arse and say good things...
3) being loyal you will know when your country is doing good coz you will be a part of it...arse kissing you will be kissing REAL arse to get a position!
4) being loyal you dont need to publicize it while arse kissing you do
5) being loyal doesnt always mean you will agree to everything the country is doing even if it is going in a hell hole or killing innocents while arse kissing...you go yes boss we kill children it is ok np!